# Belated Hello from SofaKingLive **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [June 27, 2011, 4:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/belated-hello-from-sofakinglive/50958 "2011-06-27T04:32:20Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 11\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![sofakinglive](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e0b2c6/32.png) [@sofakinglive](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sofakinglive)\ **Post date:** [June 27, 2011, 4:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/belated-hello-from-sofakinglive/50958/1 "2011-06-27T04:32:20Z")
Hello, My experience with [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) goes back a few years. I started off using the dreaded Pherlure, and honestly it worked for me. I only purchased one bottle but my experiences were amazing. Soon after I finished the bottle, I got into a LTR and hadn’t thought about pheromones until the beginning of June (1 LTR and a couple STRs later). Here’s my story: I recently and abruptly found myself alienated from my better half. ☹ After being in this LTR, I found it difficult to adjust to this weird place I’m in now. I still don’t like it and I really miss her. I’m not from this city and I never made friends so I needed something that would assist me getting back to my more social self. David D. and friends helped me out a lot in terms of reestablishing my self-confidence and I did a lot of soul searching, meditation, exercise, and studying to develop much more maturity and become a better person. I can honestly say that I am a better man now than I was before and I want to further improve. So I felt like I’ve done the internal construction and I wanted to show my significant other the changes I’ve made in hopes of continuing our relationship. I know what I did, but I realized that I needed to have a rapport if I was going to succeed. I know I can be an asshole (I can justify it most of the time) but women can be unforgiving regardless; hence, enter the pheromones. The plan was to get the ‘mones so that when I met her, she would be more open to the person I am now instead of focusing on the negativity of the person I was before. (This thought process is logical to me as a man, but I’m open to correction from any women.) This leaves us to where I am now… I haven’t seen her since the end of March. Since then, I’ve been trying to get her to talk to me, yet alone see me without any success. So now I have Pherlure, AMMO, TUTH, IH, IO, IS, and MX399 sitting next to my Issey Miyaki and John Paul Gautier. I’m sure you all are able to understand the investment I’ve made with the above purchases and I’m not one to waste money, so I have spent these past few weeks experimenting. I apologize for the extended and somewhat personal introduction. I look forward to starting my journal and sharing what I have learned thus far. Also, since I’ve been a member here for nearly a month, I want to thank everyone who has already and continues to share their own experiences to help decrease the learning curve, and I want to thank Androtics for their commitment to customer satisfaction, amazing shipping times (less than 36hrs from CA to IL), and for the bonus items I’ve received with my orders. SofaKingLive ---
**Author:** ![PheroJack](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pherojack/32/527_2.png) [@PheroJack](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PheroJack)\ **Post date:** [June 27, 2011, 5:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/belated-hello-from-sofakinglive/50958/2 "2011-06-27T05:45:52Z")
> [@sofakinglive](#): > > Hello, > > My experience with pheromones goes back a few years. I started off using the dreaded Pherlure, and honestly it worked for me. I only purchased one bottle but my experiences were amazing. Soon after I finished the bottle, I got into a LTR and hadn’t thought about pheromones until the beginning of June (1 LTR and a couple STRs later). > > Here’s my story: I recently and abruptly found myself alienated from my better half. ☹ After being in this LTR, I found it difficult to adjust to this weird place I’m in now. I still don’t like it and I really miss her. I’m not from this city and I never made friends so I needed something that would assist me getting back to my more social self. David D. and friends helped me out a lot in terms of reestablishing my self-confidence and I did a lot of soul searching, meditation, exercise, and studying to develop much more maturity and become a better person. I can honestly say that I am a better man now than I was before and I want to further improve. > > So I felt like I’ve done the internal construction and I wanted to show my significant other the changes I’ve made in hopes of continuing our relationship. I know what I did, but I realized that I needed to have a rapport if I was going to succeed. I know I can be an asshole (I can justify it most of the time) but women can be unforgiving regardless; hence, enter the pheromones. > > The plan was to get the ‘mones so that when I met her, she would be more open to the person I am now instead of focusing on the negativity of the person I was before. (This thought process is logical to me as a man, but I’m open to correction from any women.) This leaves us to where I am now… I haven’t seen her since the end of March. Since then, I’ve been trying to get her to talk to me, yet alone see me without any success. So now I have Pherlure, AMMO, TUTH, IH, IO, IS, and MX399 sitting next to my Issey Miyaki and John Paul Gautier. I’m sure you all are able to understand the investment I’ve made with the above purchases and I’m not one to waste money, so I have spent these past few weeks experimenting. > > I apologize for the extended and somewhat personal introduction. I look forward to starting my journal and sharing what I have learned