# can pheromones help me get this girl who has a bf ? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [March 20, 2011, 5:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/can-pheromones-help-me-get-this-girl-who-has-a-bf/49433 "2011-03-20T17:34:56Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 11\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![teejes](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/a9adbd/32.png) [@teejes](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/teejes)\ **Post date:** [March 20, 2011, 5:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/can-pheromones-help-me-get-this-girl-who-has-a-bf/49433/1 "2011-03-20T17:34:56Z")
im 16 and the girl i like is 18 and basically she has a boyfriend and i know theres other girls out there but theres something about her that really makes me want her and i cant stop thinking about her she really all i can think about at the moment and i was thinking maybe [pheromones](https://a314.com/) could help me even though thats kind of a bad thing to try and do but i really seem attracted to her so it seems like a good idea. my soon to be arsenal will include. ammo IO IS IG and maybe IH ---
**Author:** ![unknown0001](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/unknown0001/32/559_2.png) [@unknown0001](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/unknown0001)\ **Post date:** [March 20, 2011, 5:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/can-pheromones-help-me-get-this-girl-who-has-a-bf/49433/2 "2011-03-20T17:51:43Z")
is this the same girl from the other post? “seems like a good idea?” No I’d say it seems like a BAD idea. Trying to snag another mans girl is always a bad idea. But that’s my opinion…as for mones. No mones don’t get girls away from guys. Mones transmit signals that tell others you are a certain way, but you gotta do the rest. ---
**Author:** ![teejes](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/a9adbd/32.png) [@teejes](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/teejes)\ **Post date:** [March 20, 2011, 5:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/can-pheromones-help-me-get-this-girl-who-has-a-bf/49433/3 "2011-03-20T17:53:51Z")
yeah its the same girl i just found out today that she had a boyfriend and im sooo gutted like really pissed tbh ---
**Author:** ![K-Train](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/k-train/32/2253_2.png) [@K-Train](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/K-Train)\ **Post date:** [March 20, 2011, 5:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/can-pheromones-help-me-get-this-girl-who-has-a-bf/49433/4 "2011-03-20T17:55:24Z")
> [@teejes](#): > > im 16 and the girl i like is 18 and basically she has a boyfriend and i know theres other girls out there but theres something about her that really makes me want her and i cant stop thinking about her she really all i can think about at the moment and i was thinking maybe pheromones could help me even though thats kind of a bad thing to try and do but i really seem attracted to her so it seems like a good idea. > > my soon to be arsenal will include. > > ammo > IO > IS > IG and maybe IH I apologize in advice for being preachy or sounding old. But rest assured I will answer your question.🙂 (and I’m not old either, only 20)😛 First off, I’m not going to beat around the bush, yes they CAN help you. _ **BUUUUUUUT. They WILL NOT MAKE HER DO ANYTHING SHE DOESN’T ALREADY WANT TO DO.** _ Unless this girl really REALLY wants to ditch her bf, then there’s little pheros can do. I’m actually in a similar situation you’re in right now. I have a study buddy who is quite attractive, has a bf, is attracted to me and I’m also attracted to her. But I will tell you from personal experience that going after girls who are already attached is like playing with fire. Which is why I keep my relationship with her as friends/study partners. Also remember this rule. If she cheats on her current bf, what’s stopping her from cheating on you in the future? Even if she tells you she loves you down the road, she probably used that same line on the other dude before she dumped him. The choice is ultimately yours. But whatever you do, wrap it up, and be sure to watch your back, and above all be safe.😉 ---
**Author:** ![RADMAN513](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/radman513/32/364_2.png) [@RADMAN513](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RADMAN513)\ **Post date:** [March 20, 2011, 6:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/can-pheromones-help-me-get-this-girl-who-has-a-bf/49433/5 "2011-03-20T18:56:42Z")
First off, you’re likely to find pretty close to a general consensus around here against intentionally breaking up an existing relationship, it’s not only dishonorable, but frankly not the brightest idea either in the case the the man you’d be stealing the woman from may be larger and meaner than you. Now as was said, mones will not MAKE anyone do anything other than get an impression of you that they would ideally consider attractive. Thing is, as I mentioned in your other thread…(at least I think it was yours), Girls your age very rarely go for younger guys. Once you hit your 20’s and up 2 years becomes an insignificant difference but in the teen years and a high school environment 2 years may as well be 20. I’m not saying it’s impossible but with the hierarchy set up between upper and lower classmen it’s tough to impress a senior when you’re a sophomore. In fact girls in their senior years of HS tend to prefer guys that are the same age or older. 18 year old girls dating guys in their freshman or sophomore years of college is not at all uncommon. I mean maybe things have changed dramatically since I was 16 but I’d be willing to wager that most of the girls at your school with boyfriends are dating guys at least their own age if not older, and most of the guys are dating girls their age or younger. Besides which, once she graduates and you still have another year or two left in your HS years, a relationship would be even harder to maintain. If she goes away to college you have the distance issue, but then girls in college tend to like to think of themselves as “college women” and they consider anyone still in HS as a kid. I hate being the fly in the guacamole here but I just don’t see it happening, if she was single maybe but competing against a boyfriend her own age? I’m sorry bro. And like I said, even if you could do it, I can’t advise or condone breaking up a relationship. Honestly your best bet would be to stop obsessing over one girl. Get your mones, work on your game and keep an open mind about casually meeting/dating girls your own age. ---
**Author:** ![rolandcubed](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/b782af/32.png) [@rolandcubed](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/rolandcubed)\ **Post date:** [March 20, 2011, 7:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/can-pheromones-help-me-get-this-girl-who-has-a-bf/49433/6 "2011-03-20T19:34:33Z")
What everyone says is right. If she does not want to ditch her boyfriend, no amount of pheromones can change that. ---
