# Checking in! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [February 11, 2012, 1:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/checking-in/54532 "2012-02-11T13:48:45Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Hubby](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/a9a28c/32.png) [@Hubby](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Hubby)\ **Post date:** [February 11, 2012, 1:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/checking-in/54532/1 "2012-02-11T13:48:45Z")
Hi everybody! I am 40-odd, married to a lovely lady and I’ve come here for a rather specific reason… I was wondering if there are products that increase the likelyhood of women getting blatantly sexual hits in a bar/hotel bar setting. Reason I ask is that I have this fetish (please don’t be judgemental) of my wife picking up and having sex with a stranger… I have spoken to my wife about this, and while the fantasy turns her on, she claims she has no real interest to go through with it in real life. I don’t want to push her into it, but I think maybe if she received male attention extraordinaire she might come around to it - as she gets really hot when we talk about her being with a stranger in front of me. So, what, if any pheromone would make a stranger want to come up to a 39-year old attractive woman in a bar with the overt intention of bedding her? I want her to feel she’s the buzz of the bar, desired and sexy! Can [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) help? ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [February 11, 2012, 2:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/checking-in/54532/2 "2012-02-11T14:29:43Z")
Hello and welcome to the forum. Not sure where to take this one … I will say that these products are not magic and do not make anything happen by itself. In other words if your wife is not actively trying to pick someone up, then all the mones in the world will not make that happen. That being said there are pheros that can help make her feel sexy: IS/b, Ishine and IO certainly could help make her feel like the buzz of the bar. ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [February 11, 2012, 3:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/checking-in/54532/3 "2012-02-11T15:27:14Z")
Pheros that have produced blatantly bisexual hits and requests for threesomes with me in just the environments you mention include: [MX297](https://pheromonelabs.com/product/mx297/) or MX390 (same mix different scents) and TUTH or straight androstenone. A314/P114/TUTH: > [@A314 + p114](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a314-p114/52284/28): > > A314 UFE - 4 drops. Each wrist and behind ears P114 in [Akuto](https://a314.com/product-category/scented/akuto/) - 30mcg TUTH 2x - 2 sprays. Throat and between forearms. Cover scent - CK Be. Miss F is through for the weekend and we went for a quiet drink/karaoke on Thurs night. Went to a place we have not been in often before and my modest singing ability went down exceptionally with the regulars. Made very welcome and asked to come back. The pair of us got talking to a small cute woman, I danced with her and later after making a substantia… The women I was involved with at the time were 39 and 36 However, it is exactly as bosshank says above - Pheros won’t make anyone act out of their basic character and if your wife isn’t already inclined, these will not change matters. Oh and I just remembered MX390/CTTM2 and NPA - That was a proposition I’d rather draw a veil over! 😮 😮 😮 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Hubby](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/a9a28c/32.png) [@Hubby](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Hubby)\ **Post date:** [February 11, 2012, 9:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/checking-in/54532/4 "2012-02-11T21:49:45Z")
Thanks Bosshank and Mobocaster! I do understand that pheros won’t make someone they don’t want to do and I really don’t want my wife to do anything she’s not comfortable with. I hope, however, that if she consistently is hit on by strangers she would feel very attractive and wanted, and that is an aphrodisiac in itself. I have heard of copuline, do you think that could help? Thanks again for the friendly welcome! ---
**Author:** ![Gingiber\_Pardus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/dfb087/32.png) [@Gingiber\_Pardus](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gingiber_Pardus)\ **Post date:** [February 12, 2012, 4:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/checking-in/54532/5 "2012-02-12T04:39:43Z")
> [@Hubby](#): > > Thanks Bosshank and Mobocaster! > > I do understand that pheros won’t make someone they don’t want to do and I really don’t want my wife to do anything she’s not comfortable with. > > I hope, however, that if she consistently is hit on by strangers she would feel very attractive and wanted, and that is an aphrodisiac in itself. > > I have heard of copuline, do you think that could help? > > Thanks again for the friendly welcome! Hey hubby I can’t advise you on the mones re I’m a woman so the guys have already pointed you in the direction of what has worked for them. BUT regarding cops. Women (me inc) tend to wear cops to draw out the animalistic instincts in the males 😮 But they stink to high heaven. 😮 And if your wife is not comfortable with the idea, trying to persuade her to wear cops with the motive of getting more attention might be a non starter. Attention from the opposite sex is always nice IMO, maybe you could suggest the mones to your wife as a social enhancement and see what she thinks after experimenting with those and who knows where that might lead 😉