# Body language books with a social rather than business focus?

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**Created:** [January 24, 2010, 7:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/body-language-books-with-a-social-rather-than-business-focus/35708 "2010-01-24T19:21:12Z")\
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**Author:** ![Tommygunkid](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tommygunkid/32/905_2.png) [@Tommygunkid](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tommygunkid)\
**Post date:** [January 24, 2010, 7:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/body-language-books-with-a-social-rather-than-business-focus/35708/1 "2010-01-24T19:21:12Z")

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I am currently interested in the topic of body language. I just finished reading “The Definitive Book of Body Language – Book in Action” and it is very informative and very well written. The focus however is body language in the business setting; I am looking for a more “social” focus. If anyone can recommend some books it would be greatly appreciated.

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**Author:** ![djandarial](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/djandarial/32/1667_2.png) [@djandarial](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/djandarial)\
**Post date:** [January 24, 2010, 8:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/body-language-books-with-a-social-rather-than-business-focus/35708/2 "2010-01-24T20:22:28Z")

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I have some, on way to work out but when I get done I will send a list back.

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**Author:** ![djandarial](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/djandarial/32/1667_2.png) [@djandarial](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/djandarial)\
**Post date:** [January 24, 2010, 8:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/body-language-books-with-a-social-rather-than-business-focus/35708/3 "2010-01-24T20:22:53Z")

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start here

> [@Body language 101](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/body-language-101/33413/1):
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> I have noticed a number of people making posts and saying that their game was not as good because they didn’t know the place they were in… it was not their local etc. And hence didn’t get the same hits that they thought they should. I’d like to share something with you all. The power of body language. Most people here are on the look out for others body language and APPARENTLY us guys cannot multi task. So we will tend to look for others but not be aware of our own, to some degree I think this…

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**Author:** ![Blacky\_Chan](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/blacky_chan/32/973_2.png) [@Blacky\_Chan](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Blacky_Chan)\
**Post date:** [January 25, 2010, 2:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/body-language-books-with-a-social-rather-than-business-focus/35708/4 "2010-01-25T14:35:38Z")

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I just uploaded this. Decent book [Deposit Files](http://depositfiles.com/files/74mxzj8fn)

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**Author:** ![Butterfly](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/butterfly/32/1942_2.png) [@Butterfly](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Butterfly)\
**Post date:** [January 27, 2010, 8:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/body-language-books-with-a-social-rather-than-business-focus/35708/5 "2010-01-27T20:59:47Z")

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[Peoplewatching: The Desmond Morris Guide to Body Language: Amazon.co.uk: Desmond Morris: Books](http://www.amazon.co.uk/Peoplewatching-Desmond-Morris-Guide-Language/dp/0099429780) Is my favorite.

But what I find most useful is to cope someone’s BL and walk a mile in her shoes. You learn more intuitively and it becomes 2nd nature. I also like using stars BL, it is amazing how people respond.

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**Author:** ![Tommygunkid](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tommygunkid/32/905_2.png) [@Tommygunkid](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tommygunkid)\
**Post date:** [February 1, 2010, 3:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/body-language-books-with-a-social-rather-than-business-focus/35708/6 "2010-02-01T03:37:00Z")

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> [@Butterfly](#):
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> [Peoplewatching: The Desmond Morris Guide to Body Language: Amazon.co.uk: Desmond Morris: Books](http://www.amazon.co.uk/Peoplewatching-Desmond-Morris-Guide-Language/dp/0099429780) Is my favorite.
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> But what I find most useful is to cope someone’s BL and walk a mile in her shoes. You learn more intuitively and it becomes 2nd nature. I also like using stars BL, it is amazing how people respond.

The book is on the way 😃 TY

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**Author:** ![Wolfy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wolfy/32/965_2.png) [@Wolfy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wolfy)\
**Post date:** [February 2, 2010, 12:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/body-language-books-with-a-social-rather-than-business-focus/35708/7 "2010-02-02T00:48:04Z")

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> [@Butterfly](#):
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> [Peoplewatching: The Desmond Morris Guide to Body Language: Amazon.co.uk: Desmond Morris: Books](http://www.amazon.co.uk/Peoplewatching-Desmond-Morris-Guide-Language/dp/0099429780) Is my favorite.
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> But what I find most useful is to cope someone’s BL and walk a mile in her shoes. You learn more intuitively and it becomes 2nd nature. I also like using stars BL, it is amazing how people respond.

I am a long time fan of Desmond morris’s work,

something else worth looking at is-

> **[Manwatching: A Field Guide to Human Behavior: Desmond Morris: 9780810921849:...](https://www.amazon.com/Manwatching-Field-Guide-Human-Behavior/dp/0810921847)**
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> Buy Manwatching: A Field Guide to Human Behavior on Amazon.com ✓ FREE SHIPPING on qualified orders
