# Calling all PUA's **URL:** \ **Category:** Lounge\ **Created:** [June 14, 2010, 3:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/calling-all-puas/39297 "2010-06-14T03:23:01Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 11\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![P51Mustang](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/p51mustang/32/1266_2.png) [@P51Mustang](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/P51Mustang)\ **Post date:** [June 14, 2010, 3:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/calling-all-puas/39297/1 "2010-06-14T03:23:01Z")
Need some quick tips and tricks on opening sets with groups of girls. Me and a wingman. I got 4 days, and many parties to go to. ---
**Author:** ![RADMAN513](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/radman513/32/364_2.png) [@RADMAN513](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RADMAN513)\ **Post date:** [June 14, 2010, 3:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/calling-all-puas/39297/2 "2010-06-14T03:59:48Z")
These house parties or clubs, there can be some differences you can pull at one that won’t work as well at the other. ---
**Author:** ![unknown0001](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/unknown0001/32/559_2.png) [@unknown0001](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/unknown0001)\ **Post date:** [June 14, 2010, 4:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/calling-all-puas/39297/3 "2010-06-14T04:14:57Z")
Well one method I’ve used that worked great and I got laid was this…I just walked straight up…put out my hand to shake, and shook every girls hand..Hi I’m \_\_\_\_…to all 5 of them. With a pleasant smile on my face, I was there to simply say hello and comment on the crowd…this was in the Power and Light district of Kansas City, MO…big outside hundreds of people type place…after I just said simply Hi I’m \_\_\_-. Not even looking at them…I sit and look around…I genreally thought the place was cool, so I say so…then…one says…Do you do this to all the girls here? I say YEH!..I love meeting people…then the girl says something to neg me again.. I look at her friends and say…Is she always forceful like that??..then they ask me what I’m doing…I’m honest…I’m a traveling actor…and such and such…the one girl who was negging me I ignore and talk to her uglier friends…etc etc etc…but that’s how I opened…I find for myself…just go straight up…BAM. Look them dead in the eye like I’m the host of the event and say HI I’m \_\_\_\_\_…easy, real, hard to get blown out opener. ---
**Author:** ![RADMAN513](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/radman513/32/364_2.png) [@RADMAN513](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RADMAN513)\ **Post date:** [June 14, 2010, 4:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/calling-all-puas/39297/4 "2010-06-14T04:51:17Z")
OK one thing…honestly the only technique in my bag of tricks that I consider to be original and my own as opposed to simple spins off the M3 model is this. Open the whole fucking club! I’ve done it three times before, once at LAX in vegas. Basically you open multiple sets including guy only sets at various locations around the venue and randomly mix and match merging the sets including the set with your target. Here’s the gist of it. Spy out a few sets, including at least a couple of mixed sets and if you find a guys only set like a bachelor party group that’s golden and I’ll explain why in a sec. Acquire your target and approach the set. Open by asking one of the girls how many new people can she say she’s met tonight. Whatever the answer, say something along the lines of “Yanno, my experience has been that people go to public places and all too often they stick to talking to people they already know…what’s so interesting about that? am I right or what?” Before anyone can answer ask if they like having fun and meeting new people. By attaching the word fun to meeting new people, you almost guarantee a yes answer. Then say “OK then we’re gonna play a little game that will make tonight the most interesting night you’ve had in a while” Single out your target and inform her that you’re gonna need her help with this. And then only speak to her when giving her instructions. Tell the girls you’ll be right back and find a set that has the most guys or highest ratio of guys to women. Walk right up smiling to the guys and say “ok who here is with a lady and who’s running stag tonight cause I need some single guys to pull this off. You see that group of ladies over there, I need X number of guys to come over there with me and introduce themselves, have some small talk and get to know the ladies for about 10-15 minutes, pay attention to what they say gentlemen because there might be a test later.” You’re offering to introduce them to some girls, of course they’re going to give you compliance. Now, say your set has five girls, bring over three guys, take two girls from the group and introduce them to a totally different set. Do this with about three more sets, the girls will be giggling and the guys will follow your every instruction because you have girls and you’re sharing them. What they don’t realize is they’re beta’ing themselves. By giving instructions to them and having those instructions followed you’re effectively cutting their balls off in front of every girl in the joint and they’re thanking you for it. Even sets that you don’t approach will notice you at this point and