# Come talk to me... trying to figure it out

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/come-talk-to-me-trying-to-figure-it-out/30091>\
**Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [June 23, 2009, 2:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/come-talk-to-me-trying-to-figure-it-out/30091 "2009-06-23T02:48:31Z")\
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**Author:** ![SomeRedHeadChick](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/someredheadchick/32/1902_2.png) [@SomeRedHeadChick](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SomeRedHeadChick)\
**Post date:** [June 23, 2009, 2:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/come-talk-to-me-trying-to-figure-it-out/30091/1 "2009-06-23T02:48:31Z")

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So I reordered my usual favs & got a to go size of “come talk to me” the name seems pretty obvious but I’m a lil confused. Is it a male or female product? or like instant shine - for both. I searched the site but didn’t really get good results.

Any clues or hints?

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**Author:** ![ElectraComplex](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/electracomplex/32/1257_2.png) [@ElectraComplex](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ElectraComplex)\
**Post date:** [June 23, 2009, 5:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/come-talk-to-me-trying-to-figure-it-out/30091/2 "2009-06-23T05:35:08Z")

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Its unisex. It has anol and bnols in equal amounts both of which are [social pheromones](https://a314.com/product-category/social-pheromones/).

Promotes and eases conversation.

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**Author:** ![meow333x](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ecae2f/32.png) [@meow333x](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/meow333x)\
**Post date:** [June 23, 2009, 5:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/come-talk-to-me-trying-to-figure-it-out/30091/3 "2009-06-23T05:39:12Z")

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> [@ElectraComplex](#):
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> Its unisex. It has anol and bnols in equal amounts both of which are social pheromones.
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> Promotes and eases conversation.

i just asked this in another thread but would equal amounts of instant openness and instant honesty give you the same result as CTTM2?

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**Author:** ![M\_P](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/m_p/32/1633_2.png) [@M\_P](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/M_P)\
**Post date:** [June 23, 2009, 6:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/come-talk-to-me-trying-to-figure-it-out/30091/4 "2009-06-23T06:21:13Z")

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I believe so. From what I’ve read, IO is 70 Alpha/30 Betanol, and IH is the other way around, so 1 spray of each should equal the 50/50 mix that is CTTM. Feel free to correct me.