# Best pheromones for GAY men?? Please help... **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [March 16, 2014, 5:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/best-pheromones-for-gay-men-please-help/61399 "2014-03-16T05:33:08Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 13\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![BeachBoy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/bbe5ce/32.png) [@BeachBoy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/BeachBoy)\ **Post date:** [March 16, 2014, 5:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/best-pheromones-for-gay-men-please-help/61399/1 "2014-03-16T05:33:08Z")
I’m brand new to [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) and I just purchased pherX oil for gay men from Amazon. It says it’s extra strength of human pheromones and is 20mg. I have no real experience with pheromones and purchased it on a whim. I’m just wondering if it’s a good choice?? The reviews were good with many of them being “verified”. I’m looking for what is the best product or combination for gay men. Specifically for attracting men and sex; but also for just general social/trust situations. I’ve just really started researching tonight and am a bit overwhelmed lol. So far I saw that Liquid Alchemy Labs has pheromones for gay men. They look good to me, but I’m not sure. I’ve been thinking of a few combinations and wanted you guy’s opinions on if these would work or if they might be too much – 1. Liquid Alchemy Labs NUDE for men to attract men. Turn Up The Heat 2. NUDE Gay Alpha 3. POSSESS for gay men Turn Up The Heat 4. POSSESS Alpha Are those combos OK? Could I use Turn Up The Heat with NUDE Gay Alpha or POSSESS Alpha? Or is that too much? Are there any other good companies that have specific pheromones for gay men? Would ALL of the pheromones directed at attracting women work for gay men? Any I should avoid? Sorry for all the questions I just really want to make sure I get the correct products. Thanks! P.S. I don’t know if it matters or not but I’m in my 20’s, thin, average height and am basically a top but will bottom occasionally. I don’t ever intimidate guys with my size but do with my personality on a rare occasion. ---
**Author:** ![Wyatt](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/b19c9b/32.png) [@Wyatt](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wyatt)\ **Post date:** [March 16, 2014, 11:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/best-pheromones-for-gay-men-please-help/61399/2 "2014-03-16T23:15:19Z")
Search for the [Mystery Boy](https://a314.com/product/mystery-boy/) formula somewhere on this site. ---
**Author:** ![Be\_Real](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/be_real/32/2295_2.png) [@Be\_Real](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Be_Real)\ **Post date:** [March 16, 2014, 11:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/best-pheromones-for-gay-men-please-help/61399/3 "2014-03-16T23:25:06Z")
Definitely check out [P74](https://a314.com/product/p74/). I was approached by 4 gay guys (one openly asked if I wanted to shag him) in one night while wearing it. I’m not gay though. P74 might lower your status slightly, so put on some A314 if you prefer to be the aggressor. ---
**Author:** ![BeachBoy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/bbe5ce/32.png) [@BeachBoy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/BeachBoy)\ **Post date:** [March 16, 2014, 11:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/best-pheromones-for-gay-men-please-help/61399/4 "2014-03-16T23:42:37Z")
> [@Wyatt](#): > > Search for the Mystery Boy formula somewhere on this site. Thank you. I’ve been reading a lot in the last 24 hrs or so and did read about [Mystery Boy](https://a314.com/product/mystery-boy/); but I thought it was discontinued? By searching for the mystery boy formula do you mean for me to mix it myself? I personally think that would be too advanced for my first jaunt into pheromones. Once I get the hang of them, then I’ll try mixing. I’m thinking of buying the LAL regular NUDE gay formula and maybe Turn Up The Heat as well. I want to start out simple. I’ll also be receiving the pherX gay oil too soon but after reading a bit about the company I think it might be a bad product. Should I even try it out? It couldn’t hurt right? ---
