# Being Real **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Journals\ **Created:** [February 27, 2014, 1:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/being-real/61229 "2014-02-27T01:31:42Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 17\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Be\_Real](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/be_real/32/2295_2.png) [@Be\_Real](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Be_Real)\ **Post date:** [February 27, 2014, 1:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/being-real/61229/1 "2014-02-27T01:31:42Z")
So my journey in [pheromones](https://a314.com/) has come full circle. I began with Androtics two years ago, branched out to other vendors and have since returned to this place. Androtics is currently one of two vendors whose products have delivered incredible impact, and that I would trust my money with. I’m very happy with the journey that mones have taken me on. I’ve already found my holy grail and now I mostly seek to restock my products instead of trying out the newest hype. Of course, I still test new things every now and then to freshen things up. I start this journal for a couple of reasons. Firstly, I want to help the people who are in genuine search of what works best for them and are in the same position I was two years ago. Secondly, I want to give back to the community and company that helped me develop and improve my life. Finally and most importantly…I want to get that reporting user discount! So let’s get started. Yesterday I wore three drops A314 Rev 32 Oil and one spray TUTH. Oil applied to neck and TUTH to chest. I noticed I was rather softly spoken. My movement was extremely fluid and purposeful. People apologised to me for minor things, and I had high compliance whenever I requested somebody to do something. I noticed that with the younger crowd (18-19 year olds) there wasn’t much conversation. I had a chat with a 19 year old girl and I asked her to guess my age - she thought I was 6 years older than I really am. There is a mature vibe with this for sure, but that doesn’t decrease its attraction properties. Fun, youthful and energetic is one style to pick up younger girls and I know it works for some people. However, I don’t think it’s the only way. My game is all about being smooth and unreactive. I never fail a shit test. I enjoy turning the game on its head and having the girls chase me instead. I frequently catch girls sneaking peeks at me with this mix on. Blondes especially. I spot a girl at the coffee shop giving me a smile so I say hi to her. Turns out she’s seen me around before. I invite her to a drink on the spot and we chat for an hour or so about all sorts of things. She’s a really fun girl but there isn’t a spark there for me. Though she gave me her number, I’m not going to be chasing it. ---
**Author:** ![Be\_Real](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/be_real/32/2295_2.png) [@Be\_Real](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Be_Real)\ **Post date:** [March 2, 2014, 5:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/being-real/61229/2 "2014-03-02T17:36:39Z")
One drop A314, one drop TUTH I’m dating a girl who I’ve always used A314 and TUTH around. She’s a very inexperienced girl whose lived a very sheltered and overprotected life. She previously dropped hints about us getting physical but revealed that she’s never really done anything like this before. The date goes well and I take her back to my place. The momentum was there to seal the deal but I waited too long before escalating, and by that time she’d gotten a bit nervous. She was inexperienced and although she wanted to try new things, it was all moving a little too fast for her. As for pheromonal effects over the night: Dilated pupils Crush effect Physical closeness (but mostly hand-holding, hugging etc) I have no doubt that this girl has fallen for me. Now I feel a bit stuck. I was in this situation with another girl earlier this year. Both are such very pretty, intelligent, independent and active girls but there was a certain sexual element missing. They were like fairytale princesses, chaste and pure and you want to hug and hold their hands but you couldn’t imagine fucking them. They’re loyal and loving and perfect for a guy who wants to get married. A314 attracts these girls. Don’t know why. I know it’s some guys’ dream to have these sort of women but it’s not mine. I’m no good with long-term commitments - I’ve never had a girlfriend for longer than two months and I don’t plan on getting married for at least ten years. I’m in my early twenties and I just want to find a girl who wants a bit of fun. Conclusion 1: A314 seems to pull in really nice girls, and it gives the vibe of someone trustworthy, protecting, experienced and able to show them something new. However, the good girls require you to escalate, and can be hesitant if you don’t ramp up comfort first. Of course, my seduction skills need some work too. Conclusion 2: A314 self effects make me extremely chill and as a result I’m not as sexually aggressive. I hoped that TUTH would bring more aggression into the balance but it hasn’t worked out like I expected. ---
