# Can TAH be responsible?

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**Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [February 6, 2008, 10:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/can-tah-be-responsible/8947 "2008-02-06T22:16:04Z")\
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**Author:** ![Chaionlife](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/47e85d/32.png) [@Chaionlife](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Chaionlife)\
**Post date:** [February 6, 2008, 10:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/can-tah-be-responsible/8947/1 "2008-02-06T22:16:04Z")

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**Product name,scent and strength**  
I’ve been experimenting with my Instant Sexiness (regular strength, type A) and my TAH (5 mcg per spray).

First, my trial of Instant Sexiness:  
**Application dosage and locations**  
Instant Sexiness A: 1 to each side of head, in hair

**Enviroment tested in.**  
I started testing the Instant Sexiness just at home, to ensure there weren’t any concerning self-effects (I just wasn’t comfortable using it at school, etc. without first testing it in a more private setting).

After first use of Instant Sexiness, I felt comfortable using it at school, in public, etc.

**Self effects**  
As mentioned in the website, this did have self-effects… they weren’t necessarily sexual… more like having a dose of caffiene, increased alertness, more energy…

**Effects to others**  
Hmm, how to address this one. I’m judged by others to be attractive… and I’m generally well-groomed. In fact, I’ve been a model, even up to within the last two years. So, despite my age (which isn’t that old, but I’m certainly not a young twenty-something hottie anymore), in other words, I am used to attention (doors opened, men starting conversations, etc). I didn’t buy the [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) for all those others; I simply wanted to see their effect on My Beloved.

Regarding effects on him, I didn’t see the same degree of “pure sex” effects that I saw with Lust After Me.

This one, I think, is more for me (see Self-Effects above)

**Duration of effects.**  
I felt the increased energy/attitude burst for approx. 4-5 hours

**Effects from mixing with other products:**  
Which leads us to my topic sentence:  
Twice I tried Instant Sexiness A with TAH…

**Application dosage and locations**  
1 spray split between wrists; 1 spray to back of head  
Having read the posts of others, I didn’t want the ditzy feeling, hence the application to the back of head and wrists, away from my own face.

**Enviroment tested in**  
Home only

**Self effects**  
First, a bit of a headache both times. This didn’t concern me, as other posters have mentioned this and, in response, long-term users have said this self-effect goes away with continued use.

However, both times I have used TAH, I have become tearful, overly emotional. Not in a grumpy, grouchy fashion; the issues about which I have become tearful are REAL issues (you will recall from other posts, my stepson has moved into the home and is causing tension on all fronts. My Beloved and I have had some significant arguments regarding this child; he is the only thing about which we ever argue and his behavior and my husband’s rather ineffective means of addressing the behavior… you can’t argue about the fact the kid is how he is because there has been ineffective parenting from BOTH parents for the last twelve and a half years!.. is placing a severe strain on my marriage). However, I don’t normally cry about them. I’m capable, emotionally balanced (not reserved), and I generally address issues head-on. But, both times I have worn TAH, I have cried.

So, my question: Could TAH be responsible?

**Effects to Others**  
Well, My Beloved is not used to my being tearful in that manner, so he is more affectionate, more protective (not that he is ever lacking in those regards!)… but, he’s also disturbed and baffled by my tears.

**Duration of Effects**  
Thankfully, both times I have tested this have been in the evening, before sleep… and the effects have not been apparent upon awakening the next morning.

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**Author:** ![inkling](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/inkling/32/2326_2.png) [@inkling](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/inkling)\
**Post date:** [February 6, 2008, 10:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/can-tah-be-responsible/8947/2 "2008-02-06T22:26:27Z")

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I’ve read that a few woman here feeling too softened, insecure and even ditsy while using tah. The effect on your beloved feeling more protective and affectionate has been the same type of responses I receive while wearing it. Thankfully I haven’t had any negative self effects, I LOVE my tah.

You might want to pay attention to where you are in your cycle to see if that could be the problem. Most of the women with these type of tah issues balance themselves with a spritz of tal closer to the face while spraying tah farther away from it.

Hope that helps!

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**Author:** ![sheba](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sheba/32/1664_2.png) [@sheba](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sheba)\
**Post date:** [February 6, 2008, 10:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/can-tah-be-responsible/8947/3 "2008-02-06T22:34:13Z")

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> [@inkling](#):
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> Most of the women with these type of tah issues balance themselves with a spritz of tal closer to the face while spraying tah farther away from it.

And don’t worry if you don’t have any TAL handy. IS/a has TAL in it. You could try a spray of IS/a right to your chest where you can huff it to counteract the effects of the TAH.

