# Calling all ladies! Help a guy make an impression **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [September 11, 2008, 5:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/calling-all-ladies-help-a-guy-make-an-impression/19256 "2008-09-11T05:10:40Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 4\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Reserva](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/ed8c4c/32.png) [@Reserva](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Reserva)\ **Post date:** [September 11, 2008, 5:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/calling-all-ladies-help-a-guy-make-an-impression/19256/1 "2008-09-11T05:10:40Z")
Evening, I come in request of some advice from the other perspective. For each of you individually, what little things could a guy do to improve upon his first impression as well as his initial-attraction aspect (Meaning, what catches your eye and what makes it want to turn away)? How can the usual guy survive the trials of those first impressions to live and fight another day? Also, if you possibly could, for the sake of myself as well as the other younger 18-19 year old men, could you tap back into your early college years? All of our tastes develop over time, so I was hoping I could at least get some advice for my age-lacking state of 18. Many thanks, - Trent ---
**Author:** ![Butterfly](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/butterfly/32/1942_2.png) [@Butterfly](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Butterfly)\ **Post date:** [September 11, 2008, 5:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/calling-all-ladies-help-a-guy-make-an-impression/19256/2 "2008-09-11T05:53:30Z")
Some things that improve the looks of most men: - Work out or do sports regularly. This will give you a better body aswell as sexier motorics. - Good hygiene, but not excessive. Hvae good breath and shower regularly, but don’t overdo it on the soap and cologne. - Wear natural fabrics. The look and feel sexier and you will smell a lot better. - Make a habit of talking with everyone. This way you won’t be too nervous when you approach a girl. Just be the friendly guy who talks to the kids in his neighbourhood, the old lady walking her dog, the guys fishing by the pond, the cute girls, the not so cute girls, just everyone. - Dance classes can help you move like a sexgod and get to know many girls. This is so powerful I kind of hanf wish I was an 18yo guy so I could use this. I would teach all the cute girls a few steps… - Don’t worry to much about what other people think of you. Try to have fun and help people enjoy themselves. - Don’t kiss and tell, be respectful to the girls you have been with. Most 18yo girls mainly care about looks and about the guy being into things they consider cool. Have a look somewhat congruent with your personality, but an incongruent hobby or two to make you interesting. This attracts a wider audience, but is also appealing to girls looking for connections on multiple levels. It is also pretty much a formula for being perceived as cool. The look still has to approach male handsomeness in order to work. This means a V-shaped body, smell sexy and no overly outlandish clothes or hairstyle. If you are a bit nerdy, riding a motorcycle or doing an extreme sport will give you a wisp of dark alphaness to offset that nerdyness. You can be the cute, fit smart guy who has a bit more balls to him. If you are a cleancut sporty guy, reading books or watching foreign films keeps you from looking like a dumb jock. Again, you basically look like the other jocks, but you have something extra when she sees an interesting book in your hands. This can be done with any type. Just be sure to pick things you are really interested in and enthusiastic about. You can be the rapper who does yoga on the side, the bodybuilder who likes travel, the preppy player who volunteers with inner city kids, the artistic guy who does martial arts. ---
**Author:** ![Takhisis](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Takhisis](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Takhisis)\ **Post date:** [September 11, 2008, 6:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/calling-all-ladies-help-a-guy-make-an-impression/19256/3 "2008-09-11T06:08:21Z")
I would like to add: - Be passionate about what you do: whatever your side activity of choice is, pick something you want to invest yourself in 110%. Girls dig guys with drive and if you’re getting satisfaction out of your activities, it shows. - Be an individual: if you go out with your friends, make sure you’re not just one in a pack. I’m not sure how to describe this but act confident and don’t be afraid to ditch your friends (temporarily and let them know you’ll be back) to strike up a convo with someone new. - Good posture!! 🙂 Stand and move like you own the world. Butterfly’s advice about being a nice, approachable guy will prevent you from being perceived as a jackass. - SMILE: it doesn’t have to be a goofy grin all the time but even a small half-smile when passing someone will brighten up their day and establish you as a genuinely nice person. Be honest about it though: if you’re having a horrible time, don’t try to fake-smile, that’s visible a mile off. ---
**Author:** ![Richis](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/richis/32/1756_2.png) [@Richis](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Richis)\ **Post date:** [September 11, 2008, 6:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/calling-all-ladies-help-a-guy-make-an-impression/19256/4 "2008-09-11T06:59:57Z")
Learn ballroom dancing. Yeah, it sounds like a girly girl activity, but there is always a lack of men to partner up with. Take it from me, beginner girls hate to dance the male part (even at advanced levels, there is always a feeling of wanting to be the girl rather than the guy there), but the men are always a hit with the ladies due to scarcity. Or if you’re not that into ballroom, go for salsa or argentine tango. Any guy who knows how to dance becomes the eye candy of many women and the envy of all men. 😃