**Author:** ![Be\_Real](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/be_real/32/2295_2.png) [@Be\_Real](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Be_Real)\ **Post date:** [March 9, 2014, 10:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/being-real/61229/3 "2014-03-09T22:36:36Z")
Had a busy week so I haven’t had the opportunity to update my journal. Here’s a quick summary on [P74](https://pheromonelabs.com/product/p74/). I’ve tested it at 10mcg and 20mcg on and off for two months now. It’s a massive double edged sword - it really takes the intimidating edge off A314+TUTH, but sometimes overly so. You’ll see why.. Firstly, it’s like crack for girls - they really love it. Instant rapport, shields down. This girl I met at a party, extremely hot, approached by 15+ guys over the night. She kept coming back to me and although I never even told her my name, she tracked me down and added me on Facebook the next day. Just to mention, A314+TUTH is already a very potent combo for me. I get approached by girls, they bump, grind and boob me. However P74 adds something to take the interaction beyond a physical level - it adds something more romantic. It’s like going from hot stud to hot prince charming. I’ve never been rejected wearing this. However, P74 removes a lot of the alphaness when it comes to guys. With A314 I’ve NEVER been checked for ID when going into clubs. There were some funny occasions where the bouncer let me in but stopped my friends and checked their ID. However, adding P74 (much to my surprise) removed this privilege. Secondly, I’ve was approached by 4 gay guys (one openly asked if I wanted to shag him) in one night while wearing P74, so it makes me wary that it might have a gay vibe. Finally, while wearing A314, TUTH, P74 and P83 this weekend some guys tried to start a fight with me in a club. They got kicked out before anything escalated, but it almost ruined the night. P74 - use with caution! Dosages: Two drops A314, one spray TUTH, P74 10 or 20 mcg, P83 15 or 30 mcg. All applied to neck/throat/chest P.s. I haven’t noticed any significant difference between 10 and 20 mcg. It seems like having any P74 at all completely alters your pheromonal signal. I’m tempted to try this at 5mcg ---
**Author:** ![Himeros](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/himeros/32/2325_2.png) [@Himeros](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Himeros)\ **Post date:** [March 10, 2014, 4:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/being-real/61229/4 "2014-03-10T16:47:41Z")
I like your reporting style. What are your ratio’s for the A314 + TUTH + [P74](https://pheromonelabs.com/product/p74/) combo? ---
**Author:** ![Be\_Real](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/be_real/32/2295_2.png) [@Be\_Real](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Be_Real)\ **Post date:** [March 10, 2014, 11:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/being-real/61229/5 "2014-03-10T23:28:49Z")
> [@Himeros](#): > > I like your reporting style. > > What are your ratio’s for the A314 + TUTH + P74 combo? Thanks. As I said in the post: two drops A314 (rev 32) and one spray TUTH forms the base. Then 10mcg [P74](https://a314.com/product/p74/) is enough to produce effects (both positive and negative) - 20mcg delivers about the same results. ---
**Author:** ![Be\_Real](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/be_real/32/2295_2.png) [@Be\_Real](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Be_Real)\ **Post date:** [March 16, 2014, 4:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/being-real/61229/6 "2014-03-16T04:53:19Z")
One 30ml bottle of [P83](https://pheromonelabs.com/product/p83/) finished and I’ve still not entirely grasped its effects. I can say one thing though - there are few products that I can honestly claim to have got me laid (i.e. product did most of the work, I just sat back and chilled), and P83 is one of them. There’s definitely a space-closing aspect to it. Disinhibition…not so much to be honest. There have been other mones I wore and girls say “I feel like I’m drunk..” while completely sober. Nothing like that with P83 though, so I don’t think there’s disinhibition with this. In fact, what I experienced with this is what I thought TAA would