# Clueless in GA

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/clueless-in-ga/32192>\
**Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\
**Created:** [September 4, 2009, 8:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/clueless-in-ga/32192 "2009-09-04T20:38:00Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 10\
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**Author:** ![clueless](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/35a633/32.png) [@clueless](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/clueless)\
**Post date:** [September 4, 2009, 8:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/clueless-in-ga/32192/1 "2009-09-04T20:38:00Z")

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Hello from North GA. I’m Jen, 36, and curious as to how all this works. I’ve done some reading today through the forum posts and was particularly interested in learning more about pheremones and blood type. I’m fascinated by the idea of scents having such strong effects on the body, and especially on others around you, especially since I have a very sensitive sense of smell. Not sure what else to say at the moment, other than glad to have found this site and very interested in learning more.

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**Author:** ![mikotorocks714](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikotorocks714/32/1509_2.png) [@mikotorocks714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikotorocks714)\
**Post date:** [September 4, 2009, 8:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/clueless-in-ga/32192/2 "2009-09-04T20:45:26Z")

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Hey, Jen welcome! Please tell us more about you, your personality, and what you’d like to see from [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) effect wise so you can qualify for that $25 GC. So once again welcome, and you have come to the right place!

> [@clueless](#):
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> Hello from North GA. I’m Jen, 36, and curious as to how all this works. I’ve done some reading today through the forum posts and was particularly interested in learning more about pheremones and blood type. I’m fascinated by the idea of scents having such strong effects on the body, and especially on others around you, especially since I have a very sensitive sense of smell. Not sure what else to say at the moment, other than glad to have found this site and very interested in learning more.

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**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\
**Post date:** [September 4, 2009, 8:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/clueless-in-ga/32192/3 "2009-09-04T20:48:22Z")

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Thanks so much for joining PheroTalk, I’m super excited to have you here. It’s always great when a new member discovers a world so full of endless possibilities. The only limits to mones is our own imagination 🙂

While I would love to issue you the $25 Gift Certificate for saying hello I do kindly request you post some more about yourself here. If you are unsure about what qualifies as sufficient to obtain the gift certificate I am just itching to email you, please have a look at this thread: [https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934) I wrote it to help everyone in writing the perfect introduction. Of course the choice is yours and your privacy is very important. If you just don’t feel comfortable providing additional info we will all still do our best to assist you anyway.

Welcome to PheroTalk

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**Author:** ![clueless](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/35a633/32.png) [@clueless](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/clueless)\
**Post date:** [September 4, 2009, 9:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/clueless-in-ga/32192/4 "2009-09-04T21:10:42Z")

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Ok. I’m the most extroverted introvert I know. I don’t really have a problem opening up or starting conversations with people. I run the full gamut between confident and wanting to crawl under a rock. I’m a virgo if that helps any. I’m a single mom with special needs children and while I’m intelligent, attractive, and have a lot going for me, I often don’t get the initial attention it takes for someone to actually get to know me. I’m specifically looking for something to attract the attention of a certain friend, shy sensitive type, and was also interested in learning more about the effects of pheromones on moods (like mx136, for example, which I don’t see listed for sale anywhere). Not sure if this is what you mean or not. If you want to know anything, just ask. Thanks for welcoming me. I’m really looking forward to learning more!

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**Author:** ![angiegirl06](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/a88e57/32.png) [@angiegirl06](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/angiegirl06)\
**Post date:** [September 4, 2009, 9:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/clueless-in-ga/32192/5 "2009-09-04T21:18:06Z")

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> [@clueless](#):
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> Hello from North GA. I’m Jen, 36, and curious as to how all this works. I’ve done some reading today through the forum posts and was particularly interested in learning more about pheremones and blood type. I’m fascinated by the idea of scents having such strong effects on the body, and especially on others around you, especially since I have a very sensitive sense of smell. Not sure what else to say at the moment, other than glad to have found this site and very interested in learning more.

my friend just got hers today and she said it is incredible I am curious as well I cannot wait to try it 🙂

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**Author:** ![tezza23](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tezza23/32/1375_2.png) [@tezza23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tezza23)\
**Post date:** [September 5, 2009, 1:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/clueless-in-ga/32192/6 "2009-09-05T01:22:19Z")

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Hey Jen, welcome to the forums.

The MXs are “experimental” mixes that are intended for advanced users. As a result, they tend to be produced in limited quantities. A good one for affecting mood positively is [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/), can’t go wrong with that one.

