# Can pheromones keep away a man who keeps showing up at my door? **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [February 28, 2008, 12:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/can-pheromones-keep-away-a-man-who-keeps-showing-up-at-my-door/9521 "2008-02-28T12:10:31Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![desert\_rose](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/8c91f0/32.png) [@desert\_rose](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/desert_rose)\ **Post date:** [March 11, 2008, 4:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/can-pheromones-keep-away-a-man-who-keeps-showing-up-at-my-door/9521/21 "2008-03-11T04:05:23Z")
hi kitten, awww thanks 🙂 I’m thinking of maybe trying [instant sexiness b](https://phera.com/product/kitten/) just on myself for self effects, I am a little worried about effects on others though cause well everyone already thinks I’m kinda well you know, lol!! I just put some female magic on cause I been crying all night, now I’m feeling well kinda funny, lol!! its like everythings ok what I’m worried about ohhhh I don’t care its all gonna be fine I donno I just don’t feel sad no more its hard to describe I’m feeling good though it makes me happy. awww I’m getting really sleepy too I been trying to rest for a while just been too upset I feel good now so I’m gonna go sleep, I’m really wondering if instant sexiness b can give me more good feelings too, I like to feel good its nice 🙂 I’ll write more soon I’m feeling good now so I’m gonna go sleep and I’ll write more soon to let you know how that goes too 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [March 11, 2008, 9:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/can-pheromones-keep-away-a-man-who-keeps-showing-up-at-my-door/9521/22 "2008-03-11T09:48:46Z")
desert You have mentioned that you come off as femme to alot of people. If this is the vibe your going for thats fine but if not do not use [Instant sexiness B](https://phera.com/product/kitten/). Its geared more to making you girly and although some men have pulled using IS/A off they wear alot of Androstenone with it to balance out. It would be even harder to balance IS/B. Keep in mind the self effects on a women with a womens product and with a man with womens products will be different. If you just want to test for the sake of testing we always encourage that. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![desert\_rose](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/8c91f0/32.png) [@desert\_rose](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/desert_rose)\ **Post date:** [March 12, 2008, 12:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/can-pheromones-keep-away-a-man-who-keeps-showing-up-at-my-door/9521/23 "2008-03-12T12:24:07Z")
hi Tisha, awww thanks 🙂 Your right too I already to come of as somewhat girly, I wouldn’t feel as good around alot of people if I seemed even more feminine like than I already am, thats what I love so much about the [social pheromones](https://a314.com/product-category/social-pheromones/) how they don’t seem to change that either way. So far I’ve only used instant female magic, instant honesty and instant openess they all seem to work good for me specially instant female magic and instant honesty. Instant openess is pretty good in most cases too except when people around me don’t share common interests one time I wanted to know if there was a mute button!!! lol!! the guy that was showing up like that came by one time just talked forever!!! I tried to pretend to listen though and it worked out. It seems works best along with instant honesty for me, I love instant honesty I wear whenever I go out 🙂 I’m really thinking of getting A314 next too cause if it doesn’t have the aggressive side of other male products to it I’d be alot more comfortable trying it 🙂 It would be really good if it would help my confidence level too its gone up alot so far since using pheromones I still want it to go up more though it feels so much better feeling more sure of myself 🙂 awww thanks for helping me out it helps me alot 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [March 12, 2008, 8:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/can-pheromones-keep-away-a-man-who-keeps-showing-up-at-my-door/9521/24 "2008-03-12T20:25:06Z")
A314 should be fine for you. There is not alot of anone in it. I think you may like Instant Gentlemen though. Its masculine and worldly without and aggressiveness. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![desert\_rose](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/8c91f0/32.png) [@desert\_rose](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/desert_rose)\ **Post date:** [March 21, 2008, 8:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/can-pheromones-keep-away-a-man-who-keeps-showing-up-at-my-door/9521/25 "2008-03-21T08:38:50Z")
Hi Tisha, thanks 🙂 Me too instant gentlemen sounds like it could fit me without me having to change my personality so much cause I’m so soft and always nervous around more than one or two guys at the most, if it can make me seem a little less well you know it would help 🙂 A314 looks good too, specially since most of my life people haven’t had much respect for me cause I’m so soft, I can’t help it and I like being soft I wish others would respect that too though, I’m thinking I wanna try both instant gentlemen and A314, I doubt I would want both at once just depending on the occasion, of course I wanna test them each separately and with no one I know around, it seems safest bet… just in case, lol!! Oh guess what!! I don’t have anyone showing up in the morning anymore, some people I know that used to live farther away than me moved closer so now he shows up there instead!!! Thanks so much for helping me 🙂 reps for you 🙂 [Previous page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/can-pheromones-keep-away-a-man-who-keeps-showing-up-at-my-door/9521.md?page=1)