**Author:** ![John\_Sebastian](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/john_sebastian/32/1060_2.png) [@John\_Sebastian](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/John_Sebastian)\ **Post date:** [March 20, 2011, 7:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/can-pheromones-help-me-get-this-girl-who-has-a-bf/49433/7 "2011-03-20T19:55:49Z")
> [@teejes](#): > > im 16 and the girl i like is 18 and basically she has a boyfriend and i know theres other girls out there but theres something about her that really makes me want her and i cant stop thinking about her she really all i can think about at the moment and i was thinking maybe pheromones could help me even though thats kind of a bad thing to try and do but i really seem attracted to her so it seems like a good idea. > > my soon to be arsenal will include. > > ammo > IO > IS > IG and maybe IH No, pheromones can not override free will. If she’s happy let her be happy. ---
**Author:** ![The\_Quiet\_Man](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/4bbf92/32.png) [@The\_Quiet\_Man](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/The_Quiet_Man)\ **Post date:** [March 20, 2011, 8:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/can-pheromones-help-me-get-this-girl-who-has-a-bf/49433/8 "2011-03-20T20:54:08Z")
I think it can definitely arouse someone whether they go for it is up to their self-control and loyalty. I wouldn’t like to do it. It’s not a nice to thing to do and creates a bad attitude. But what happens if she leaves him 'cos of you? Does that make it ok? ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [March 20, 2011, 10:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/can-pheromones-help-me-get-this-girl-who-has-a-bf/49433/9 "2011-03-20T22:29:39Z")
I agree with everyone else. No they wont make her go against her own free will. This is not to say dont wear them around her though. You dont know what her relationship is like. Suppose they break up down the road, you would have left a impression on her with your mones now. I do have to agree with RAD though on the age thing. Girls in the 17 to 20 age range dont date down in age. No offence to men I love them but women tend to mature a little quicker so they look for men older then themselves by at least a year or two. Once we get into the upper 20’s and above it matters less but we will still only date down by a few years at most. Once we hit our forties all bets are off and its a free for all within legal age limit of course LOL Tisha ---
**Author:** ![lifeisgood7](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lifeisgood7/32/1834_2.png) [@lifeisgood7](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/lifeisgood7)\ **Post date:** [March 20, 2011, 11:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/can-pheromones-help-me-get-this-girl-who-has-a-bf/49433/10 "2011-03-20T23:52:06Z")
lol u have a classic case of one-itis… take a second and pause and read this sentence outloud: u can use this opportunity and heal ur one-itis for the rest of ur life rad and john are right. **work on ur inner game and loving urself.** this is not a recipe to have woman flock to you… but a recipe to have THE RIGHT WOMEN flock to u. deuces n luck ---
**Author:** ![RADMAN513](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/radman513/32/364_2.png) [@RADMAN513](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RADMAN513)\ **Post date:** [March 21, 2011, 4:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/can-pheromones-help-me-get-this-girl-who-has-a-bf/49433/11 "2011-03-21T04:33:07Z")
> [@tisha23](#): > > I agree with everyone else. No they wont make her go against her own free will. This is not to say dont wear them around her though. You dont know what her relationship is like. Suppose they break up down the road, you would have left a impression on her with your mones now. > > I do have to agree with RAD though on the age thing. Girls in the 17 to 20 age range dont date down in age. No offence to men I love them but women tend to mature a little quicker so they look for men older then themselves by at least a year or two. Once we get into the upper 20’s and above it matters less but we will still only date down by a few years at most. Once we hit our forties all bets are off and its a free for all within legal age limit of course LOL > > Tisha Well not just for women but people in general. A person of either gender at the age of 40 isn’t going to see much difference in a person that’s 38, they certainly won’t see them as a kid who’s soooo far behind them in terms of maturity and life experiences. But an 18 year old girl has been driving for a while, likely has her own car by now, might have a part time job, is focusing on what college she’s planning on going to (which may not be in the same town or even the same part of the country). She’s about to have a major lifestyle change in less than a year. One that you won’t be able to partake in legally. Hell it won’t even wait till she actually goes off to college. Once she graduates her summer will be busy with parties and vacations with her other newly graduated friends and bringing along somebody too young will put her in an awkward position. It goes the other way around as well though admittedly not as much. But a guy going off to college is looking at the possibility of wild parties with wilder college age women and usually don’t want to be tied down to a less experienced highschool sweatheart. It’s just the way things work, at two years old a single year was a full 50% of your life…at 50, it’s only 2% so a year becomes less significant of a gap as you get older. But when I was 16 I was mad crushing on a girl, thing is she was dating a guy that was 21. So here I am barely getting my license and he had a license, his own car, no legal curfew, could buy his own booze without having to give a homeless guy 5 bucks tip to buy it for him (ohhh the good old days) Had just finished college and was starting a job where he made as much per day as I did in two weeks. It’s very hard to demonstrate value against that when you’re borrowing a very unsexy car from mom and have to have it back home by 10. Use the mones as Tish suggested, and work toward increasing your status as much as you can within your age limitations. Get your license, get a work permit and get an after school job so you don’t have to depend on your parents for every dollar, get your own car…even a clunker is YOUR car and those without a POS car still have to envy yours. If you’re athletically inclined find a sport to try out for etc. Work on you, focus on you and you’ll attract girls your age and maybe a year or so younger. Cause even if you did manage to attract this one, I don’t see it lasting much longer after grad.