# Best pheromone for fixing a relationship? Members say communication comes first **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [July 3, 2008, 8:03am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/best-pheromone-for-fixing-a-relationship-members-say-communication-comes-first/14818 "2008-07-03T08:03:08Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![cliffharris](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/96bed5/32.png) [@cliffharris](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/cliffharris)\ **Post date:** [July 3, 2008, 8:03am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/best-pheromone-for-fixing-a-relationship-members-say-communication-comes-first/14818/1 "2008-07-03T08:03:08Z")
what is the best [pheromone product](https://a314.com/shop/) for a man to use to help fix relationships? ---
**Author:** ![runnerxvr](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/35a633/32.png) [@runnerxvr](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/runnerxvr)\ **Post date:** [July 3, 2008, 10:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/best-pheromone-for-fixing-a-relationship-members-say-communication-comes-first/14818/2 "2008-07-03T10:00:35Z")
Hi Cliffharris, actually I didn’t understand your question… Anyway, if a relationship broke down and you need to make it up again… It all depends how a relationship broke down and why. With these few information I can’t help you much. Just try an heavy dosage of [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/)? If you think “Why?”, because it can help with deep conversation, and it’s useful for helping relations. See ya Franz ---
**Author:** ![data4](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/data4/32/272_2.png) [@data4](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/data4)\ **Post date:** [July 3, 2008, 11:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/best-pheromone-for-fixing-a-relationship-members-say-communication-comes-first/14818/3 "2008-07-03T11:13:41Z")
The best pheromone is Communication. Seriously, communicate. No pheromone will solve whatever problems the relationship has. I thought they’d help me fix my marriage. They didn’t work, because the complications were deeper than any pheromone could touch. Huge personality and values differences. Ironically, they did fire up the sex life, but no amount of sex could have fixed the problems. Trust me. I’ve been divorced for 5 months now, and we’re still knocking boots like teenage rabbits. There is one product that might help with the communication and runnerxvr hit it on the money. Use that and nothing else. No sexuals, no A314. Just [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/), an open heart, and open ears. But the most important thing? A willingness to walk away after you’ve tried every reasonable thing. -D4 ---
**Author:** ![SoulCreator](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/soulcreator/32/236_2.png) [@SoulCreator](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SoulCreator)\ **Post date:** [July 3, 2008, 12:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/best-pheromone-for-fixing-a-relationship-members-say-communication-comes-first/14818/4 "2008-07-03T12:27:13Z")
Yeah unfortunetly lke D4 said there’s some things [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) can do and there’s somethings they can’t… Some have compaired pheromones to like getting a nice haircut, or wearing a designer shirt; they can highlight different aspects of you and maybe make _some_ people temporarly show an intrest. But in the big scheme of things their really not that powerful. pheromones can’t make or break a relationship, but they can definetly help get some of those wheels turning. Although on the other hand if Androtics were to ever come out with an Instant Relationship Repair spray, I’d totally be the first in line to buy a bottle. ---
**Author:** ![SoulCreator](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/soulcreator/32/236_2.png) [@SoulCreator](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SoulCreator)\ **Post date:** [July 3, 2008, 12:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/best-pheromone-for-fixing-a-relationship-members-say-communication-comes-first/14818/5 "2008-07-03T12:47:22Z")
…on second thought if you were asking what might get the wheels turning in a positive direction I would definitely consider either Ammo and/or A314. The A314 will give you an appearance of worth, and get you some respect. And the Ammo should make you appear to be attractive. It’s like David Deangelo has said you want to appear to be a lover and a provider, and that pretty much sums up the goal of those two sprays. I might also throw in [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/), or some instant shine just to make sure their in a good mood. But like I said don’t expect pheromones alone to do the work unfortunately you’ve still gotta do the hard stuff. ---
**Author:** ![Daedelus76](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/eb8c5e/32.png) [@Daedelus76](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Daedelus76)\ **Post date:** [July 3, 2008, 6:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/best-pheromone-for-fixing-a-relationship-members-say-communication-comes-first/14818/6 "2008-07-03T18:58:14Z")
Instant Honesty and [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/). Maybe A314 instead of Instant Gentleman, but not on its own, use it with something else like Instant Honesty. A low dose of TAK might be useful, too. 12.5mcg or so. As Data says, sometimes you have to be willing to talk to people, pheromones won’t do it all. If you aren’t willing to hear what other people say, they probably have as little interest in hearing what you say. And sometimes maybe the differences between people are too great, perhaps. ---
**Author:** ![Wolfy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wolfy/32/965_2.png) [@Wolfy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wolfy)\ **Post date:** [July 3, 2008, 7:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/best-pheromone-for-fixing-a-relationship-members-say-communication-comes-first/14818/7 "2008-07-03T19:01:40Z")
User has cross posted this topic, I put my answer in this copy of his thread- > [@Can pheromones help a man fix a relationship? IFM and IH suggested](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/fixing-relationships/14817): > > what’s the best phermone product for a man to use to help in fixing relationships?