# Boring Behavior combined with Turn up the Heat **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [June 2, 2009, 7:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/boring-behavior-combined-with-turn-up-the-heat/29508 "2009-06-02T19:57:20Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![metalTree](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/b38774/32.png) [@metalTree](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/metalTree)\ **Post date:** [June 2, 2009, 7:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/boring-behavior-combined-with-turn-up-the-heat/29508/1 "2009-06-02T19:57:20Z")
What if I put on a few sprays of Turn up the Heat before going out to a pickup bar and combine it with completely non-sexual borderline boring conversation? I can see that any comment that is sexual will definitely make women think I am a horndog while wearing Turn up the heat. But I’m thinking that if I had just a normal boring conversation, some of the women I talk to might get turned on from the Turn up the heat even if the conversation is completely non-sexual and boring. ---
**Author:** ![renny](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/renny/32/2104_2.png) [@renny](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/renny)\ **Post date:** [June 2, 2009, 8:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/boring-behavior-combined-with-turn-up-the-heat/29508/2 "2009-06-02T20:36:47Z")
> [@metalTree](#): > > What if I put on a few sprays of Turn up the Heat before going out to a pickup bar and combine it with completely non-sexual borderline boring conversation? I can see that any comment that is sexual will definitely make women think I am a horndog while wearing Turn up the heat. But I’m thinking that if I had just a normal boring conversation, some of the women I talk to might get turned on from the Turn up the heat even if the conversation is completely non-sexual and boring. Please don’t take this the wrong way but I gotta ask ‘Why?’. Women go to clubs to meet sexycharminghandsomerichpowerfulmysteriousromanticrockstars. They don’t go to meet boring non sexual guys who’s BO makes their woo-woo tingle. Those are the guys they label ‘creepy’ or ‘icky’. If you are gonna wear sexy [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) be a sexy guy. TUTH just about demands that you pepper your conversations with humorous sexual innuendo. The thing you DON’T want to do is act crass or vulgar as TUTH will amplify that in the wrong way…that’s what’ll get you labeled ‘horndog’. ---
**Author:** ![metalTree](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/b38774/32.png) [@metalTree](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/metalTree)\ **Post date:** [June 2, 2009, 9:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/boring-behavior-combined-with-turn-up-the-heat/29508/3 "2009-06-02T21:03:58Z")
> [@renny](#): > > Please don’t take this the wrong way but I gotta ask ‘Why?’. Women go to clubs to meet sexycharminghandsomerichpowerfulmysteriousromanticrockstars. They don’t go to meet boring non sexual guys who’s BO makes their woo-woo tingle. Those are the guys they label ‘creepy’ or ‘icky’. > > If you are gonna wear sexy pheromones be a sexy guy. TUTH just about demands that you pepper your conversations with humorous sexual innuendo. The thing you DON’T want to do is act crass or vulgar as TUTH will amplify that in the wrong way…that’s what’ll get you labeled ‘horndog’. I figured that conversation with sexual innuendo plus the turn up the heat might be too much. Perhaps that is not the case. I"m still new to this stuff and I’ve got some experimenting to do. ---
**Author:** ![renny](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/renny/32/2104_2.png) [@renny](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/renny)\ **Post date:** [June 2, 2009, 9:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/boring-behavior-combined-with-turn-up-the-heat/29508/4 "2009-06-02T21:12:01Z")
> [@metalTree](#): > > I figured that conversation with sexual innuendo plus the turn up the heat might be too much. Perhaps that is not the case. I"m still new to this stuff and I’ve got some experimenting to do. NP, being congruent is really important, All it really means is that what you do and what you say have to agree or the signal doesn’t make sense. TUTH communicates strong sexuality, the actions that go along with it will determine how it’s interpreted. ---
**Author:** ![Gegogi](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gegogi/32/1536_2.png) [@Gegogi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gegogi)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2009, 12:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/boring-behavior-combined-with-turn-up-the-heat/29508/5 "2009-06-03T00:51:13Z")
Mones are only effective within an appropriate social context coupled with appropriate behavior. So acting in a way to defeat and befuddle mones works just as well as spraying androstenone on a light pole or stiff at a funeral. And you don’t see too many women wildly humping light poles, although light poles are rich in androstenone (from dog urine). My experience is that androstenone mainly communicates aggression and power. Your behavior determines whether it will be interpreted as danger, e.g., an alpha male ready to kick your ass, sexuality, e.g., fuck you senseless, or is a merely false alarm/guy with bad BO. ---
**Author:** ![catlord17](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f9ae1b/32.png) [@catlord17](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/catlord17)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2009, 3:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/boring-behavior-combined-with-turn-up-the-heat/29508/6 "2009-06-03T15:25:36Z")
In my experience, no pheromone is going to override the context it is experienced in. Wearing TUTH and then acting in an incongruent manner is like finding a red piece in a blue puzzle. She’ll notice it, but when it doesn’t make sense according to everything else, she will either ignore it or interpret it as best she can according to the cues that surround it. I have tried doing this very same thing with Panty Scorcher. I can wear the same exact amount of it, in the same places, and when I go out and act uninterested and uninteresting, and then I talk about geek stuff to any girl who responds still… I get zilch. When I go out and mingle and give semi-aggressive eye contact with an attitude of “Let’s be naughty”, I tend to have women responding in a much, much more favorable, responsive and sexual manner. If it was pheromones only, you could, as I recall Gegogi saying at one point, spray the pheros on a lamp post and watch women try to do things with the lamp post. ---
**Author:** ![Gegogi](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gegogi/32/1536_2.png) [@Gegogi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gegogi)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2009, 6:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/boring-behavior-combined-with-turn-up-the-heat/29508/7 "2009-06-03T18:35:11Z")
> [@](#): > > catlord writes, “…spray the pheros on a lamp post and watch women try to do things with the lamp post.” This has been my ongoing fantasy for years. That would be so cool to be walking down a crowded avenue and suddenly a hot woman has a go with a lightpole. ---
**Author:** ![Mtnjim](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mtnjim/32/2010_2.png) [@Mtnjim](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mtnjim)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2009, 7:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/boring-behavior-combined-with-turn-up-the-heat/29508/8 "2009-06-03T19:10:04Z")
> [@Gegogi](#): > > This has been my ongoing fantasy for years. … You are a very strange man G.🙄