# bwolf **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [August 3, 2011, 7:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/bwolf/51597 "2011-08-03T07:22:35Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 7
**Author:** ![looifookmeng](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/8baadc/32.png) [@looifookmeng](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/looifookmeng)\ **Post date:** [August 4, 2011, 7:36am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/bwolf/51597/7 "2011-08-04T07:36:38Z")
> [@bwolf](#): > > thank you. i wasnt really sure what all i should put as far as an intro so i guess ill add to it. i am known as philip by most. i live in cumming georgia. i am twenty one. i am an extrovert with friends but introvert to strangers which makes it hard to make friends or get to know people. i am intellectual person with an adventurous outdoorsy side. i have some issues with self worth and self confidence that i am trying to work on. i havent been in many relationships and the ones that i was in were long term. i am generally attracted to women that are in control of their lives. i had somewhat of a hero complex in the past that pushed me to try and take care of everyone but me. it tied in to my self worth issues. what i would like most from pheromones or at least i am hoping they can help me are that i would like to be more confident at work and in my personal life. i would like to be able to be as alpha as i feel sometimes and i would like to reestablish and restrengthen a connection with a friend which has deteriorated quite a bit do to some above mentioned issues and a couple of others. i noticed one in particular that is designed to help with trust? that is all that i can think of at the moment but i am much better with questions so please feel free to ask me. Hi there philip, Im pretty similar to you with the friends.I like to talk a lot with my friends but find it difficult with strangers.Instant openness is quite good for those situations as it gets you and other people talking more so its easier to hold a conversation.For the alpha image and confidence,you could try a314 or instant gentleman mixed with instant shine.Instant gentleman would probably be better though as it gives off a more relaxed vibe,a314 tends to be more serious and business like but can be buffered using the instant shine.Since you like women who are in control of their lives,instant gentleman may be better for you for attraction than ammo also.Instant shine tends to make you and the people around you happier so it also gives a confidence boost since you will feel good.Unfortunately instant gentleman is out of stock at the moment but should be back shortly.For the friend instant honesty and instant shine would probably be a good mix to help restrengthen your relationship as they will feel happy around you and like they can trust you more.Theres actually been a recent thread thats similar so could check it out if your interested.Whichever [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) you pick though,youll have to act like the vibe your giving out.They only help but dont do all the work for you. [Advice for repairing a friendship.](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advice-for-repairing-a-friendship/51594) ([Advice for repairing a friendship.](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advice-for-repairing-a-friendship/51594)) All the best and ask any questions you would like to know.Im still pretty new myself but ill answer the best i can and im sure the others will help too. --- _[View the full topic](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/bwolf/51597)._