**Author:** ![BeachBoy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/bbe5ce/32.png) [@BeachBoy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/BeachBoy)\ **Post date:** [March 16, 2014, 11:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/best-pheromones-for-gay-men-please-help/61399/5 "2014-03-16T23:50:54Z")
> [@Be\_Real](#): > > Definitely check out P74. I was approached by 4 gay guys (one openly asked if I wanted to shag him) in one night while wearing it. I’m not gay though. P74 might lower your status slightly, so put on some A314 if you prefer to be the aggressor. Thank you. It sounds like an awesome product but when I checked it out, it appears to be too advanced for me right at this moment. I feel with all it’s options of dose strength, fragrance, fragrance strength, etc. it’s just too easy for me too mess up. But once I get comfortable and more knowledgable I’ll get it. I was planing on getting LAL regular NUDE for gay men; not alpha and also Turn Up The Heat. I just want something simple and for the right now. I’ll also be recorving my gay oil from pherX but after reading a bit I realize it might be a bad product. Should I still try it? It can’t hurt me right? ---
**Author:** ![monesmadedoit](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/monesmadedoit/32/325_2.png) [@monesmadedoit](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/monesmadedoit)\ **Post date:** [March 17, 2014, 2:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/best-pheromones-for-gay-men-please-help/61399/6 "2014-03-17T02:16:49Z")
> [@Be\_Real](#): > > Definitely check out P74. I was approached by 4 gay guys (one openly asked if I wanted to shag him) in one night while wearing it. I’m not gay though. P74 might lower your status slightly, so put on some A314 if you prefer to be the aggressor. This. I can’t say PherX is in the top 20 of pheromones. On the lower end of trustworthiness. P74 really, 7.5 mcg per spray neroli, is rather simpler. ---
**Author:** ![simba17](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9e8a1a/32.png) [@simba17](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/simba17)\ **Post date:** [August 14, 2016, 2:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/best-pheromones-for-gay-men-please-help/61399/7 "2016-08-14T14:48:28Z")
What is the best mix for gay guys I’m facing a big issue with my boyfriend. I’m gay but he is Bi-sexual. We are in a stage where he does not want to even talk to me. We got in argue where he is very disappointed and lost his trust and sexual attention in me. He just lost totally interest in me. What is the best mix to take the all his anger away, get back his trust and sexual attention and make him feel good and comfortable with me with that love feeling. He is normally under a lot of stress on the daily basics so also something that will make him feel relief in a way. Should I mix with Mystery boy with something or something different? I seen on here in defferent threds that you can mix different pheromons to get good result. What mix will be the best for this situation? I’m so desperate because he mean a lot to me ☹ Please help me ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [August 15, 2016, 9:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/best-pheromones-for-gay-men-please-help/61399/8 "2016-08-15T09:17:41Z")
IME P96 is also a very useful phero around both sexes - Even as a straight guy, I’ve had far more than my share of strong and open hits frorm men when wearing P96 with a sexual like TUTH or Possess Alpha. A314/[P74](https://pheromonelabs.com/product/p74/) (with and without a sexual) has also produced significant responses from some gay men - Not all by any means but guys more attracted to “fatherly” men seem to go a bundle on that one. ---
**Author:** ![simba17](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9e8a1a/32.png) [@simba17](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/simba17)\ **Post date:** [August 15, 2016, 3:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/best-pheromones-for-gay-men-please-help/61399/9 "2016-08-15T15:28:54Z")
I have some suggestion to use: IS IH A314 IG and Ammo What do you think of this combination? Can I add into it P96 or will that be way too much? What P96 will do into it? is this kind of bonding phero? What is Posses Alpha? I never heard of it and is it stronger then ammo? What do you think of [Mystery Boy](https://a314.com/product/mystery-boy/)? which one will work the best and strong like a magnet? I need something that will hit him that one time and properly because I have only one chance to see him again so that is it ---
**Author:** ![Dollface001](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/a3d4f5/32.png) [@Dollface001](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dollface001)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2016, 8:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/best-pheromones-for-gay-men-please-help/61399/10 "2016-08-18T20:34:03Z")
Don’t buy from Androtics Direct. They care about charging you, but not about actually delivering your products. You can contact them over and over, and all you’ll get is a “Oops, seems like no one can help you at this time”. Horrible, shady, irresponsible company. ---