I love my TAH, too, Inkling. Makes me feel mmm mmm good! LOL

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**Author:** ![inkling](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/inkling/32/2326_2.png) [@inkling](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/inkling)\
**Post date:** [February 6, 2008, 10:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/can-tah-be-responsible/8947/4 "2008-02-06T22:47:51Z")

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Thanks Sheba I should have mentioned [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) would work well for the tal.

I’m not exactly a soft girly personality type so wearing tah for me has been great! While I am not so much of a softy it is really nice to be feeling and treated like I am every once in a while. 🙂

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**Author:** ![LaurieNY](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/bbce88/32.png) [@LaurieNY](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/LaurieNY)\
**Post date:** [February 6, 2008, 10:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/can-tah-be-responsible/8947/5 "2008-02-06T22:53:33Z")

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I’m already a ditz, so I don’t have an issue with TAH turning me into one.

Good report, and I agree with inkling and sheba.

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**Author:** ![Kitten](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kitten/32/1051_2.png) [@Kitten](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kitten)\
**Post date:** [February 7, 2008, 12:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/can-tah-be-responsible/8947/6 "2008-02-07T00:04:19Z")

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As you get used to it, the ditz goes away. Thankfully! I’m one of those TAH-induced weepy dithery types. So I got in the habit of always balancing MX135 (TAH heavy) or straight TAH with either MX134 (TAL heavy), [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) A, or straight TAL.

Well the other day I had a great time at work and out on a lunch date. All in all the day was just really happy and fun. To the point I even considered writing a report about it. And then I realized that I’d only had on Scent of Eros and _3_ blasts of MX135. Noooo TAL. I wasn’t the least bit ditzy or helpless. So the self-effects do go away as you get accustomed to the TAH molecule.

Kitten

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**Author:** ![Chaionlife](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/47e85d/32.png) [@Chaionlife](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Chaionlife)\
**Post date:** [February 7, 2008, 2:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/can-tah-be-responsible/8947/7 "2008-02-07T02:13:45Z")

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> [@Kitten](#):
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> I’m one of those TAH-induced weepy dithery types. So I got in the habit of always balancing MX135 (TAH heavy) or straight TAH with either MX134 (TAL heavy), Instant Sexiness A, or straight TAL.

Inkling, Sheba, and Kitten;  
Thank you so much for responding; I really appreciate the support as I experiment with these products.

I did use [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) A with the TAH… 1 spray TAH to the back of the head, 1 spray ISA to each side of the head, in the hair. So, are you thinking perhaps a different placement of the IS-A (as Sheba suggested, to the chest) would be beneficial?

I did also consider cycle; I was nearing mid-point of my cycle… so there shouldn’t have been any premenstrual influence towards emotionality. Typically, I am high energy but serene, diplomatic, etc with an “Oh, got to have it right now” spike in an already-high libido as ovulation nears… one week prior to end of cycle, I am a slight bit more tired (physically) however I don’t develop any noticable emotional swings (checked with the kids and My Beloved on that one before making that statement as I wanted the statement to be validated by all of them and not just be my own subjective perspective). I remain relatively balanced throughout it all; in fact, if I didn’t keep track of my cycle on the calendar, I wouldn’t know when the end of the cycle was approaching (no cramping, no bloating, nada… just a very balanced cycle).

Honestly, I don’t know if I really need the TAH. He’s affectionate, enjoys cuddling, and is protective enough already. And, I’m only trying the pheromones for him. I really didn’t feel comfortable with the self-effect of weepy (Thank you so much, Kitten, for sharing that it affected you similarly! I was wondering if I was nuts! And, should I be THAT sensitive to it?) because I am so **NOT** weepy usually. It just made me ineffective during the discussion… and we didn’t even get to make love because I was just emotionally exhausted afterward… so it was completely counterproductive to my reasons for trying it out. So much so that I’m really wondering about the efficacy of using it _for me._ Frankly, I felt so un-me!

Which leads me to ask, if I don’t want it, is it appropriate to offer it to someone else? I wouldn’t want it to go to waste; it’s a practically full bottle with just the two trial sprays to the back of the head.

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**Author:** ![sheba](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sheba/32/1664_2.png) [@sheba](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sheba)\
**Post date:** [February 7, 2008, 2:56am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/can-tah-be-responsible/8947/8 "2008-02-07T02:56:01Z")

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Now now, Chaionlife, don’t go throwing that bottle of TAH away just so fast! You’ll find that many of our strong and capable women really get into the TAH once they figure out how to work it for them; like the most strong alpha women can vouch for a need for TAH from time to time. Just ask the likes of Kitten, Tisha, Inkling, Dolly, Bella… on this site, there are many!

