# being the new one :) **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [March 1, 2009, 4:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/being-the-new-one/26602 "2009-03-01T04:16:44Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 15\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Diver](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/858c86/32.png) [@Diver](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Diver)\ **Post date:** [March 1, 2009, 4:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/being-the-new-one/26602/1 "2009-03-01T04:16:44Z")
Hi there, well after I wrote already a thread about some questions I would like to tell something about me and why I ask here my questions. 🙂 A shy 27 year old german, who has normally some self-confidence but looses it totally if it goes for girls. I know and do my job very well, even if its paid way to low, but its fun mostly, thats why I don’t quite it. But even there are some people who get more attention from the boss, like e.g.: theres one 19 year old guy who makes every day with the boss, who’s ideas are tried, even if you know they’re bad. If I come with a joke or a brilliant money-bringing idea the boss will only laugh about the idea… And to speak about the girls, I tend to be shy around girls. I’m not the one to start the talking if the girl makes not the “first friendly signs”. I have one “good friend”, I know her now already for almost 3 years, we’re going to the cinema on a regular base, I keep an eye on her pets, repaired and bought a new computer… you get the idea. But normally somewhere at this stage would start atleast the romantic stage (not to speak about sexual acts). But there goes nothing at all. I have the feeling that she only needs to know how it is to cuddle with somebody, but she won’t try it. Thats the thing why I write here, maybe some magical spray can help me one way or another? Had the idea since I saw “The Gilroy” 😃 I really would appreciate the impact on that girl! kind regards! ---
**Author:** ![future777](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/future777/32/2258_2.png) [@future777](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/future777)\ **Post date:** [March 1, 2009, 4:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/being-the-new-one/26602/2 "2009-03-01T04:23:09Z")
Hello and welcome to the forum! Haha yeah, the gilroy has turned many people on to the idea of mones. The effects are not as strong as that though.. mones are a greattool but they are not magic potions. So if I understand correctly, you know a girl very well but you need something to push you out of that “friend” zone? If so, ammo would be a good choice. It is an attraction mone that many users here swear by. For work, it sounds like you could use some extra respect. A314 would be a great product for you, because it really makes people respect and look up to you. I hope this helps. ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [March 1, 2009, 4:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/being-the-new-one/26602/3 "2009-03-01T04:24:24Z")
Hi Diver, and welcome to the forum!! Instant Shine and [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) would definitely help you, if you tend to be shy. Phero’s are not a magic potion though, you do need to do some of the work to make things happen. They do however, make doing that work easier and less scary. What other things would you like to accomplish in your life? Pheros also can help in work and family/platonic situations as well. Warm regards, Sillykitty ---
**Author:** ![future777](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/future777/32/2258_2.png) [@future777](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/future777)\ **Post date:** [March 1, 2009, 4:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/being-the-new-one/26602/4 "2009-03-01T04:26:55Z")
> [@Sillykitty](#): > > Phero’s are not a magic potion Haha funny how we both mentioned that. ---
**Author:** ![Diver](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/858c86/32.png) [@Diver](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Diver)\ **Post date:** [March 1, 2009, 4:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/being-the-new-one/26602/5 "2009-03-01T04:39:12Z")
> [@future777](#): > > Hello and welcome to the forum! > > Haha yeah, the gilroy has turned many people on to the idea of mones. The effects are not as strong as that though.. mones are a greattool but they are not magic potions. > > So if I understand correctly, you know a girl very well but you need something to push you out of that “friend” zone? If so, ammo would be a good choice. It is an attraction mone that many users here swear by. > > For work, it sounds like you could use some extra respect. A314 would be a great product for you, because it really makes people respect and look up to you. > > I hope this helps. Yep, I thought that its not that strong. But still, if it holds only the half of what I read here its already a good help. Yes, I need something to bringthe friendship “further”, if it works. If not I should look out for others, huh? Did I mentioned that she is 24? Not too old for me, or? The prob is, I’m not the clubbing-guy, more going into scene-bars, etc. I like to be more the DJ, not the one dancing to the music. 🙂 Well, the work thing isn’t that important atm, but still thanks for the advise! Looks like I spent my lil money for the girl first. 🙂 Wouldn’t the Ammo be a huge sledge for one girl or is it just right for an enviroment where you can concentrate on just that girl? Looks like I didn’t read enough wich spray works for wich situation. I found this pretty good: > [@Phero color chart by MuskCloud: a visual guide to choosing mixes](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/phero-color-chart-by-muskcloud/1833): > > MuskCloud, I uploaded this in photobucket since your attachment was never approved. I hope you don’t mind. Once again, Give all props to MuskCloud. He put a lot of work into this. the chart tells me it would be a good combo to use some turn up the heat together with one of the others, though not sure if Ammo or maybe [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/)? The last time she got “a lil bit romantic” she spoke about Brokeback Mountain… like all girls she has a thing for gay guys… heh. Mostly it doesn’t get really into this direction. Most of the time she keeps complaining about her family or her job, or is just some kind of pissed because of getting her period… woman… kind regards! ---
**Author:** ![Diver](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/858c86/32.png) [@Diver](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Diver)\ **Post date:** [March 1, 2009, 4:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/being-the-new-one/26602/6 "2009-03-01T04:43:07Z")
> [@Sillykitty](#): > > Hi Diver, and welcome to the forum!! > > Instant Shine and Instant Openness would definitely help you, if you tend to be shy. Phero’s are not a magic potion though, you do need to do some of the work to make things happen. They do however, make doing that work easier and less scary. > > What other things would you like to accomplish in your life? Pheros also can help in work and family/platonic situations as well. > > Warm regards, > Sillykitty Well I don’t need much to win alot self-confidence, but the less bit had been absent lately. I think with some “magic” help I could get over it. Hm, nothing that important at the moment. I mentioned the Job-thing already, but as long the job itself makes fun I can live with it. Can work on that later. It sucks more to have a free weekend and no girl to share all the free time… kind regards! ---
