# Club me on the head and drag me to bed ! **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [January 4, 2010, 6:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/club-me-on-the-head-and-drag-me-to-bed/35246 "2010-01-04T18:13:33Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 3\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![BubbleCatcher](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/ebca7d/32.png) [@BubbleCatcher](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/BubbleCatcher)\ **Post date:** [January 4, 2010, 6:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/club-me-on-the-head-and-drag-me-to-bed/35246/1 "2010-01-04T18:13:33Z")
Last night i decided to try the mix below at local pub where i was pretty sure a TG would be working behind the bar, it was also karaoke night but as just after xmas thought it would be quite. Bit of background, i am in mid forties and have had social anxiety all my life to varying degrees, though in youth and in good phases i have been out with some very hot ladies. My self esteem and confidence with women is not good at this moment in time, i can read the signals but acting on them is hard. That said through hard work and use of mones i am getting better, i have been getting to know this TG for a little and playing with mones for attraction comfort stage, it has been working well and know there is some interest which why thought i would try this mix. 1 x A314 1x 2go NPA/ M7 5-1 1x IO 2go 1x IS 2go [P74](https://pheromonelabs.com/product/p74/) 15mcg P83 25mcg P86 10mcg Meo Est 25 mcg TAL 2.5 mcg bit of bomb i know but what the heck good way to start new year. Arrived at pub and TG was on smoke break at door talking to DJ, i said hello to both, though more extended and directed at her but felt there was something odd, not seen her for over a week and well maybe there was some awkwardness! I was right and pub was empty, got usual spot at bar near bar staff entrance, was served by barman. The land lords mother, about my age, was setting near dj box 15 feet away, and texting on phone, seemed pre-occupied. She came and sat at bar one stool away and continued texting. TG was other end of bar clearing glass shelves, none of the usual glances, eye contact and smiles i get from her, seemed not to notice or was ignoring me? Was pretty sure it was not the A314 as had used this at same dose before with her without any issues, maybe NPA was doing it? After about 5 min the landlords mum leaned over (music playing) and ask how my xmas was, this turned out to be an open as when asked how hers was she begain telling me about her son and how he had had two strokes over break starting boxing day. Now i had been in pub after boxing day and the another BM who i had chatted too said nothing. Anyway she told me all about it and how the family was rallying around and how she felt and that she had broken down in the hospital, she was treating me like a friend! Now i have chatted with her before, exchange comments and even had friendly banter but don’t think she even knows my name! For rest of night she would alternate between the DJ an inlaw, the phone and being near me at bar. She already has a partner and i am not interested sexual in her. Just as she was ending the story my TG had reached my end of the bar cleaning glass shelves, the conversation between 3 of us moved to how the land lord like to have clean bar. Still not a lot feedback from TG so i asked her if she had a good new year, well this did the trick and she relaxed and our interactions were back to normal. Seems the mix may have been a bit intimating for her, or was she was feeling something and did not know how to deal with it. i asked her what her NY wish was, at which point she got all embarrassed like i had just guessed her secrete, which was that she wished for me! She told me you not should tell what you wish for, and then that she was beautiful and did not need to wish as it would just happen! Umm what would happen me thinks, dam hoping it would be me that happened 🙂 From that point we were back to lot of eye contact, smiling and banter that got increasingly flirty but not sexual. Now they like to have T-light candles on the tables in this pub, normally when they run out TG will go around tables with new ones and light them at table., not this time. She stood right in front of me and slowly took them from the bag and laid them out on bar, not looking at me but knowing i was looking at her. She then starts to light them, still not looking at me, i comment about now drinking by candlelight, she says ‘yes very romantic’ and gives me that look and we both laugh. She then slides a lit candle over to me without saying a thing, places a number of candles on her hand and takes them out to tables, returning to stand close to me while picking up rest. She returns to bar via far end entrance and starts talking with barman, i am looking at her and see the barman indicate to the candle next to me, she catches my eye and smiles and then walks over and asks if she should take it away, i say no but in way that makes it clear i am very happy to have her candle next to me. A while later she standing close and we exchange comments and the land lords mum comes over and stands close to me and asks her if the candle is for me, TG looks at me coy and a i tell land lords mum yes it is who then jokes it is to keep me warm. TG catches my eye and goes to serve. At end of night, 1am, the candle is still burning, just, and TG has started the end of night clean up and wind down, she comes over looks me in the eye picks up candle and gentle blows it out and walks away. Five minutes later she is wiping the bar down. Now in front of me is the soft drinks dispenser which has a coke display on top of bar, it is about a foot high and thin at base getting wider at top, almost phallic. She starts to wipe this down, but this is not ordinary wipe down, she doing in a very erotic way whilst looking me in the eye. I look her in they eye and then at her wiping this display down and then back in the eye, this happens a few times before we both hold eye contact and start laughing, she then goes off to finished clean up. I did not get to see her again before i left but what had just happened seems to be me to be the female equivalent of being club on the head and drag into bed. Even me with my low self esteem and confidence can not fail to see that she is into me and is sending out the signals for me to make my move, am just going to have to find the big brass ones and ask her out 🙂 This mix sure fired things up, was a bit slow to start and needed and push from me as believe she was not sure how to deal with feelings and how i would respond, once i opened her and the softer pheros got to work putting her at ease and the NPA could do it stuff. ---
**Author:** ![Snoopyace](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/snoopyace/32/1727_2.png) [@Snoopyace](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Snoopyace)\ **Post date:** [January 4, 2010, 7:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/club-me-on-the-head-and-drag-me-to-bed/35246/2 "2010-01-04T19:23:39Z")
Very cool! 🙂 Yup, even with the [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) we do have to do our part. Sounds like you’ve got a great start with her. ---
**Author:** ![spurs61](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/spurs61/32/666_2.png) [@spurs61](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/spurs61)\ **Post date:** [January 4, 2010, 10:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/club-me-on-the-head-and-drag-me-to-bed/35246/3 "2010-01-04T22:39:52Z")
Yeah the mones did their job now its your turn remember its 90% you 10% mones!!!🙂