Definitely give it another shot. Maybe on a day when your hubby isn’t feeling quite so affectionate and you just feel like you are in the mood for some lovey dove. Yeah, that’s a perfect time to whip out your TAH. TAH is also great on young kids, I’ve heard. I’m sure you’ll find plenty of opportunity.

No worries, we didn’t miss that you’d used the IS/a. It’s just that as a hair application, away from your face, the effect of the TAL is minimized. So give it another go on your chest where you can huff it. Maybe even go as far as to rub the nozzle right under your nose.

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**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\
**Post date:** [February 7, 2008, 4:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/can-tah-be-responsible/8947/9 "2008-02-07T04:21:28Z")

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Its definatly a response to the TAH, I get the same way, all ditzy and feeling weak and teary. I always use a shot of TAL right to my chest so it will waft up straight into my face.

You will start to become accustomed to it though after a while and it wont effect you so strongly.

Keep in mind though that IS/A has TAH in it. It is just TAL heavy. I think you should get a bottle of Straight TAL when you can, The IS/A to your chest will probably help with it though.

Tisha

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**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\
**Post date:** [February 7, 2008, 8:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/can-tah-be-responsible/8947/10 "2008-02-07T08:35:32Z")

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Chaionlife, the girls are right!! Don’t ditch the Tah! It can be very useful once you get the hang of it.  
The Tal or Instant Sexy A _upfront_ will help a lot. The ladies have hit this puppy from all sides and, as usual, given straight up advice.

I use it when I’m looking for a softer edge…and I use a lot of it, cause it takes alot, lol… but to the back of my head or even between my shoulder blades.

It’s especially good for me when I want to be in a go along, yeah ,fine with me, that’s good, okie dokie mood. 🙂

I find people of all ages, male and female, usually respond well to TAH…people gentle up around TAH…great when I’m looking for that in general…or to soften up a particular crabby apple. 😃

It certainly can produce a lovey dovey response in people. My husband becomes extra smoochie and huggie when I wear it…and it’s lovely for sex! 😛 …it can make things pop in a soft and dreamy way…i have a feeling it may be similar to EST in that lovey way, but it doesn’t thwart the sexual feelings. As I don’t have EST, yet, I can’t compare.

sheba, what do you and the girls who have both EST and TAH have to say about any comparison between the two…as far as the difference in the protective lovey dovey/sexual vibe.

I was thinking… the TAH _because_ of the softening self effects…brought some of the emotions you’ve been dealing with to the surface more easily. I can really see how TAH could have this effect. Even if you think you were feeling just fine, those feelings of stress are really just below the surface. You’ve been dealing with a lot!

Pheromones are notorious for following your emotional lead…especially the putatives. Though TAH is _not_ a putative, it still applies. In other words they are just as capable of negatively enhancing an emotion or situation as they are positively enhancing it. Sometimes in spite of the contol _you think_ you have over a situation it evokes an _innate_ emotional response that you _unknowingly_ don’t have control of.

So, to answer your question…the Tah did not _cause_ the emotional reaction..it simply _allowed_ you to express the feelings you’ve been surpressing by bringing them to the surface. Somehow I think you’ve been needing to get it out and with the influence of TAH, this time you just let it go. We’re only human and sometimes even the best of us, the ones who can juggle _all_ the balls, just gotta let it out!

I agree that you may just need to get used to it a bit and the teariness should, hopefully, go away. If it doesn’t, then it may not be for you. You might try it again, and get a different self response, when things are going more smoothly.

I know you used a very low dose of TAH , so just one thing to note for future reference…using too much could make you seem like a push over…so consider the circumstance and be careful how much you use and around whom you wear it.

Just my nickle.

Hang in there, Chai! Reps for a great report!

Bella 😉

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**Author:** ![sheba](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sheba/32/1664_2.png) [@sheba](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sheba)\
**Post date:** [February 7, 2008, 2:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/can-tah-be-responsible/8947/11 "2008-02-07T14:20:22Z")

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> [@](#):
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> sheba, what do you and the girls who have both [EST](https://phera.com/) and [TAH](https://pheromonelabs.com/) have to say about any comparison between the two…as far as the difference in the protective lovey dovey/sexual vibe.

The responses to each have definite similarities; but the response to both worn in concert is mind blowing. Something that can’t be achieved by simply wearing more of one.

I’m having trouble difining them to clarify their differences, but I’ll give it a shot.

TAH brings about affection in that you’re just so adorable and sexy that he’s got to hold you. Your precious… when I wear TAH my bf calls me his princess. There’s hand holding and stolen glances that remind me of puppy love.