be like - everybody was smiling and happy. Smooths out the edges of A314 without losing status. Crazy amount of DIHL when paired with A314, and it hits great in clubs but also during daytime. Projection is very good, and I find it hits best when I spray it on top of A314 application spot. Don’t be surprised if you find girls opening you, whether directly, indirectly or “accidentally”.. Dosages: My bottle is 15mcg/spray. Two sprays is my sweet spot. Pair with a status (A314) and a sexual (TUTH) for best results. A side note: as much as I love A314 and its effects (girls open me, try to chat me up, 80% of women I interact with show STRONG IOIs), it’s not really getting me much action compared to other stuff I own. I feel so aloof and “high value” with A314 on that I lose my killer instinct for seduction. I don’t feel motivated to pull the trigger, go in for the kiss, whatever. No escalation = no seduction. I’ve tried adding a sexual (hence TUTH combo, or NPA) but it only helps slightly. If anybody knows how to modify A314 to ramp up the sexual aggression, please send me a PM or post here. ---
**Author:** ![Be\_Real](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/be_real/32/2295_2.png) [@Be\_Real](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Be_Real)\ **Post date:** [April 1, 2014, 2:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/being-real/61229/7 "2014-04-01T14:48:32Z")
Been playing around with TAA, and wow, I’m just blown away by this molecule. [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) can’t hold a candle to this. I definitely get the mood uplifting effects. It also makes me more approachable and more inclined to approach others, without lowering status (when mixed with A314). It’s an excellent buffer to A314+TUTH mix and puts people at ease. My new best nighttime mix is: One or two drops A314 Two sprays TUTH 10mcg P74 30mcg P83 50mcg TAA My friends and I hit a club. I go to the bar exactly twice over the course of the night (I don’t drink much). The first time, a girl to my left turned and checked me out five or six times. I said Hi and she asked for a sip of my drink, but before I could take things any further some of my friends arrived and I lost her. The second time, a guy opened me and bought me a drink, saying stuff like “I bet you could just walk up to any girl here” and “I know you’re a confident person”. That got kinda creepy, I said thanks and left him be. On the dancefloor this was even crazier. Girls would walk past me, freeze, then come back and invade our group. At one point I had four random girls grinding on me at the same time, one of whom planted a firm 5 second kiss on my cheek. Not bad for a stranger. My friends (who, unfortunately, were all ignored by the girls) were just stunned by the events of the night.. More testing to come.. ---
**Author:** ![Be\_Real](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/be_real/32/2295_2.png) [@Be\_Real](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Be_Real)\ **Post date:** [April 4, 2014, 6:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/being-real/61229/8 "2014-04-04T18:27:46Z")
Overdosed hard the other day. My stupid logic was “if two sprays TUTH was great in a club, maybe I should try three sprays on campus!” Well, as you might guess it didn’t work out. The exact mix was one drop A314, three sprays TUTH, one spray [P74](https://a314.com/product/p74/) and one spray TAA. I thought the P74 and TAA would help to buffer the TUTH, but guess I was wrong. Had a group project and it felt like people often ignored my presence. Not in a malicious or deliberate way, but more like I just blended into the background. I’m usually quite dominant in group situations. Still had quite a lot of eye contact from girls just walking around campus. I don’t think of that as a hit anymore. In one lecture I sat near (one seat between us) a girl I know and started chatting to her. She didn’t seem at all keen to talk, and while I was distracted by another friend she moved away! That’s when I realised my mix was probably making people feel uncomfortable.. I was more social than usual but conversations were almost always extremely awkward. Eventually people would just move away from me. Won’t be doing this again. ---
