# Can anyone give me their two cents? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [March 19, 2009, 12:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/can-anyone-give-me-their-two-cents/27205 "2009-03-19T00:50:17Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![woostar88](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/96bed5/32.png) [@woostar88](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/woostar88)\ **Post date:** [March 19, 2009, 12:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/can-anyone-give-me-their-two-cents/27205/1 "2009-03-19T00:50:17Z")
Im anxious person in general. I don’t want to say that i am sensitive, i just get nervous when im in front of people. anyways, i have this two presentation coming up, and which pheros would help me to stay on guard? ---
**Author:** ![MikeMan22](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikeman22/32/332_2.png) [@MikeMan22](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MikeMan22)\ **Post date:** [March 19, 2009, 12:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/can-anyone-give-me-their-two-cents/27205/2 "2009-03-19T00:51:48Z")
instant shine and instant openness.. Should help you be confident and help you speak more freely ---
**Author:** ![SCoupe](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/scoupe/32/2101_2.png) [@SCoupe](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SCoupe)\ **Post date:** [March 19, 2009, 1:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/can-anyone-give-me-their-two-cents/27205/3 "2009-03-19T01:19:50Z")
I like Mike’s recommendation but IMO to help calm you down & provide you with a more alpha sense of self you should @ least try A314. Some may think it’s a little too ‘serious’ for a 20 yo but nervousness is nothing more than a lack of confidence & 314 will surely help with that. You can lighten it up a little with I-Shine. [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) will work but I just wouldn’t think you would want to project yourself as a nervous blabbermouth. ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [March 19, 2009, 3:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/can-anyone-give-me-their-two-cents/27205/4 "2009-03-19T03:47:28Z")
While both my compatriots have offered valuable insight I might ask you to tell us a little bit more about yourself first. What makes you anxious? Is it public speaking? [Pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) do what they say they can do, like increase social interactions, sexual attraction, shiny happy persons, confidence booster, but they are only designed to give off subtle results. In other words they aren’t magic. So where as some might help you relax a little, none of them will beat down a serious anxiety attack, if its something you are taking medication for. That’s why I ask some more questions 🙂. However whenever I’m feeling a little bit anxious there are different avenues I can take. I like IShine to overcome anxiousness due to things that I worked up in my own mind. I know everything is going to be OK, but that damn credit card bill has got me thinking again. Spray some Ishine and its all good again. Keep in mind though that some anxious people who fight an anxiety disorder will actually increase their level of anxiety. So as with anything it has to be taken into consideration what actually is the root cause. IH certainly can make someone more relaxed and A314 gives some serious confidence boosting power, but just maybe you are seeking IG instead. ---
**Author:** ![woostar88](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/96bed5/32.png) [@woostar88](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/woostar88)\ **Post date:** [March 19, 2009, 4:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/can-anyone-give-me-their-two-cents/27205/5 "2009-03-19T04:52:43Z")
Well, I don’t have serious anxiety problem… just when im meeting new people, i don’t want to make bad impression. It’s like being a sales person at car dealership, but first impression is everything. I guess i care too much about what others would think. And it’s probably the main reason why i get nervous when im in front of people. But when im with my friends, im humorous and outgoing. Im not sure, i like to keep my feeling closed in a bottle cap, but it spill out sometimes. And i tend to spill the beans too often, during conversations. Anyways, one thing it help me is smoking cigs, and working out at the gym. ---
**Author:** ![Xiphoid](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xiphoid/32/1852_2.png) [@Xiphoid](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Xiphoid)\ **Post date:** [March 19, 2009, 11:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/can-anyone-give-me-their-two-cents/27205/6 "2009-03-19T11:53:57Z")
I think Steve gave you some great advice…I think IS is a great choice but I’d give it a test run first to see how _YOU_ react to it. Like Steve also mentioned, some people with anxiety problems or who are prone to anxiety can get more anxious from the IS. I’d say that if you are one of those people who not only get a mood and confidence boost by IS but also a general perking up almost like an energy boost too, then I’d think you’d be more prone to maybe aggravating anxiety if you use IS. So, do a test run with it 🙂 Steve also mentioned IG…Obviously I don’t have any experience of using this myself but from what I hear it’s similar to A314 but a bit “softer” and less intimidating. I believe it’s also sometimes suggested as a better option for someone younger or who may not be able to pull off the strong alpha vibe in A314. One product that hasn’t been mentioned yet but that I find really helpful at work as well as during stressful situations like the clinical exams I had a few weeks back…Mx274. It’s really good at giving a relaxed and calm feeling without being sedating. For my clinical exams I used Mx274, Mx300 (the womens version of A314) and either IH or IO (can’t remember which now)…I found it to be a really good combo that made me feel relaxed & calm, but also confident and assertive with getting my point/knowledge across. Let us know how you go!