EST allows a man to reach the full range of affection he has for you; If he is a love he seems to have thoughts about why it was that he fell in love with you; theres a drive to express those reasons to you; to let you know just how much you mean to him. EST inspires reverance and respect in a love and summons protection from strangers.

I believe this range is limited by the amount of emotion he feels for you already; just as if you were, in fact, pregnant. The difference between if you were to share a pregnancy with someone you love and someone who was a fling that resulted in pregnancy.

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**Author:** ![justonce](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/justonce/32/1316_2.png) [@justonce](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/justonce)\
**Post date:** [February 7, 2008, 2:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/can-tah-be-responsible/8947/12 "2008-02-07T14:36:09Z")

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Thanks, sheba. I have been looking for info on the differences between those two also.

What is your opinion on differences between adding EST versus TAH to [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/)?

justonce

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**Author:** ![sheba](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sheba/32/1664_2.png) [@sheba](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sheba)\
**Post date:** [February 7, 2008, 2:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/can-tah-be-responsible/8947/13 "2008-02-07T14:58:00Z")

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Hey, you’re welcome, Justonce.

Man, I bet the three of those would make one heck of a mix. That’d be a good one for v-day, I think.

Instant honesty is mostly b-nols and I don’t own it. How do you think Instant honesty compares to EST? I know you own them both? Possibly you could do an EST/honesty combo and give us a report? I wonder if it would still have the sexual effects that the EST mx135 combo had for you. Incidentally, mx135 is TAH heavy so you’ve had an EST TAH experience yourself. With a trace of cops and on a first date 😮 … it’s no wonder the poor guy couldn’t keep his hands to himself. 🙄 😛

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**Author:** ![justonce](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/justonce/32/1316_2.png) [@justonce](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/justonce)\
**Post date:** [February 7, 2008, 3:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/can-tah-be-responsible/8947/14 "2008-02-07T15:12:11Z")

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> [@](#):
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> I wonder if it would still have the sexual effects that the [EST](https://phera.com/) [mx135](https://pheromonelabs.com/) combo had for you. Incidentally, [mx135](https://pheromonelabs.com/) is [TAH](https://pheromonelabs.com/) heavy so you’ve had an [EST](https://phera.com/) [TAH](https://pheromonelabs.com/) experience yourself. With a trace of cops and on a first date 😮 … it’s no wonder the poor guy couldn’t keep his hands to himself.

Um… you must be thinking of someone else. I definitely have not had a man’s hands all over me in awhile and have not yet tried EST or the combo.

My latest experience is the one titled You’re Staring At Me… and hence my question to you. 🙂

justonce

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**Author:** ![sheba](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sheba/32/1664_2.png) [@sheba](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sheba)\
**Post date:** [February 7, 2008, 3:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/can-tah-be-responsible/8947/15 "2008-02-07T15:28:50Z")

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I’m sorry, Justonce! Hugs… I got you mixed up with SugarSpice.

I have not used [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) or b-nols, yet, but I am in love with both EST and TAH as additions to a-androstenol. I think adding one or both to Instant Honesty would only enhance the feelings of closeness. It’s like Instant Honesty brings about meaningful conversation and adding EST and TAH directs that conversation to be all about his feelings towards you! LOL This is my suspicion… darn, now I want some b-nols so I can know for sure. 😃

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**Author:** ![Karmiel](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/karmiel/32/2234_2.png) [@Karmiel](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Karmiel)\
**Post date:** [February 7, 2008, 4:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/can-tah-be-responsible/8947/16 "2008-02-07T16:41:10Z")

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> [@sheba](#):
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> The responses to each have definite similarities; but the response to both worn in concert is mind blowing. Something that can’t be achieved by simply wearing more of one.
> 
> I’m having trouble difining them to clarify their differences, but I’ll give it a shot.
> 
> TAH brings about affection in that you’re just so adorable and sexy that he’s got to hold you. Your precious… when I wear TAH my bf calls me his princess. There’s hand holding and stolen glances that remind me of puppy love.
> 
> EST allows a man to reach the full range of affection he has for you; If he is a love he seems to have thoughts about why it was that he fell in love with you; theres a drive to express those reasons to you; to let you know just how much you mean to him. EST inspires reverance and respect in a love and summons protection from strangers.
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> I believe this range is limited by the amount of emotion he feels for you already; just as if you were, in fact, pregnant. The difference between if you were to share a pregnancy with someone you love and someone who was a fling that resulted in pregnancy.