**Author:** ![lwatkins](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lwatkins/32/472_2.png) [@lwatkins](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/lwatkins)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2014, 1:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/being-real/61229/9 "2014-04-05T13:34:11Z")
> [@Be\_Real](#): > > Overdosed hard the other day. My stupid logic was “if two sprays TUTH was great in a club, maybe I should try three sprays on campus!” Well, as you might guess it didn’t work out. > > The exact mix was one drop A314, three sprays TUTH, one spray P74 and one spray TAA. I thought the P74 and TAA would help to buffer the TUTH, but guess I was wrong. > > Had a group project and it felt like people often ignored my presence. Not in a malicious or deliberate way, but more like I just blended into the background. I’m usually quite dominant in group situations. > > Still had quite a lot of eye contact from girls just walking around campus. I don’t think of that as a hit anymore. > > In one lecture I sat near (one seat between us) a girl I know and started chatting to her. She didn’t seem at all keen to talk, and while I was distracted by another friend she moved away! That’s when I realised my mix was probably making people feel uncomfortable.. > > I was more social than usual but conversations were almost always extremely awkward. Eventually people would just move away from me. Won’t be doing this again. Try 2 drops A314, 2x tuth, 15 mcg p74, 7.5 mcgs taa I did this yesterday with 2x IG instead of taa, plus 5mgs p102, 2.5 mcgs p75 and it went over very very well w/ my wife’s crowd of female (and one gay) coworkers at happy hour. Sever women kept gettting closer and were pretty much eye fucking me the whole time. Lots of arm touches and we should make plans to do this… Also no jelousy from the wife, and she was ready to lock the bedroom door as soon asmwe got back. Win. You may get away with 3x + tuth in this if you add 10 mcgs p75, or some tac, tak. I am out of tac right now, but i will try 3x tuth with 7.5 mcgs p75 again to see if it od’s. ---
**Author:** ![Be\_Real](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/be_real/32/2295_2.png) [@Be\_Real](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Be_Real)\ **Post date:** [April 6, 2014, 8:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/being-real/61229/10 "2014-04-06T20:30:27Z")
> [@lwatkins](#): > > Try 2 drops A314, 2x tuth, 15 mcg p74, 7.5 mcgs taa > > I did this yesterday with 2x IG instead of taa, plus 5mgs p102, 2.5 mcgs p75 and it went over very very well w/ my wife’s crowd of female (and one gay) coworkers at happy hour. Sever women kept gettting closer and were pretty much eye fucking me the whole time. Lots of arm touches and we should make plans to do this… Also no jelousy from the wife, and she was ready to lock the bedroom door as soon asmwe got back. Win. > > You may get away with 3x + tuth in this if you add 10 mcgs p75, > or some tac, tak. I am out of tac right now, but i will try 3x tuth with 7.5 mcgs p75 again to see if it od’s. Nice one, I’ll give it a try. I realised after looking through my notes that TUTH has been working great…when I’m hanging out with older women (25-30). But when I’m on campus it mostly repels girls (18-22). I’ve found A314 solo to be much better for the daytime with young girls. ---
**Author:** ![Be\_Real](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/be_real/32/2295_2.png) [@Be\_Real](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Be_Real)\ **Post date:** [April 17, 2014, 7:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/being-real/61229/11 "2014-04-17T19:17:41Z")
Been tied up with work lately and haven’t had the chance to test mones. Thought I’d take this opportunity to talk about some Androtics Scents instead. Honestly, as far as scents go Androtics has some of the best of any vendor. There’s nothing I seriously dislike from the selection. FF21 - Bit too strong for office/classroom. Fine for outside wear, better for clubs and bars. People definitely pick up on the scent and it draws comments. FF22 - Floral and somewhat metallic, not my type of cologne. The only one I’m not keen on. Summer Blue aka FF23 - Now we’re talking! Absolutely beautiful, fresh summer scent. My favourite base scent for daytime wear. Lasts a good amount of time and diffuses well. Great for “light” molecules such as TAA. Akuto - This is another great one. I associate this with A314 and it’s perfect for the alpha base. Only problem - sometimes it lasts two hours while other times it does 8+. Don’t know why, but it can be annoying. [Neroli](https://a314.com/product-category/scented/androtics-neroli/) - The perfect scent for putatives and anything you might want to layer on. The scent is subtle but certainly detectable, and it lasts surprisingly long! If the molecule may require upwards of four sprays, neroli is the way to go. ---
