Hello and be welcome here JW
cool you´re 38 … just like me .. will turn 38 next weekend .. 
Great to hear that you and your wife are through the rough … and that you love here soo much … a happy family is worth gold !
There´s nothing bad in beeing new to Pheromones … we all started at some point ..
i think for your situation you should look into some romantic and bonding stuff …
for women it´s often more important to feel good than to be turned on .. you know the rest will follow ..
maybe your women feels a bit insecure … you know this can happen when we get older ..
Instant Shine is the thing to get here …
It makes you and your wife feel good … and it creates some worm glow …and it makes you both more comfortable … that´s great stuff
this one is made to deepen connections … it´s bonding … and it´s creating trust … a must have in your situation …
next thing i think what would be cool is
Ammo … because its a general sexy product … it contains the holy trinity .. rone …none and nols …
it´s well rounded .. without any rough edges … with it on you´re the sexy guy ..
Your women will see you in a new light … you have to start low with this one as your wife knows your natural mone signature as well ..
to get the things hot in the bedroom you could try out TUTH … it´s pure sex … this one will get your women wild .. but it works only if it´s already on …
please tell us as well in order to qualify for the 25$ GC … what brought you to this site and where heard you about pheromones first time ..
**do you have any other agendas in using Pheromones ..at work for example
AD offers a fantastic product called A314 … it´s the thing for the workplace …
A314 Classic Edition – Trust & Respect Pheromone for Men - Alpha A314**
AND … do a read up on the stickies … here .. and over at the main forum
and this one is a must in my eyes ..
i hope this helped .
ahm and do not forget to grab your GC
https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934
good luck
Pago