I don’t know specifically what you can do to attract the attention of your shy friend; it’s a guy’s role to take the initiative and you can’t really make someone take the initiative. I suppose the best you can do is try to let him know that you’re open to him taking the initiative with you. Pheromonally, try Instant Sexiness (two kinds, A and B; A is “strong woman” vibe, B is “kitten” vibe). IS will make you feel sexier and make you seem sexier to men.

Good luck and have fun.

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**Author:** ![clueless](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/35a633/32.png) [@clueless](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/clueless)\
**Post date:** [September 5, 2009, 6:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/clueless-in-ga/32192/7 "2009-09-05T18:40:22Z")

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I ended up ordering Instant Sexiness B (since I’m pretty forward already, don’t need to be any more aggressive than I already am), [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/), and MX138. I realize that these are only tools to help give opportunity, and that just as much depends on what I do with the opportunity if it does present itself (which is not a guarantee).

After reading a bit more last night, I was very impressed with the thought of something taking the edge off of my own high-strung nerves so that the “vibe” I’m giving off is more laid back and comfortable, and less edgy. I’m fairly certain this is part of the problem. As a mom of children with autism (and someone fairly in tune with biochemistry…studying it in school after studying it on my own for a very long time in an effort to help the kiddos), I also wonder if there will be calming effects here at home as well, since there definitely is a negative feedback loop here that I’ve been trying to figure out how to deal with. If this ends up improving that so that we are all in a better mood, then I’m gonna be thrilled, no matter what happens with my friend.

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**Author:** ![clueless](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/35a633/32.png) [@clueless](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/clueless)\
**Post date:** [September 5, 2009, 7:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/clueless-in-ga/32192/8 "2009-09-05T19:05:25Z")

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> [@Steve](#):
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> Thanks so much for joining PheroTalk, I’m super excited to have you here. It’s always great when a new member discovers a world so full of endless possibilities. The only limits to mones is our own imagination 🙂
> 
> While I would love to issue you the $25 Gift Certificate for saying hello I do kindly request you post some more about yourself here. If you are unsure about what qualifies as sufficient to obtain the gift certificate I am just itching to email you, please have a look at this thread: [https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934) I wrote it to help everyone in writing the perfect introduction. Of course the choice is yours and your privacy is very important. If you just don’t feel comfortable providing additional info we will all still do our best to assist you anyway.
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> Welcome to PheroTalk

I’m fascinated by the science relating to all of this, and to be honest, a bit overwhelmed. Reading some of the way this works almost makes me think of the way energy healing affects the body (like homeopathy does, for example), though if I ever finish the biochemistry degree I’ve been working on and get into med school I’m sure I’d be ridiculed for saying either works at all! 🙂 That aside, I’m happy I decided to dig deeper into Androtics after seeing the link on someone’s blog (one of those that rates the effectiveness of different pheromones) I found through google. I’ve been interested in learning more about pheromones for a while now, and since I’ve been single for almost 3 years after 10 of being married, this seemed like the time to finally jump in.

I’ve posted a little more about myself with regards to my situation, my reasons for what made me look for you to begin with, and what I hope to accomplish, among other things, but I’m hopeful this is only the beginning.

Sorry for thinking out loud so much, but hopefully it’ll give you a better idea of who I am, why I’m here, and how not only you can help me, but also how I can help back eventually.

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**Author:** ![tezza23](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tezza23/32/1375_2.png) [@tezza23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tezza23)\
**Post date:** [September 6, 2009, 3:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/clueless-in-ga/32192/9 "2009-09-06T03:30:39Z")

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Hey Jen, thanks for being so open with us.

I have an autism-spectrum disorder myself (Asperger’s), so I think I have at least a little bit ofan idea of what you’re going through as a mother of autistic kids. You’ve got my sympathy and I hope that I can help, at least by telling you how I experience the effects of pheros. Namaste1001 is another forum poster with Asperger’s. We both have journals in the Men’s Journals section of the men’s advice forum.

Instant shine puts me in a more upbeat mood. Instant Openness gives me more of an impulse to talk. Not a lot, but a bit. Might help getting your kids to communicate more. Instant Honesty doesn’t seem to affect me that much. [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) helps me to feel less intimidated by others, but I’m not sure if that would be useful for kids.

I’ve tried Instant Shine around my six-year-old, and she seems fine with it. I think it’s pretty safe to use around kids.

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**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\
**Post date:** [September 8, 2009, 7:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/clueless-in-ga/32192/10 "2009-09-08T19:26:29Z")

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Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂.

Currently we are in the process of seeking out an additional forum Host or two to help with the upkeep of the forum. With that in mind I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool!

Of course I am available to answer any question you might have regarding mones selection by calling me personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and I will be able to consult you one on one.

Welcome to the forum.