**Author:** ![lwatkins](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lwatkins/32/472_2.png) [@lwatkins](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/lwatkins)\ **Post date:** [April 18, 2014, 11:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/being-real/61229/12 "2014-04-18T11:59:40Z")
Thanks for the scent comments! I really like Akuto w/ IG or A314. It seems to go so well over Rone, but I find it’s the only thing I can smell for a few hours after I put it on. My wife will often put her nose right into my neck when I’m wearing it. Like she’s huffing it. Two sprays of it is kind of the limit for me. [Neroli](https://a314.com/product-category/scented/androtics-neroli/) - I can do maybe 5 sprays of this max. 2-3 sprays seems optimal. I’m really curious about Grapefuit. People seem to like it almost as much as Neroli. F21 I found really strong in Ammo, despite that supposedly it’s a very light concentration, and I was feeling ify about it, but my wife loved it. I sprayed some Ammo on a few of my sweaters (100% wool) back in October and they STILL smell like F21. My wife started borrowing those sweaters to wear to work (which she never did before), and she still continues to borrow them all the time. ---
**Author:** ![Mrdimes](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/50afbb/32.png) [@Mrdimes](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mrdimes)\ **Post date:** [April 22, 2014, 10:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/being-real/61229/13 "2014-04-22T10:17:43Z")
about p74… do you think it makes you seem like weak/gay/pushover? or did it just make people want to be your friend? ---
**Author:** ![lwatkins](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lwatkins/32/472_2.png) [@lwatkins](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/lwatkins)\ **Post date:** [April 22, 2014, 11:56am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/being-real/61229/14 "2014-04-22T11:56:33Z")
> [@Mrdimes](#): > > about p74… do you think it makes you seem like weak/gay/pushover? > > or did it just make people want to be your friend? It makes people want to give you things, do things for you, and be your best friend. Something that’s so funny about P74 is the free stuff I get. 20 mcgs and up it is like super-glue, it bonds with everyone, they feel super close to you - the effect is unisex, you definitely have a male buddy effect around other guys where you can’t shake them off. Around 15 mcgs is still enough to bond w/ ladies without giving up too much power and seems to help avoid the male buddy effect. You prob. want to add a 'mone that adds focus / adrenaline spike to make it more memorable at that or lower. Of course with any phero, you want to adjust the intensity for the environment - using outdoor w/ a breeze is very different than using in a car with the windows rolled up. A thing about power (for ex. managing people) is that it requires some distance, but not too much distance. I find that for ex. P83, and prob. others, that reduce distance and dis-inhibit, also give up some of the “do what I say” power. You start to give up some alpha control over collective action, and it becomes more "do what you want’. Experiment at adding Rone to P74 and other bonding P’s, to add some intimidation, but not too much that you can’t buffer it. A touch of eNone, just enough to send a hint. The earlier number P’s are I think mostly pure synthesis, although some pure synthesis were added much later in the series. The pure ones are more consistent in action, however the “impurities” in the rough synthesis are typically also pheromonally active and can either steer things in a new direction, or cause opposite of desired effect, or in some cases it’s actually the impurities that have pheromonal action at all, hence you see some P’s work great at 0.5 mcgs, and others work best at 45+ mcgs, even 150 mcgs. These are a good place to start - Golden 13 molecules: TAA, P74, P75, P83, P91 (5mcg 50mcg), P94 (5ml 50mcg), P95 (5ml 50mcg), P102, [P130](https://pheromonelabs.com/product/p130/), TAC, TAK, AndrosteRONE, AndrosteNONE Any of the T molecules clearly do something at less than 1 mcgs even - some of them may actually be best at that range in some applications. ---
**Author:** ![Be\_Real](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/be_real/32/2295_2.png) [@Be\_Real](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Be_Real)\ **Post date:** [April 30, 2014, 9:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/being-real/61229/15 "2014-04-30T21:07:47Z")
> [@Mrdimes](#): > > about p74… do you think it makes you seem like weak/gay/pushover? > > or did it just make people want to be your friend? It doesn’t make you seem weak or a pushover - that’s going a bit too far. Due to its vibe of approachability, comfort and friendliness, the “drawback” of [P74](https://pheromonelabs.com/product/p74/) is that any fear or intimidation is displaced. This means people can sometimes make jokes at your expense, not take your seriously, or challenge your