thus far. Also, since I’ve been a member here for nearly a month, I want to thank everyone who has already and continues to share their own experiences to help decrease the learning curve, and I want to thank Androtics for their commitment to customer satisfaction, amazing shipping times (less than 36hrs from CA to IL), and for the bonus items I’ve received with my orders. > > SofaKingLive Welcome there my friend 🙂 Like people always say, you are better off meeting new women than trying to fix what’s already broken with the ones you know. Seriously you have a good arsenal and you should profit from that to meet new people. I see you’ve got MX399 😮 you are one of the FIRSt people to ever get hands on this mix! Hope you test on it soon. For instance I would say go with [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) and a combination of socials to meet new women out there… get over your approach anxiety and you will feel a lot better. Nice introduction btw and looking forward to read your journal ---
**Author:** ![Boudicca](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/boudicca/32/5171_2.png) [@Boudicca](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Boudicca)\ **Post date:** [June 27, 2011, 5:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/belated-hello-from-sofakinglive/50958/3 "2011-06-27T05:48:32Z")
Well, a belated welcome to you, then. 😉 I am sorry to hear about your estrangement. As a woman, you have to understand that, when we love you, we open everything to you, and if you do something that feels to us like a betrayal, then it hurts, very very deeply. And then what seems like unforgiveness is us trying to protect against that pain - or against that pain returning. And in our minds, there is _annoying_ 🙄 and then there is “asshole.” 😠 You see the difference in the emots? That’s the way we view the difference in the descriptors. I think guys are a lot freer maybe with their descriptors than we are. You may just mean you were annoying as hell, or you may mean you cheated on her, but you use the word asshole regardless. 😛 The only idea I can come up with for you is to see if she is open to some sort of mediation - either meeting you in the presence of a mutual friend, or joint counseling. Then you can wear the mones, be congruent with them, and hopefully convince her that you HAVE done some work to make you a better you. Anyway, it’s a thought, and again, welcome. ---
**Author:** ![sofakinglive](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e0b2c6/32.png) [@sofakinglive](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sofakinglive)\ **Post date:** [June 27, 2011, 6:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/belated-hello-from-sofakinglive/50958/4 "2011-06-27T06:59:38Z")
Thank you both for your insights. And no, Boudicca, I didn’t and still haven’t cheated on her. These mones definitely create situations to test my commitment though. Thank goodness I’m a better man. 😛 PheroJack… Here’s that MX399 report: [MX399 Report](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mx399-report/50962) ---
**Author:** ![Pagodeiro](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pagodeiro/32/1226_2.png) [@Pagodeiro](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Pagodeiro)\ **Post date:** [June 27, 2011, 12:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/belated-hello-from-sofakinglive/50958/5 "2011-06-27T12:40:29Z")
Hi sofakingalive, I see you´ve read up on the stuff already and your intro is great ! Was very happy to read about the new MX399 this morning and i must say .. dang this is a start ! Your alchemy kit is large already … Wow… very much to play with .. maybe you share your adventures and start a journal ? btw… how have you found this site ? Pago ---
**Author:** ![Boudicca](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/boudicca/32/5171_2.png) [@Boudicca](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Boudicca)\ **Post date:** [June 27, 2011, 6:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/belated-hello-from-sofakinglive/50958/6 "2011-06-27T18:28:02Z")
> [@sofakinglive](#): > > Thank you both for your insights. And no, Boudicca, I didn’t and still haven’t cheated on her. These mones definitely create situations to test my commitment though. Thank goodness I’m a better man. 😛 I’m sorry, I didn’t mean to really imply that you DID. I was sorta giving f’r-instances. That was a rhetorical “you,” lol. If you really truly love her, then if nothing else send her a love letter and TELL HER SO. A man who stays faithful even after the separation - there’s real love there. I admire and applaud that. 🙂 (hug) ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [June 28, 2011, 8:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/belated-hello-from-sofakinglive/50958/7 "2011-06-28T20:37:05Z")
Welcome to pherotalk Sofaking! Congratulations on your win last night. Totally deserved it. Hats off to you for deciding to be a better person as most ppl don’t care about that and just live not even trying to correct the wrongs. I think the IH and other products like Ammo will assist and if you don’t succeed in getting her to see the new one be content that you tried and you never know she might turn around all on her own one day. In the future since you are on a new path you are better able to love someone and give them what they deserve. Keep us updated. **Your gc was issued! 😉** ---
