# Bisexual looking for a tool? **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [June 16, 2010, 12:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/bisexual-looking-for-a-tool/39331 "2010-06-16T00:33:11Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![RomanceAddict](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/22d042/32.png) [@RomanceAddict](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RomanceAddict)\ **Post date:** [June 16, 2010, 12:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/bisexual-looking-for-a-tool/39331/1 "2010-06-16T00:33:11Z")
Ok… so hello everyone. I’m 19, female from Massachusetts. So, here is my story and how i discovered pheromones. I’m married to a wonderful guy and we have kids together… If you asked me i’d tell you i’m straight BUT i have some bisexual tendencies i guess you could say. I check out girls …A LOT. But i always figured that could pass under semi-normal stuff. I have only met two women in my life that i found so attractive i find it hard to talk to them and breathe at the same time LOL I have never actually done anything with a girl though. Anyways, i’ve been thinking a lot about it and at least want to know what it’s like to kiss a girl. I found [pheromone sprays](https://a314.com/product-category/spray-pheromones/) just browsing the internet and figure that could be the perfect tool for my little experiment! I’m looking for a product that will get a female friend to open up, not sexually . . . just to be very comfortable. Also wondering if it is all gender specific stuff, or can i find something that will work on my husband too? And so you know…, He knows all about my questionable habits 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![P51Mustang](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/p51mustang/32/1266_2.png) [@P51Mustang](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/P51Mustang)\ **Post date:** [June 16, 2010, 12:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/bisexual-looking-for-a-tool/39331/2 "2010-06-16T00:41:13Z")
I do know that there are female products that cater for men. However from what I know, [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) and Instant Honesty have worked well for me to get comfortable in situations. I’ll put on TUTH once things have escalated a bit. This is based of a male’s chemistry. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [June 16, 2010, 1:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/bisexual-looking-for-a-tool/39331/3 "2010-06-16T01:25:22Z")
Hi There Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 Many of the mixes here are unisex. Ishine and IH would be your best bets for what your looking for. Ishine is uplifting comfortable…it has a magnetic pull to it. It draws both sexes to you and makes them feel good being near you. IH opens up deeper communication and feelings of comfort and connection. These will work on both your hubby and women and while they are not sexual they do increase attraction which can lead to sexual encounters. Just for future reference though… Bi women are naturally attracted to both male and female pheromone signatures so you can use the female formulas for both. Gay men or women also use their same genders products with a few of the opposite gender mones to steer them. Other gay men are attracted to the male signature or in the case of gay females they are attracted to other females signatures. Transgenders use the [pheromones](https://a314.com/) of there chosen gender. Pheromones will effect same gendered straight people but not on a sexual level. So they wont make a straight person BI no matter how comfortable they are with you. A lot of people have buried BI tendencies though so you will see a effect. I hope that wasnt confusing LOL If it was just ask and we will help you. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Katalyst](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/katalyst/32/1415_2.png) [@Katalyst](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Katalyst)\ **Post date:** [June 16, 2010, 1:27am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/bisexual-looking-for-a-tool/39331/4 "2010-06-16T01:27:59Z")
Welcome to the forums Romanceaddict, I think p51mustang definitely pointed you in the right direction for comfort. IO will help to open things up and IH will strengthen a bond and increase trust which will then complement each other and could be layered if you would like. If you want to spice things up with your male and have him want you more then you should look at Instant sexiness A for a more aggressive dominant vibe, or [instant sexiness B](https://phera.com/product/kitten/) for a softer feminine sexy vibe. And as Tish stated, instant shine is my favorite product You could also purchase TUTH and have your male wear it if you are looking to be sexually charged from him. IT would also be beneficial if you shared a little bit about your personality and age ranges in order to make the best recomendations as well! Good luck in your experimenting ! ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [June 16, 2010, 7:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/bisexual-looking-for-a-tool/39331/5 "2010-06-16T19:35:21Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course Steve is available to answer any question you might have regarding mones and you can speak to him personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and he will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum. ---
**Author:** ![RomanceAddict](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/22d042/32.png) [@RomanceAddict](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RomanceAddict)\ **Post date:** [June 17, 2010, 12:01am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/bisexual-looking-for-a-tool/39331/6 "2010-06-17T00:01:36Z")
Thanks for all the advice!! . . . just made my first purchase, hope it works 🙂