Wow, great description! reps definately. I too have mx135 and est, gotta try them out together soon. I’m afraid of adding extra tah though, I love the feeling I get and how people tend to be more gentle, but I think people would mistake me for a pushover with extra Tah 🙄  
I don’t get emotional even when wearing tons of Tah ,50mcg 😮, I just feel really “cute”.

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**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\
**Post date:** [February 7, 2008, 10:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/can-tah-be-responsible/8947/17 "2008-02-07T22:55:42Z")

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> [@sheba](#):
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> The responses to each have definite similarities; but the response to both worn in concert is mind blowing. Something that can’t be achieved by simply wearing more of one.  
> I’m having trouble difining them to clarify their differences, but I’ll give it a shot.  
> TAH brings about affection in that you’re just so adorable and sexy that he’s got to hold you. Your precious… when I wear TAH my bf calls me his princess. There’s hand holding and stolen glances that remind me of puppy love.  
> EST allows a man to reach the full range of affection he has for you; If he is a love he seems to have thoughts about why it was that he fell in love with you; theres a drive to express those reasons to you; to let you know just how much you mean to him. EST inspires reverance and respect in a love and summons protection from strangers.  
> I believe this range is limited by the amount of emotion he feels for you already; just as if you were, in fact, pregnant. The difference between if you were to share a pregnancy with someone you love and someone who was a fling that resulted in pregnancy.

Thanks for taking a stab at this, for me, sheba! Still not sure if I want to invest in EST. I think I pretty much get that reaction from my husband! I’m already getting the full range of affection, the man is _very_ expressive, in more ways than one! 😃  
But it could still be useful, with him, and in other applications so I probably will eventually get it.

> [@sheba](#):
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> I have not used Instant Honesty or b-nols, yet, but I am in love with both EST and TAH as additions to a-androstenol. I think adding one or both to Instant Honesty would only enhance the feelings of closeness. It’s like Instant Honesty brings about meaningful conversation and adding EST and TAH directs that conversation to be all about his feelings towards you! LOL This is my suspicion… darn, now I want some b-nols so I can know for sure. 😃

sheba, you will _love_ [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/)! Tate is right about it. Heavy Instant Honesty is _THE_ way to go, get at least 2X when you order.  
Can’t wait till you mix that into one of your _chakalaca love brews!!!_  
Between that TAH, EST and the cops…woo…sheesh…!!!

I expect an invitation to the wedding! 😮 😃 😉 🙂

GO SHEBA!!! Reps!!!

Bella

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**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\
**Post date:** [February 8, 2008, 12:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/can-tah-be-responsible/8947/18 "2008-02-08T00:33:59Z")

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Bella

I held off on getting it to and since it finally got to the point that it was the only one I didnt have I splurged and got it and after using it I could have kicked myself for not getting it sooner.

Your husband is affectionate but as you mentioned I am sure you will find uses for it. On the affectionate scale my husband is around a 5. Est has really changed that its freaking amazing.

Tisha

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**Author:** ![Chaionlife](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/47e85d/32.png) [@Chaionlife](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Chaionlife)\
**Post date:** [February 8, 2008, 9:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/can-tah-be-responsible/8947/19 "2008-02-08T21:08:29Z")

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> [@Bella](#):
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> Chaionlife, the girls are right!! Don’t ditch the Tah! It  
> I was thinking… the TAH _because_ of the softening self effects…brought some of the emotions you’ve been dealing with to the surface more easily. I can really see how TAH could have this effect. Even if you think you were feeling just fine, those feelings of stress are really just below the surface. You’ve been dealing with a lot!
> 
> Pheromones are notorious for following your emotional lead…especially the putatives. Though TAH is _not_ a putative, it still applies. In other words they are just as capable of negatively enhancing an emotion or situation as they are positively enhancing it. Sometimes in spite of the contol _you think_ you have over a situation it evokes an _innate_ emotional response that you _unknowingly_ don’t have control of.
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> So, to answer your question…the Tah did not _cause_ the emotional reaction..it simply _allowed_ you to express the feelings you’ve been surpressing by bringing them to the surface. Somehow I think you’ve been needing to get it out and with the influence of TAH, this time you just let it go. We’re only human and sometimes even the best of us, the ones who can juggle _all_ the balls, just gotta let it out!
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> I agree that you may just need to get used to it a bit and the teariness should, hopefully, go away. If it doesn’t, then it may not be for you. You might try it again, and get a different self response, when things are going more smoothly.
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> Bella 😉

Bella, this is SO TRUE…

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Ladies, Thank you so very much for your insight and suggestions. Reading over the responses, I think I will set the TAH aside for now, work on some of the relationship issues, and perhaps try it again at some later date…  
Also, I am very interested in getting EST to see what effect that might have.

Again, thank you!