**Author:** ![ScentHound](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/scenthound/32/1840_2.png) [@ScentHound](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ScentHound)\ **Post date:** [August 19, 2016, 5:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/best-pheromones-for-gay-men-please-help/61399/11 "2016-08-19T17:26:40Z")
As a straight guy, I can’t remember being hit on as much by gay dudes as whenever I wore 4+ sprays of [MX297](https://a314.com/product/mx297/). Also had a gay concierge hit on me once while I was wearing a shit-load of A1. ---
**Author:** ![tuaregue](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/ecae2f/32.png) [@tuaregue](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tuaregue)\ **Post date:** [July 6, 2017, 10:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/best-pheromones-for-gay-men-please-help/61399/12 "2017-07-06T22:14:56Z")
> [@mobocaster](#): > > IME P96 is also a very useful phero around both sexes - Even as a straight guy, I’ve had far more than my share of strong and open hits frorm men when wearing P96 with a sexual like TUTH or Possess Alpha. > > A314/P74 (with and without a sexual) has also produced significant responses from some gay men - Not all by any means but guys more attracted to “fatherly” men seem to go a bundle on that one. I’m confused … I’m new to this. I am gay, straight - acting, and I want to attract other men equally masculine, gay, bi or straight. For sex, flurt … Attract and meet new men. I saw your reputation and your two suggestions. In his discretion he talks only about attracting women … What do you advise me? Putative (P74), wich micrograms? Turn it up (TUTH). How strength? Androsderone (A1)? Preferably without unfragranced. Thanks for help. ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [July 13, 2017, 6:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/best-pheromones-for-gay-men-please-help/61399/13 "2017-07-13T18:17:25Z")
Pheros and gay men are a bit more confusing TBH - at least to us straight guys anyway! At its simplest gay men tend to turn-on to a signature similar to one that attracts straight women - however ther are other steering issues and some more gay-specific products that can be used there. Then there are gay men who can turn-on to highly social signatures, other who go for overt sexual anf those who turn-on to sttus/sexual too. So just like women, it varies and you need to test to find what suits you best. P74 is useful because it helps create closeness/bonding and promotes trust - which can help get someone out of their shell around you. I wouls pair it with IH, or A314 as they combine to produce a greater than the sum of its parts effect. IME, social moderation is less of an issue around men, compared to the more confounding emotional complexity of women - So at 47, a straight-up sexual like TUTH probably in its 2x version is the way to go. Men are also less complex here too - they either respond well to an overt sexual or badly. You need to learn to judge that. Personally, i wouldn’t suggest A1 as a phero to use around men - For starters a significant subset do badly with it and get hit by the downers - which is a right passion-killer and even where they do respond, they don’t seem to get the same crushy/yearning as women. P74 is a far less problematic alternative. BTW, Androsterone is another phero altogether. Doses - start with a P74 concentration of between 7.5 and 15mcg, P96 - 10-12.5mcg is similarly a good starting point. - this allows a reasonable dose range to be tested with as few sprays as possible. Beyond that I can’t say much as you really do need to test to see what suits you and your range of situations. We all vary here. Unscented - no such thing! All pheros have a scent but people get it differently - some smell little or nothing whilst others find it very unpleasant indeed. So I’d suggest the “Stealth” or [Neroli](https://a314.com/product-category/scented/androtics-neroli/) 6% scents as they both do a reasonable job of covering, promote good diffusion and help minimise breakdown stink. > [@tuaregue](#): > > I’m confused … I’m new to this. I am gay, straight - acting, and I want to attract other men equally masculine, gay, bi or straight. For sex, flurt … Attract and meet new men. > > I saw your reputation and your two suggestions. In his discretion he talks only about attracting women … What do you advise me? Putative (P74), wich micrograms? Turn it up (TUTH). How strength? Androsderone (A1)? > > Preferably without unfragranced. > > Thanks for help.