# Can't find my sweet spot or Mones just aren't for me :( **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [November 5, 2009, 7:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/cant-find-my-sweet-spot-or-mones-just-arent-for-me/33851 "2009-11-05T19:07:58Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 14\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Lovelyleo](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lovelyleo/32/2423_2.png) [@Lovelyleo](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lovelyleo)\ **Post date:** [November 5, 2009, 7:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/cant-find-my-sweet-spot-or-mones-just-arent-for-me/33851/1 "2009-11-05T19:07:58Z")
I just don’t think they are working for me. It’s been over a week and I’ve tried it in a club setting, supermarket, work environment, etc. No luck. 😕 ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [November 5, 2009, 7:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/cant-find-my-sweet-spot-or-mones-just-arent-for-me/33851/2 "2009-11-05T19:14:16Z")
> [@Lovelyleo](#): > > I just don’t think they are working for me. It’s been over a week and I’ve tried it in a club setting, supermarket, work environment, etc. No luck. 😕 Awww sweets. _Hugs_ Listen up, I am not going to go so far as to say [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) work for everyone and you are guaranteed to get results. However, being a pheromone user myself and knowing that lots of times I had to even if I work for this company get some tips from the more advanced users and play more with my stuff to get some results. The great thing about pheromones is trial and error and having fun while doing it. You might just be missing one simple thing that you need to do or not do to get them working just right. Give Steve our pheromones expert a call and I am sure he can help you with that. Hot-line 800-671-6464 ext 1 or 2 I am taking my thanks in advance 😛 ---
**Author:** ![countesszero](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/countesszero/32/1392_2.png) [@countesszero](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/countesszero)\ **Post date:** [November 5, 2009, 7:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/cant-find-my-sweet-spot-or-mones-just-arent-for-me/33851/3 "2009-11-05T19:16:58Z")
IMO sometimes you need to OD in order to find your sweet spot. I’d try upping the dose and see where that gets you. Again this is just my opinion and its worked for me. ---
**Author:** ![Butterfly](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/butterfly/32/1942_2.png) [@Butterfly](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Butterfly)\ **Post date:** [November 5, 2009, 9:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/cant-find-my-sweet-spot-or-mones-just-arent-for-me/33851/4 "2009-11-05T21:21:44Z")
Awww! Hope we can help you.. What mones are you using? ---
**Author:** ![Lovelyleo](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lovelyleo/32/2423_2.png) [@Lovelyleo](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lovelyleo)\ **Post date:** [November 5, 2009, 10:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/cant-find-my-sweet-spot-or-mones-just-arent-for-me/33851/5 "2009-11-05T22:30:12Z")
Thank you ladies. I tried the is/b, openness, & shine. At first I tried them together until I saw posts stating to try them one at a time so did. The shine worked a few times but I guess I wasn’t consistent. Using Is/b and openness I didn’t see a difference. Maybe I haven’t given it a long enough time or not enough. I did 1 spray behind each ear, 1 on each wrist, and 1 in between the pillows (Carrie’s mom favorite word on the movie CARRIE - lol). I want to try again but I had the travel is/b and that didn’t last me long and they’ve been out of stock. ☹ I think I will continue to try the other 2 and see what happens. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [November 6, 2009, 12:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/cant-find-my-sweet-spot-or-mones-just-arent-for-me/33851/6 "2009-11-06T00:13:11Z")
Hi there Lovely. Its ok, sometimes it just takes a little time to find your sweet spot and dosage and the best application points for you. I suggest you skip the wrist and behind the ear applications. Try it between the pillows and to your hair. These places heat up better then wrists. Heat is what makes the pheromones diffuse off your body. Be sure to read the stickies in the ladies section for tips on what to expect and so you have a relistic view as to what pheromones can do. Usually with openess and Ishine I use 3 to 5 sprays so your dosage should be in that range. Another tip is set it and forget it and just go about your day. At the end of the day review the day and see if you remember any behaviors that stand out. A lot of times when we first get our products we spray them on and run right out and spend the night looking at people weird instead of just being natural and people pick up that weird vibe. Just go on out with your friends and have fun and try not to think about it. I know its sounds loopy but it works Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Lovelyleo](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lovelyleo/32/2423_2.png) [@Lovelyleo](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lovelyleo)\ **Post date:** [November 6, 2009, 1:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/cant-find-my-sweet-spot-or-mones-just-arent-for-me/33851/7 "2009-11-06T01:48:19Z")
I truly don’t want to become a nuisance but I’m wondering when you say 3-5 sprays, is that total, each, or body spot? (Hope that makes sense). Thanks again everyone. Hope ---