**Author:** ![sofakinglive](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e0b2c6/32.png) [@sofakinglive](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sofakinglive)\ **Post date:** [June 29, 2011, 5:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/belated-hello-from-sofakinglive/50958/8 "2011-06-29T17:21:52Z")
> [@Pagodeiro](#): > > Your alchemy kit is large already … Wow… very much to play with .. maybe you share your adventures and start a journal ? > > btw… how have you found this site ? > > Pago Hey Pagodeiro, I’m glad you appreciated my MX399 report. I was very fortunate to be one of the first people to receive and report on it. I plan on starting my journal in the very near future. I already have a bunch of interesting things to report on, but I think I’m going to start fresh beginning next week so I can recount specific details that may have impacted my results. I actually found this forum near the end of May after purchasing my most recent bottle of Pherlure. Many people say it’s a scam, but I’ve personally had some exceptional hits with it. However, I wanted something that did more than increase sexual arousal to assist me with getting back on track in my relationship. Through my research, I quickly found this forum. Mones are complicated so the reports from other users and the quality products of AD have decreased my learning curve exponentially and spared me countless hours of research. ---
**Author:** ![sofakinglive](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e0b2c6/32.png) [@sofakinglive](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sofakinglive)\ **Post date:** [June 29, 2011, 5:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/belated-hello-from-sofakinglive/50958/9 "2011-06-29T17:33:23Z")
UPDATE: After going for over a month of no communication despite my daily attempts, she finally answered the phone on 6/27/11. We talked for 3hrs and had a pleasant time. We talked last night as well. I think that she can tell by the sincerity in my voice that I love her and the more we talk, I can tell that the wall she built is slowly coming down. I thank all of you for your advice and support. I look forward to reporting on how mones help me to solidify my relationship. ---
**Author:** ![Pagodeiro](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pagodeiro/32/1226_2.png) [@Pagodeiro](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Pagodeiro)\ **Post date:** [June 29, 2011, 6:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/belated-hello-from-sofakinglive/50958/10 "2011-06-29T18:27:11Z")
> [@sofakinglive](#): > > UPDATE: After going for over a month of no communication despite my daily attempts, she finally answered the phone on 6/27/11. We talked for 3hrs and had a pleasant time. We talked last night as well. I think that she can tell by the sincerity in my voice that I love her and the more we talk, I can tell that the wall she built is slowly coming down. > > I thank all of you for your advice and support. I look forward to reporting on how mones help me to solidify my relationship. Hi there Dude, i´m happy to hear that things are going well ! make sure to start seeing her personally and hanging out with her … i´m not sure how fit you are with PU or better Seduction stuff … but monewise i´d go with A314 with her and some IH … that´s only one opinion amongst many but some proven one ! ahmm yeah and congrats on your win as well 😉 Pago ---
**Author:** ![Astrea](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/astrea/32/1928_2.png) [@Astrea](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Astrea)\ **Post date:** [July 4, 2011, 4:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/belated-hello-from-sofakinglive/50958/11 "2011-07-04T04:25:06Z")
> [@sofakinglive](#): > > So I felt like I’ve done the internal construction and I wanted to show my significant other the changes I’ve made in hopes of continuing our relationship. I know what I did, but I realized that I needed to have a rapport if I was going to succeed. **I know I can be an asshole (I can justify it most of the time)** but women can be unforgiving regardless; hence, enter the pheromones. > > The plan was to get the ‘mones so that when I met her, she would be **more open to the person I am now instead of focusing on the negativity of the person I was before. (This thought process is logical to me as a man, but I’m open to correction from any women.)** This leaves us to where I am now… I haven’t seen her since the end of March. Since then, I’ve been trying to get her to talk to me, yet alone see me without any success. So now I have Pherlure, AMMO, TUTH, IH, IO, IS, and MX399 sitting next to my Issey Miyaki and John Paul Gautier. I’m sure you all are able to understand the investment I’ve made with the above purchases and I’m not one to waste money, so I have spent these past few weeks experimenting. > > **I apologize for the extended and somewhat personal introduction.** > > SofaKingLive All of us can be assholes, at times. And all of us are quite skilled at the justifications. That’s being human. That you openly admit this, speaks volumes as to your personal honesty. Personally, I think you have the right idea - I’m a few days late coming in on this thread and have read all the posts. Boudicca got the ‘why’ of the ‘unforgivingness’ (?! new word?) right on the money. Guys need to be reminded occasionally, that when women love - it’s everything. Women will agonise over telling the person they love something with the ‘right’ (read kind, gentle etc) words - the first few times. Now that you’ve had a good conversation with her; when you get to meet I humbly suggest that the ‘softening’ socials - to enhance your new outlook would be perfect. Remember to give her a little time - to take it in, process that you’re different, and relax. Don’t be too hard on her if she seems a little wary - she’ll want to be _ **shown** _ that the change is real and not something that comes off as easily as a T shirt. Remember: Anyone can **say** anything - the proof is in the pudding. Or the coffee - let her have a nice, long drink of the improved you. From what I can gather, she still has feelings for you. She probably stared at the phone while you were calling in a bunch of conflict. What other kind of post would be useful? 😃 You’re clear and I appreciate that. Keep us informed? Please?