# Canuck Says Hiya **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [January 22, 2011, 12:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/canuck-says-hiya/44763 "2011-01-22T00:22:21Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![MrRacer256](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/13edae/32.png) [@MrRacer256](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MrRacer256)\ **Post date:** [January 22, 2011, 12:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/canuck-says-hiya/44763/1 "2011-01-22T00:22:21Z")
I’ve been lurking here for a little while and wanted to take the plunge as it were. I’m typical in many ways - 42 year old male married with 2 kids under 7 and the usual burn out / disconnect in my marriage that comes with it. It’s really hard to connect with kids always there and draining your energy non-stop. Go back 6 years and I was in great physical shape (finally after years of trying diet changes, workouts, etc.). Now you’d never know. But I’m here with probably different motivations than most - anxiety seems to run on both sides of my and my wife’s families. Fortunately neither of us suffer from it but it seems to have popped up severely and suddenly to close family over the last few years. I’m curious to see if some of the experiences of confidence with the [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) might be helpful to them if they have a tough moment / spike - sure they have worked hard on coping and managing their conditions but we all know that sometimes life hands you lemons and you can get steamrolled. Thanks for the site and information. ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [January 22, 2011, 12:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/canuck-says-hiya/44763/2 "2011-01-22T00:39:21Z")
hi there, Welcome to the forum. Personally I think pheromones can do little to anxiety problems. However, they can try Shine. It can make them in lighter mood and more confident. Good luck. Cheers ---
**Author:** ![MrRacer256](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/13edae/32.png) [@MrRacer256](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MrRacer256)\ **Post date:** [January 22, 2011, 12:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/canuck-says-hiya/44763/3 "2011-01-22T00:52:29Z")
That’s exactly what I’m wondering - if a feeling of confidence and surety would be a good safeguard, starting from a ‘safer place’ mentally for them? I really don’t know but I hope to learn more and maybe we can get something for them like the Instant Gentlemen, Shine, etc. ---
**Author:** ![PheroJack](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pherojack/32/527_2.png) [@PheroJack](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PheroJack)\ **Post date:** [January 22, 2011, 12:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/canuck-says-hiya/44763/4 "2011-01-22T00:58:53Z")
> [@MrRacer256](#): > > I’ve been lurking here for a little while and wanted to take the plunge as it were. > > I’m typical in many ways - 42 year old male married with 2 kids under 7 and the usual burn out / disconnect in my marriage that comes with it. It’s really hard to connect with kids always there and draining your energy non-stop. Go back 6 years and I was in great physical shape (finally after years of trying diet changes, workouts, etc.). Now you’d never know. > > But I’m here with probably different motivations than most - anxiety seems to run on both sides of my and my wife’s families. Fortunately neither of us suffer from it but it seems to have popped up severely and suddenly to close family over the last few years. > > I’m curious to see if some of the experiences of confidence with the pheromones might be helpful to them if they have a tough moment / spike - sure they have worked hard on coping and managing their conditions but we all know that sometimes life hands you lemons and you can get steamrolled. > > Thanks for the site and information. Hi and welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 First, let me start off by telling you this: pheromones aren’t going to help with any medical condition. They are just molecules that help in your social interactions and give you an an “edge”. I’m sure that many mones in here could help you around your kids, or even at work, etc… For instance, trying A314 around your kids and wife will certainly help you. You have nothing to loose if you try it. With some ISHINE, you are set. If you are thinking about trying put any products from here, and want to get qualified for your 25$ GC, you must tell us more about your personality.. What are going to be your goals with mones? Where are you exactly going to use them? Hope everything turns out well for you and your family 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Spinach](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/spinach/32/348_2.png) [@Spinach](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Spinach)\ **Post date:** [January 22, 2011, 1:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/canuck-says-hiya/44763/5 "2011-01-22T01:30:21Z")
Hi there, welcome aboard. 🙂 From reading your intro the first things that came to mind were [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) and A314. I haven’t tried either for myself, but maybe A314 in particular, would help give that little confidence boost that I think you’re looking for? Of course I don’t think pheromones themselves will be the solution for anxiety, but like you said, maybe if you go for the self-effects of applying A314, there would be that little extra confidence boost to make you feel better, more re-assured, that kinda thing. I think, before buying, you should take a look around the Men’s forums to see if the effect reported by other members is in fact what you’re after. I don’t know how much help I’ve been to you, but please do share how everything goes. 🙂 Welcome, once again, and I hope to see you around! ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2011, 11:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/canuck-says-hiya/44763/6 "2011-01-24T23:44:52Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk Mrracer! Ammunition makes you feel confident and can be worn daily. I think that would be great for you. I do want to remind you that pheromones just enhance and bring out what is already there and does not work to cure anxiety. From your words I think you already know that. 🙂 Instant shine is a great feel good pheromone that will make you feel refreshed. A314 was recommended because it’s wonderful for the alpha male. If you are shy you will not be able to get the results you should with this product. Do a search on it and you will see the amazing changes it has done in so many men’s lives. Pheromones will definitely open up doors for you and take you back to where you use to be and remind you that you still got it. Good luck. **Your gc was issued! 😃**