women will be eyeballing you since you seem to be the man, you’re running the place. Your target will notice this and will actually enjoy the attention, especially if you playfully introduce her as your lovely assistant (insert name here). Then when you get to a about your fifth set…pass HER off to that set. Then instruct her to engage in small talk with the group until her drink is finished, at which point she is to come and get you. If she doesn’t have one, buy her one. This gambit is one of the few times it’s ok to buy the drink first since you’re doing it as an aside for purposes of the game and not to buy her time and conversation. Then leave her, she’ll feel that loss when you go back and return to the first set and ask how things are going and if everyone is having a good time. This gambit is great because it makes you the center of attention, it gives a very hard leader of men dhv since the guys, eager to meet women will do whatever you say without hesitation. It gives a very strong pre selection DHV since every set you open you’re gaining compliance from more and more women as you mix and match each set AND get looks of curiosity from women that you haven’t even approached. Do NOT be surprised if this winds up looking like so much fun, or at least interesting enough that you get some girls or sets to open you asking what you’re doing and if they can be part of it. Your target will finish her drink and come back to you at which point you can go through the various merged sets and ask random questions of everyone, of course with your target following you like she’s your personal assistant which she most likely will do. Ask Bob where Susan is from, ask Susan what Bill does for a living, ask Bill where Jane went to school etc. Then say something about “well now that everyone has met some new people and had some conversation can I safely say we’re having a great fucking time tonight?” They’ll most likely be very enthusiastic in saying yes. Then move your assistant to an isolated location and you now have a very interesting experience to talk about and you look like a fucking rock star in her eyes. I did this mone free but I’m convinced that 3 sprays each of 297, IO and Shine would make it hit like a hammer. ---
**Author:** ![unknown0001](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/unknown0001/32/559_2.png) [@unknown0001](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/unknown0001)\ **Post date:** [June 14, 2010, 4:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/calling-all-puas/39297/5 "2010-06-14T04:59:17Z")
> [@RADMAN513](#): > > OK one thing…honestly the only technique in my bag of tricks that I consider to be original and my own as opposed to simple spins off the M3 model is this. > > Open the whole fucking club! I’ve done it three times before, once at LAX in vegas. Basically you open multiple sets including guy only sets at various locations around the venue and randomly mix and match merging the sets including the set with your target. > > Here’s the gist of it. Spy out a few sets, including at least a couple of mixed sets and if you find a guys only set like a bachelor party group that’s golden and I’ll explain why in a sec. > Acquire your target and approach the set. Open by asking one of the girls how many new people can she say she’s met tonight. Whatever the answer, say something along the lines of “Yanno, my experience has been that people go to public places and all too often they stick to talking to people they already know…what’s so interesting about that? am I right or what?” Before anyone can answer ask if they like having fun and meeting new people. By attaching the word fun to meeting new people, you almost guarantee a yes answer. Then say “OK then we’re gonna play a little game that will make tonight the most interesting night you’ve had in a while” Single out your target and inform her that you’re gonna need her help with this. And then only speak to her when giving her instructions. Tell the girls you’ll be right back and find a set that has the most guys or highest ratio of guys to women. Walk right up smiling to the guys and say > “ok who here is with a lady and who’s running stag tonight cause I need some single guys to pull this off. You see that group of ladies over there, I need X number of guys to come over there with me and introduce themselves, have some small talk and get to know the ladies for about 10-15 minutes, pay attention to what they say gentlemen because there might be a test later.” > You’re offering to introduce them to some girls, of course they’re going to give you compliance. > Now, say your set has five girls, bring over three guys, take two girls from the group and introduce them to a totally different set. Do this with about three more sets, the girls will be giggling and the guys will follow your every instruction because you have girls and you’re sharing them. What they don’t realize is they’re beta’ing themselves. By giving instructions to them and having those instructions followed you’re effectively cutting their balls off in front of every girl in the joint and they’re thanking you for it. Even sets that you don’t approach will notice you at this point and women will be eyeballing you since you seem to be the man, you’re running the place. Your target will notice this and will actually enjoy the attention, especially if you playfully introduce her as your lovely assistant (insert name here). Then when you get to a about your