# Brief chat with a waitress in the men's room: how to go back and get her number? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [April 5, 2010, 9:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/brief-chat-with-a-waitress-in-the-mens-room-how-to-go-back-and-get-her-number/37530 "2010-04-05T21:55:41Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![qbdude](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/q/ecccb3/32.png) [@qbdude](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/qbdude)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2010, 9:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/brief-chat-with-a-waitress-in-the-mens-room-how-to-go-back-and-get-her-number/37530/1 "2010-04-05T21:55:41Z")
ok so im in the resturants restroom taking a piss and i hear the door open. when i finish, i see a super cute waittress cleaing the sink area. she was shocked to see someone in there, and iwas shocked to see a super cute lady in the mens room. we talked for a sec. so i asked her name etc. which i forgot 2 sec later. then a dude walks in and that runined it for me err and so i think i coulda got her number cuz the way she looked at me on the way out i was wearing IShine, IG, and someothers any ideas on going back and getting it? ---
**Author:** ![qbdude](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/q/ecccb3/32.png) [@qbdude](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/qbdude)\ **Post date:** [April 6, 2010, 1:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/brief-chat-with-a-waitress-in-the-mens-room-how-to-go-back-and-get-her-number/37530/2 "2010-04-06T01:24:01Z")
any one? -\_\_- ---
**Author:** ![Snoopyace](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/snoopyace/32/1727_2.png) [@Snoopyace](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Snoopyace)\ **Post date:** [April 6, 2010, 2:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/brief-chat-with-a-waitress-in-the-mens-room-how-to-go-back-and-get-her-number/37530/3 "2010-04-06T02:17:01Z")
Sorry, I’m not much of a PUA but I’m sure someone will see this and be able to help you out. ---
**Author:** ![RADMAN513](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/radman513/32/364_2.png) [@RADMAN513](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RADMAN513)\ **Post date:** [April 6, 2010, 2:29am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/brief-chat-with-a-waitress-in-the-mens-room-how-to-go-back-and-get-her-number/37530/4 "2010-04-06T02:29:21Z")
don’t knock yourself out, I’d like to pretend that I’d have done this or that but the truth is if I was caught off guard in a situation like that I’d be too surprised to do anything other than you did? ---
**Author:** ![warped](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/977dab/32.png) [@warped](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/warped)\ **Post date:** [April 6, 2010, 2:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/brief-chat-with-a-waitress-in-the-mens-room-how-to-go-back-and-get-her-number/37530/5 "2010-04-06T02:52:24Z")
If you wanna go in a reopen her then just do it. What’s the worst that could happen she turns out now? Even if she does she will be nice about it especial since she’s a hired gun. Even if you get turned down it will only help you because you can look back, see what you did wrong and correct it so you don’t do it again. ---
**Author:** ![M\_M](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/9fc29f/32.png) [@M\_M](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/M_M)\ **Post date:** [April 6, 2010, 3:29am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/brief-chat-with-a-waitress-in-the-mens-room-how-to-go-back-and-get-her-number/37530/6 "2010-04-06T03:29:56Z")
> [@warped](#): > > If you wanna go in a reopen her then just do it. What’s the worst that could happen she turns out now? Even if she does she will be nice about it especial since she’s a hired gun. > > Even if you get turned down it will only help you because you can look back, see what you did wrong and correct it so you don’t do it again. That was my thought. I thought that maybe I was too old and lost. If he feels that strongly about the connection … just go back and ask, but I, personally, wouldn’t give out my number to everybody just because they say hello and ask me my name. Still … 🙄 ---
**Author:** ![Maidenfan01](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e9bcb4/32.png) [@Maidenfan01](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Maidenfan01)\ **Post date:** [April 6, 2010, 6:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/brief-chat-with-a-waitress-in-the-mens-room-how-to-go-back-and-get-her-number/37530/7 "2010-04-06T06:25:13Z")
Joke about the encounter, strike up a small conversation again. At the end of the conversation, if all goes well, say it was fun talking to you and ask for her number. Honestly this stuff is dirt easy. Trust your gut and do what you think you should. Its usually as easy as that. I think a major problem alot of guys have is that they just don’t trust themselves in certain situations. ---
**Author:** ![qbdude](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/q/ecccb3/32.png) [@qbdude](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/qbdude)\ **Post date:** [April 7, 2010, 3:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/brief-chat-with-a-waitress-in-the-mens-room-how-to-go-back-and-get-her-number/37530/8 "2010-04-07T03:34:27Z")
> [@Maidenfan01](#): > > Joke about the encounter, strike up a small conversation again. At the end of the conversation, if all goes well, say it was fun talking to you and ask for her number. Honestly this stuff is dirt easy. Trust your gut and do what you think you should. Its usually as easy as that. I think a major problem alot of guys have is that they just don’t trust themselves in certain situations. i was at dinner at the same place but didnt see her there, a differt very cute girls sits very close to me, a freind tells me to go bk and try to get her number as im walking bk to there i forget everything i was gonna say, so i see her and ask for her number she kindyl says no but o well, it was a big releafe for me to ask. ive been so worked up by letting pretty women go and not even trying