# Big guy needs help.. **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [June 30, 2010, 3:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/big-guy-needs-help/39734 "2010-06-30T15:36:12Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![MrCowbell](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f08c70/32.png) [@MrCowbell](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MrCowbell)\ **Post date:** [June 30, 2010, 3:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/big-guy-needs-help/39734/1 "2010-06-30T15:36:12Z")
Hello all, I just joined this forum and I was wondering if anyone could help me. I work out a lot so I’m sort of on the big side, I’m also 40 so My mones are probably weaker now. I also tend to be the quiet type so I noticed people tend to be a little intimidated or stand-offish toward me. I was wondering what [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) could help people to feel more comfortable around me. Also, I understand how pheromones can help make women feel more attracted to someone, but how does it help people feel more friendly toward a person? I find that both men and women tend to not act as open and friendly to me as they used to years ago. Women aren’t as flirty and nice to me, and men don’t joke around and chat with me anymore. Any advice?? ---
**Author:** ![falcos](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/falcos/32/1189_2.png) [@falcos](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/falcos)\ **Post date:** [June 30, 2010, 3:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/big-guy-needs-help/39734/2 "2010-06-30T15:42:20Z")
Hi Cowbell welcome to the forum. Before I awnser your request could you enlighten me about yourself a little more? Can you tell me your type of personality? you said quiet but that is to vague. Can you elaborate on that please? Best regards. Falcos ---
**Author:** ![MrCowbell](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f08c70/32.png) [@MrCowbell](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MrCowbell)\ **Post date:** [June 30, 2010, 3:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/big-guy-needs-help/39734/3 "2010-06-30T15:50:55Z")
Hi Falcos and thanks for the reply. I tend to be more introverted than I used to be. I overthink things and I have trouble approaching people and starting conversations. I don’t know if people pick up on that or not, but it just feels to me like people arent as comfortable around me as they used to be. I was curious about pheromones and the different kinds and how people react to them. I did only a little research on this site, but it says you can get negative results if the wrong kind is used in the wrong situation. ---
**Author:** ![MrCowbell](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f08c70/32.png) [@MrCowbell](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MrCowbell)\ **Post date:** [June 30, 2010, 4:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/big-guy-needs-help/39734/4 "2010-06-30T16:02:50Z")
I guess what I want right now is just to spark womens interest in me in common everyday situations so I can meet more of them. Not a sexual charger to get women all turned on or anything. ---
**Author:** ![falcos](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/falcos/32/1189_2.png) [@falcos](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/falcos)\ **Post date:** [June 30, 2010, 4:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/big-guy-needs-help/39734/5 "2010-06-30T16:03:48Z")
yes it is true, I will explain everything I know and is important for you right away. And also just to be sure in your profile you have 40 years, so I can assume this is correct information? 🙂 just to be on the sure side because none dosage also vary depending on the age. About mones, I can say that there is 3 main types of it ( there are more), but the main categorys (for me are) Atraction, Social and Status. In your case, something like a314 could not be very benefical, a314 is used to demand respect wich you clearly already have to much for what I read, so in your case in my point of view a314 would have negative results. None is also known for eving negative results when you use to much of it, alot of the blends here like IJ, ammo or TUTH have none in it, and when you OD in none there is a high probability that other people will try to pick a fight with you. But none is also the main mone regarding attraction. For your case, I would advise IO in combination with [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) for social ocasions and you should by the x4 bottles since your 40 you can use more mones because you dont produce so much has youngster expecilly none. IO will open up more the peopple around you and Instant Shine will ligthen the atmosphere and make people a little happier and less stiff. For dating I suggest you a combination of Instant Shine and ammo and in your case heavy ammo has I stated before being 40 means you should use more, but you must test it one spray each time so you can know what is the best dosage for you. If you have any other question just ask, glad to be of assistance. Falcos ---
**Author:** ![MrCowbell](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f08c70/32.png) [@MrCowbell](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MrCowbell)\ **Post date:** [June 30, 2010, 4:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/big-guy-needs-help/39734/6 "2010-06-30T16:07:25Z")
Great advice. I’ll try it. ---
**Author:** ![MrCowbell](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f08c70/32.png) [@MrCowbell](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MrCowbell)\ **Post date:** [June 30, 2010, 4:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/big-guy-needs-help/39734/7 "2010-06-30T16:11:29Z")
one more thing, I dont want to smell like B.O. or anything so does this stuff actually have a scent that women will find pleasant? ---
**Author:** ![falcos](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/falcos/32/1189_2.png) [@falcos](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/falcos)\ **Post date:** [June 30, 2010, 4:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/big-guy-needs-help/39734/8 "2010-06-30T16:14:56Z")
Well most users cover the smell with some fancy cologne, I sometimes do others dont. The smell is ok. ammo is controversial thow, there are 2 versions ammo ff22 and ammo f21. I use ff22 wich is ammo world edition, although it isnt my favorite smell and sometimes I dont like it and cover is still far bether thant the normal. Although I may be buying a normal one soon to test it because I think it may have a better difusion, has other forum members stated. Well just cover it your best cologne no warm will be done. ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [July 1, 2010, 6:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/big-guy-needs-help/39734/9 "2010-07-01T06:02:38Z")
Hi and welcome to the forum! Falcos has given you some great advice! And just ask if you have any more questions! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [July 1, 2010, 9:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/big-guy-needs-help/39734/10 "2010-07-01T21:12:33Z")
Welcome to Pherotlk Cowbell! [Pheromone](https://a314.com/) usage allows you to be aware of your surroundings and you tend to become more aware of yourself. Sometimes, we think or say that people are afraid to approach us or are not that friendly towards us but more often than not it’s the vibe that you send out and it’s allows good to be aware of that. Facial expression, the way you stand etc. Instant shine is a great product for uplifting moods and getting others to see that you are or will be a delight to be around. A314 and Instant gentleman are great products but you have to ensure that you read up on them to see which one best suits you. If you want to be more approachable I definitely suggest Instant gentleman. The last but not least CTTM 2 or Instant honesty to promote intimacy and communication. Your gc is on it’s way!