**Author:** ![ladyofthewoods](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ladyofthewoods/32/1288_2.png) [@ladyofthewoods](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ladyofthewoods)\ **Post date:** [November 6, 2009, 1:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/cant-find-my-sweet-spot-or-mones-just-arent-for-me/33851/8 "2009-11-06T01:57:31Z")
That’s total sprays Lovely. Did those headaches go away??? ---
**Author:** ![ElectraComplex](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/electracomplex/32/1257_2.png) [@ElectraComplex](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ElectraComplex)\ **Post date:** [November 6, 2009, 2:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/cant-find-my-sweet-spot-or-mones-just-arent-for-me/33851/9 "2009-11-06T02:22:59Z")
I found out effect wise shine is really good in your hair and openness is really good on the back of the neck in your hair and on your wrists. Watch your skin coverage when I was bundled up it really inhibited the heck out of my diffusion.Also if you have a nice smelling perfume don’t be afraid to use it with your pheros sometimes that can give it a really good kick in the rear. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Lovelyleo](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lovelyleo/32/2423_2.png) [@Lovelyleo](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lovelyleo)\ **Post date:** [November 9, 2009, 3:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/cant-find-my-sweet-spot-or-mones-just-arent-for-me/33851/10 "2009-11-09T15:45:06Z")
> [@ladyofthewoods](#): > > That’s total sprays Lovely. Did those headaches go away??? Still have them but not from the scents any more thank goodness. lol I did try something called “perception” (an unscented sample) with a layer of B&BW’s Japanese Cherry Blossom spray over it on Friday night and had a friend over. I asked him if he liked my scent and I swear I thought I was in an episode of True Blood or Vampire Diaries. He would not stay off my neck. (I’ll keep it PG) lol So I’m wondering if that works like that, what the heck will EOW do? Now I’m very intrigued. lol ---
**Author:** ![Danny\_Stylez](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/danny_stylez/32/2426_2.png) [@Danny\_Stylez](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Danny_Stylez)\ **Post date:** [November 10, 2009, 2:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/cant-find-my-sweet-spot-or-mones-just-arent-for-me/33851/11 "2009-11-10T02:19:48Z")
Took me 3 days to see it work lol but ever since that day I knew how to mix accordingly; I’m pretty sure I ODed a couple times trying to find that sweet spot lol 😛 ---
**Author:** ![TwistedOstrich](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/twistedostrich/32/627_2.png) [@TwistedOstrich](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TwistedOstrich)\ **Post date:** [November 10, 2009, 4:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/cant-find-my-sweet-spot-or-mones-just-arent-for-me/33851/12 "2009-11-10T04:39:46Z")
Might I also mention too, your mannerisms and actions where you go can play a part too. If lets say your in a bad mood or not looking to friendly guys may not approach. But looks like that barrier was broken the other night 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Lovelyleo](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lovelyleo/32/2423_2.png) [@Lovelyleo](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lovelyleo)\ **Post date:** [November 10, 2009, 11:36am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/cant-find-my-sweet-spot-or-mones-just-arent-for-me/33851/13 "2009-11-10T11:36:21Z")
> [@daset1](#): > > Might I also mention too, your mannerisms and actions where you go can play a part too. If lets say your in a bad mood or not looking to friendly guys may not approach. But looks like that barrier was broken the other night 🙂 Funny that’s exactly why I thought it wasn’t for me cause when I first tried the openness, is/b, and shine; I went out that night and though I was in a great mood and looking approachable, no one did. ☹ I am giving it more time and trying it differently and starting to enjoy this. But I do have a question. (yet again lol) Does “hits” only mean being approached or can it also mean lengthy stares (the kind that even if you notice he’s staring, he doesn’t stop)? I have gotten quite a lot more than usual lately. Wasn’t sure if it was a reaction. lol Thank you all again for being so kind and understanding to a newbie like myself. You guys all rock!!! ---
**Author:** ![TwistedOstrich](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/twistedostrich/32/627_2.png) [@TwistedOstrich](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TwistedOstrich)\ **Post date:** [November 10, 2009, 3:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/cant-find-my-sweet-spot-or-mones-just-arent-for-me/33851/14 "2009-11-10T15:41:48Z")
> [@Lovelyleo](#): > > Funny that’s exactly why I thought it wasn’t for me cause when I first tried the openness, is/b, and shine; I went out that night and though I was in a great mood and looking approachable, no one did. ☹ > > I am giving it more time and trying it differently and starting to enjoy this. But I do have a question. (yet again lol) Does “hits” only mean being approached or can it also mean lengthy stares (the kind that even if you notice he’s staring, he doesn’t stop)? I have gotten quite a lot more than usual lately. Wasn’t sure if it was a reaction. lol > > Thank you all again for being so kind and understanding to a newbie like myself. You guys all rock!!! Yeah sometimes there just isnt anyone around too, or people are focused too much on there own company or other distractions etc.