authority. At worst, people will tool with you or ignore you when you’re trying to speak. Consider a fairly cool guy, let’s use James Franco as an example. Anyone would probably enjoy hanging out and chilling with him. However, fact of the matter is you’re much more likely to make a joke at Franco’ expense than, say, Jason Statham. Why? Because Franco seems chilled, laid-back and friendly. Whereas Jason Statham will probably kick your ass. Statham is not a P74 guy. That doesn’t mean P74 is less attractive, in the same way that James Franco is by no means less attractive than Jason Statham. Would you one-up your best friend? Would you one-up your boss? Iwatkins is spot on with the “power requires some distance”. If your boss _is_ your best friend then you’re less likely to be afraid of fucking up your work. Put on P74 and people care less about the repercussions of fucking with you. Double-edged sword. ---
**Author:** ![Be\_Real](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/be_real/32/2295_2.png) [@Be\_Real](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Be_Real)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2014, 2:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/being-real/61229/16 "2014-05-02T14:45:54Z")
**[P75](https://a314.com/product/p75/) Solo Report** 10mcg P75 I head to the library on campus to study and on the way I feel massively agitated and on edge. As though I had to _do something_. Anyways, not a hit but one girl was walking out of a cafe when she saw me and stared at me, causing her to trip over the step, lol. Studying goes horribly. Couldn’t focus at all. None of the words on the paper made sense. Just felt like I had to get up and do something else. Charged up like a rhino. It wasn’t a horny feeling, more like **“danger is near, get pumped with adrenaline”** feeling. Wanted to jump off a plane or break something or grab a girl and fuck her. Fight or flight. I hold up my hands, and they are shaking. I took a seat next to a girl and not long after I arrived she turned and stared at me for like 5 sec. I didn’t reciprocate, which was a shame as she left 5 minutes later. Went to the break area to have some food and I noticed plenty of stares from girls near me and a few around the room. A friend spots me and comes over to chat, and we have a fairly normal conversation. She asks me how my recent date went (badly) and there was some minor flirting, but no solid attraction. She’s extremely, extremely ditzy but my guess is 50% of it is an act. Altogether, the conversation was neither awkward nor aggressive and took my mind off the weird P75 effects. Back to studying. Finished reading my book and my mind turns to my latest ex. I scribbled her name repeatedly on my paper in a frenzy. I wasn’t even focused on her per say, I just had to scribble something to satiate my desire for movement. Eventually I just gave up revision and went home. It seems P75 is a massive motivation and productivity boost, but NOT for tasks which require extreme focus. ---
**Author:** ![lwatkins](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lwatkins/32/472_2.png) [@lwatkins](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/lwatkins)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2014, 4:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/being-real/61229/17 "2014-05-02T16:18:22Z")
“she saw me and stared at me, causing her to trip over the step, lol.” I see this ALL THE TIME. People drop things like crazy. They loose their train of thought in the middle of a sentence. For men, it’s that feeling that the jock bully has arrived, and they might get their ass kicked… they will kiss up or leave. They don’t want to test you, they think you’ll win. Increase the dose enough, and they will make distance. For women it’s rather the reverse, it’s oh, I feel safe with him. They enjoy it. If anyone gives me trouble, he’ll kick their ass for me. She thinks you’ll win. Increase the dose, I think they just feel safer. Your perceived masculine strength seems to coax them toward a more girly and feminine character. You may notice their voices go a bit higher, yours a bit lower. They feel the anxiety not when you approach, but rather when you exit and the cloud fades. Hence the attachment dynamic. When I first started wearing it I got the same feeling, your body doesn’t know it’s you and you sense danger. I could feel it in my gut, some anxiety tension. I can see how that will throw off your focus. But, when I wore it all the time, I got used to it. Your body realizes it’s you, and you acclimate. It leaves a mark of confidence on your personality. Keep testing. When you see a girl start talking to her in the first 3-4 sec. Ask her to do something for you. Some task. Gain compliance.