fifth set…pass HER off to that set. Then instruct her to engage in small talk with the group until her drink is finished, at which point she is to come and get you. If she doesn’t have one, buy her one. This gambit is one of the few times it’s ok to buy the drink first since you’re doing it as an aside for purposes of the game and not to buy her time and conversation. > Then leave her, she’ll feel that loss when you go back and return to the first set and ask how things are going and if everyone is having a good time. > > This gambit is great because it makes you the center of attention, it gives a very hard leader of men dhv since the guys, eager to meet women will do whatever you say without hesitation. It gives a very strong pre selection DHV since every set you open you’re gaining compliance from more and more women as you mix and match each set AND get looks of curiosity from women that you haven’t even approached. Do NOT be surprised if this winds up looking like so much fun, or at least interesting enough that you get some girls or sets to open you asking what you’re doing and if they can be part of it. > > Your target will finish her drink and come back to you at which point you can go through the various merged sets and ask random questions of everyone, of course with your target following you like she’s your personal assistant which she most likely will do. Ask Bob where Susan is from, ask Susan what Bill does for a living, ask Bill where Jane went to school etc. > > Then say something about “well now that everyone has met some new people and had some conversation can I safely say we’re having a great fucking time tonight?” They’ll most likely be very enthusiastic in saying yes. Then move your assistant to an isolated location and you now have a very interesting experience to talk about and you look like a fucking rock star in her eyes. > > I did this mone free but I’m convinced that 3 sprays each of 297, IO and Shine would make it hit like a hammer. Ohh yeah i like that…about the “meeting new people or not” cause frankly it;s very true… That nite i did the multiple set opens too. Its a great thing. Like you own the place ---
**Author:** ![RADMAN513](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/radman513/32/364_2.png) [@RADMAN513](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RADMAN513)\ **Post date:** [June 14, 2010, 5:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/calling-all-puas/39297/6 "2010-06-14T05:21:21Z")
Exactly, just act like you’re the club promoter/host and that making sure everyone has an awesome time is part of your job. ---
**Author:** ![hoplessly](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/hoplessly/32/2319_2.png) [@hoplessly](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/hoplessly)\ **Post date:** [June 17, 2010, 12:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/calling-all-puas/39297/7 "2010-06-17T00:39:38Z")
Rad, I’m in total awe of what you did. Wow. ---
**Author:** ![RADMAN513](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/radman513/32/364_2.png) [@RADMAN513](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RADMAN513)\ **Post date:** [June 18, 2010, 2:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/calling-all-puas/39297/8 "2010-06-18T14:04:30Z")
I’m wondering how things work out with P51Mustangs trip. ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [June 18, 2010, 2:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/calling-all-puas/39297/9 "2010-06-18T14:26:22Z")
Damn sorry I missed this. In the future, for quick help like this call me and I’ll hook you up. Or at the very least send me a quick PM. ---
**Author:** ![P51Mustang](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/p51mustang/32/1266_2.png) [@P51Mustang](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/P51Mustang)\ **Post date:** [June 13, 2011, 3:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/calling-all-puas/39297/10 "2011-06-13T15:22:56Z")
I’ve going over my old posts and Journal entries. I didn’t get to do what Radman suggested, however, indirectly that’s how it ended up working out with us on that trip. After I read this, I realized that I now do this naturally and I got it tailored to my own personality and it does really really work and opens up so many doors for you. Anyone whos followed my Journal knows I have decent options. A lot of it has to do with being social and likeable and going out there and having fun. Great and insightful suggestion by Rad, yet again. ---
**Author:** ![PheroJack](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pherojack/32/527_2.png) [@PheroJack](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PheroJack)\ **Post date:** [June 13, 2011, 8:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/calling-all-puas/39297/11 "2011-06-13T20:40:53Z")
I seriously think that people in this forum should all gather up and make their own PUA freakin book! What’s intersting is that we can add a [pheromone](https://a314.com/) advice section in every section… Radman & Steve along with many phero-PUA users should be the main writers while others can add little tips here and there. a great way to start is Google wave which you can invite certain people to join and everyone could see the progress of the book while being able to edit it as much as they want and you can obviously look at what was changed and modified etc… Later on, AD could even sell that book in their store. Wat ya guys think 😃?