**Author:** ![future777](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/future777/32/2258_2.png) [@future777](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/future777)\ **Post date:** [March 1, 2009, 4:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/being-the-new-one/26602/7 "2009-03-01T04:48:07Z")
Well, ammo is a good product because it can be used in many situations. The thing about turn up the heat is that it is only best when used at bars or similar. For your lady friend though, I think ammo would work well. [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) works very well with instant shine. Unfortunately instant female magic is out of stock at the moment. ---
**Author:** ![Diver](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/858c86/32.png) [@Diver](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Diver)\ **Post date:** [March 1, 2009, 4:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/being-the-new-one/26602/8 "2009-03-01T04:55:21Z")
> [@future777](#): > > Well, ammo is a good product because it can be used in many situations. The thing about turn up the heat is that it is only best when used at bars or similar. For your lady friend though, I think ammo would work well. Ammo works very well with instant shine. > Unfortunately instant female magic is out of stock at the moment. Ah, okay. I thought turn up the heat is good for breaking the ice “after” you started talking? Its a complicated atmosphere with her… can’t describe it. Oh well, I think I will try it with your idea. Is there a significant difference between instant female magic and instant shine? ---
**Author:** ![future777](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/future777/32/2258_2.png) [@future777](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/future777)\ **Post date:** [March 1, 2009, 5:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/being-the-new-one/26602/9 "2009-03-01T05:02:02Z")
[Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/) makes ladies feel comfortable and relaxed around you, while Instant Shine is a more social mone that makes you seem fun and vibrant. It has the effect of making people really enjoy being around you. You could certainly try Turn up the Heat if you want, as it might produce great results. It could also produce not so good results in this situation. Ammo is a safer choice, because it can be used in daily life, and is not so heavily sexual. Strongly sexual is not always better, as it can make some people feel uncomfortable. ---
**Author:** ![Diver](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/858c86/32.png) [@Diver](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Diver)\ **Post date:** [March 1, 2009, 5:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/being-the-new-one/26602/10 "2009-03-01T05:47:07Z")
> [@future777](#): > > Instant Female Magic makes ladies feel comfortable and relaxed around you, while Instant Shine is a more social mone that makes you seem fun and vibrant. It has the effect of making people really enjoy being around you. > > You could certainly try Turn up the Heat if you want, as it might produce great results. It could also produce not so good results in this situation. Ammo is a safer choice, because it can be used in daily life, and is not so heavily sexual. Strongly sexual is not always better, as it can make some people feel uncomfortable. Ah, I understand. Well I will think about it the next few hours… maybe I get a better idea after I come out of my bed again 🙂 kind regards! ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [March 1, 2009, 8:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/being-the-new-one/26602/11 "2009-03-01T20:47:39Z")
> [@future777](#): > > Haha funny how we both mentioned that. Hey, great minds think alike 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Diver](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/858c86/32.png) [@Diver](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Diver)\ **Post date:** [March 2, 2009, 1:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/being-the-new-one/26602/12 "2009-03-02T01:59:05Z")
> [@Sillykitty](#): > > Hey, great minds think alike 😉 If I may ask the great minds again? 🙂 If it helps even in the job, got someone any good reactions in situations like buying a car or something..? Searching for it returned me only ideas how to apply the -mones to the car-ventilation… heh. btw: you test the stuff in your family, too? Atleast your signature says… heh. Got any feedback yet? ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2009, 1:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/being-the-new-one/26602/13 "2009-03-03T01:14:32Z")
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 Yes mones have been useful when people buy cars I recall a few members mentioning it. IH, A314 Ishine would be good choices in this area. I suggest AMMO for a sexy interesting mildly arousing vibe. TUTH comes on really strong and can work once you have established a comfort zone but I wouldn’t lead with it. A314 is a excellent choice for work I also suggest IH for a close comfortable connected feeling. A lot of the times this is all you need to escalate the relationship. Girls need to feel comfort to act on arousal. If you have any questions just ask. **Your GC is on its way 😃** Tisha Hostess/Guide ---
**Author:** ![Diver](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/858c86/32.png) [@Diver](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Diver)\ **Post date:** [March 5, 2009, 7:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/being-the-new-one/26602/14 "2009-03-05T19:03:05Z")
Hey, yes it arrived this morning. Pretty fast. 🙂 And thanks for the gift, too! Also if I’m not sure what Spaceland is for. Can’t wait to try it this weekend! 🙂 Btw. has it its same effect on me as it has on other people? Or has it mainly to do with the gender of the person? ---
**Author:** ![magnum](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/magnum/32/1423_2.png) [@magnum](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/magnum)\ **Post date:** [March 6, 2009, 3:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/being-the-new-one/26602/15 "2009-03-06T03:43:16Z")
spaceland is a high dose of alpha-androstenol, it makes you and the people around you feel funny and a bit spaced out… the socials (shine, openness, honesty, spaceland…) are not gender-specific while -none products like AMMO and TUTH have gender specific reactions… …don’t forget to try one product at a time until you know your optmal dose have fun!