# Bombing the Friendzone: My Results of Two Months of Effort! **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [April 13, 2013, 12:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/bombing-the-friendzone-my-results-of-two-months-of-effort/58735 "2013-04-13T12:13:49Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 2\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![arkansasdolfan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/958977/32.png) [@arkansasdolfan](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/arkansasdolfan)\ **Post date:** [April 13, 2013, 12:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/bombing-the-friendzone-my-results-of-two-months-of-effort/58735/1 "2013-04-13T12:13:49Z")
A little back story for you all. I have been testing mones for about four years now. Starting slow at first, figuring out how I react to certain ones, and more importantly, how others react. Fortunately, I’m very patient, because I’ve been playing the long game on a coworker. About the coworker: her age has ranged from 25 to 28 during the testing process. We met in college, had always been good friends, but after the testing began, we became very close. Several times during the initial testing, she would make comments about “there always being an undercurrent of feelings” and stuff like that. When I got my hands on P83 for the first time, everything changed. She reacts very well to the putative, added so much of a sexual spark to our proceedings. This lead to “The Talk 1”. We did not get together, she has a lot of hangups and I didn’t push. A few weeks later, she was dating a different coworker, I stopped mones around her, dated a few other women. Within two months, she had broken up with the other guy, coming to me saying that “she missed the two of us.” I did not wear mones during this time. This cascaded to “The Talk 2” around Christmas. It was a very difficult night where she spent most of the time crying in my arms about how she would never be good enough for me or that she was so screwed up and stuff like that. As she sobbed in my arms, I aborted making a move (damn gentlemanly instincts) and just held her. Things were not great after that, it was a month of coldness, cancelled plans, and pulling back. Frustrated, I ordered my two most reliable mones. p83 (in an unfortunate chocolatini scent, not sure what I was thinking) and [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/). This was my mix for the first month and a half starting in Feb . . . 20-30 mcg of P83 12.5-25 mcg of Ammo Simple, but boy was it effective. She sits next to me in a meeting everyday, which gives her about an hour straight exposure. Subtle hits included leaning extremely far over in her chair to be closer to mine, lots of hair play, subtle touching including the occasional footsie. When I would wear the higher dosage of p83, her leg would literally uncontrollably shake for a long period of time. Our interactions increased, including a very fun night at a local concert. I wore the same mix and we were very cuddly the whole time. After that night, she once again got uncomfortable with her feelings, pulled back again. I continued wearing the mix until I read about the nuclear mix. As soon as tax time came I made my order. A134 and A1 from LS. I got the order in about three weeks ago. Basically the mix is about the same as the nuclear mix, and I’ve alternated between the two versions. This is where things turn interesting . . . The blatant hits pretty much stopped, as soon as the meetings were over she would immediately bolt out the door. Last Friday, she sent out a deluge of an angry, drunken text storm. She wasn’t sure she could see me as a friend anymore, putting up a lot of walls like not wanting to date a coworker, that sort of thing. I would be lying if I said it wasn’t difficult. However, this past week, I continued the same mix. One day she wouldn’t even sit next to me in the meeting. Later in the afternoons when I would come by another coworkers desk, she would either get up an go to a very long bathroom trip or staring intently at her computer if I walk behind her desk or speak to her. It is a crazy reaction for sure. The biggest thing was on two separate occasions I walked in on her crying after she thought I had left her work area. So this brings us up the present. My thought is that given that she usually dates older guys, has a huge daddy issue, and all the past between us is that she is starting to see no other future but for us to be together and this scares her. I am planning on continuing to do what I’m doing. Long story, I know. Just wondering what everybody else though on the issue. ---
**Author:** ![Unique](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/unique/32/935_2.png) [@Unique](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Unique)\ **Post date:** [April 13, 2013, 4:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/bombing-the-friendzone-my-results-of-two-months-of-effort/58735/2 "2013-04-13T16:38:46Z")
“It was a very difficult night where she spent most of the time crying in my arms about how she would never be good enough for me or that she was so screwed up and stuff like that. As she sobbed in my arms, I aborted making a move (damn gentlemanly instincts) and just held her.” everything since this point is just you not making a move bro, man up. " her leg would literally uncontrollably shake for a long period of time." or you know, she could just be a little ADHD. Anyway, she’s acting the way she’s acting due to you not making a move and if you keep it up you’ll lose her (if you haven’t already)