# comfortable confident vibe **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [May 5, 2014, 6:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/comfortable-confident-vibe/61860 "2014-05-05T06:28:05Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 12\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![jgaynor](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/c77e96/32.png) [@jgaynor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jgaynor)\ **Post date:** [May 5, 2014, 6:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/comfortable-confident-vibe/61860/1 "2014-05-05T06:28:05Z")
Hey I had some positive experience a few years back wearing some of my buddys spray so i’m looking to try my own for myself this time. I’m 25 year old male. Goals are to give off a comfortable, confident vibe that people (males & females) are attracted to. I’m planning on trying a mix of Alpha A314, shine, & openness & if i need to put on the attraction w/ females a bit more while maintaining the comfortable confident vibe i’m planning on using [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/), shine, & openness Any feedback & of course the coupon is appreciated. lol -Jgaynor ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [May 5, 2014, 10:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/comfortable-confident-vibe/61860/2 "2014-05-05T10:35:43Z")
Welcome. I’d suggest you leave the IO out of the mix - All it serves to do is wreck the A314 vibe most comprehensively. If you read the store page, you will see that IO is actually the product advised for toning down A314. IH however goes very well with A314 and on its own will support the trust and bonding aspects nicely whilst IH/IS gives a mature and pleasant conversational feel that is hard to beat. ---
**Author:** ![jgaynor](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/c77e96/32.png) [@jgaynor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jgaynor)\ **Post date:** [May 5, 2014, 4:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/comfortable-confident-vibe/61860/3 "2014-05-05T16:57:26Z")
> [@mobocaster](#): > > Welcome. > > I’d suggest you leave the IO out of the mix - All it serves to do is wreck the A314 vibe most comprehensively. If you read the store page, you will see that IO is actually the product advised for toning down A314. > > IH however goes very well with A314 and on its own will support the trust and bonding aspects nicely whilst IH/IS gives a mature and pleasant conversational feel that is hard to beat. Thanks for the feedback. i guess i didn’t mention along w/ the comfortable confident vibe I like to laugh & have fun! 🙂 When i’m not @ work i’m around new people & i want a fun vibe that’s easy to talk to. I thought Openness would be a good add-on to A314 & shine for that purpose? or would i be better suited w/ something like P-74 instead of A314? However, at work I am planning on replacing openness for honesty because i already know everyone and having that mature and pleasant conversational feel would be perfect! ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [May 5, 2014, 5:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/comfortable-confident-vibe/61860/4 "2014-05-05T17:07:15Z")
[P74](https://pheromonelabs.com/product/p74/) is good but as a putative, it is sold without warranty, so you can’t throw it back at AD if its not for you. Its no alternative to A314 either as its a single molecule vs one of the most complex and wide-ranging products in the biz. Also, P74 can be tricky to dose as too much can get just too friendly and nothing else. However I find A314/IH/P74 superb in professional mixes - It gives a good, engaging “expert” vibe and helps get difficult people on your side. The negative is that it is also a “fallout” combo and can lead to problems when people (male and female!) start wanting to latch-on to you. I had to severely curtail its use at my work because of the problems it was beginning to cause - esp with married women! 😮 Personally I’d say that A314/IS or A314/IH/IS sounds just the sort of comfortable and communicative status vibe you are looking for - plus the IH/IS paring makes for IMO a much better quaity conversation vibe compared to IO, which can often just unleash a torrent of drivel - however it is useful in non-A314 social mixes where conversation may be difficult, clubs, gigs and the like. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![jgaynor](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/c77e96/32.png) [@jgaynor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jgaynor)\ **Post date:** [May 5, 2014, 5:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/comfortable-confident-vibe/61860/5 "2014-05-05T17:21:32Z")
> [@mobocaster](#): > > P74 is good but as a putative, it is sold without warranty, so you can’t throw it back at AD if its not for you. Its no alternative to A314 either as its a single molecule vs one of the most complex and wide-ranging products in the biz. Also, P74 can be tricky to dose as too much can get just too friendly and nothing else. > > However I find A314/IH/P74 superb in professional mixes - It gives a good, engaging “expert” vibe and helps get difficult people on your side. The negative is that it is also a “fallout” combo and can lead to problems when people (male and female!) start wanting to latch-on to you. I had to severely curtail its use at my work because of the problems it was beginning to cause - esp with married women! 😮 > > Personally I’d say that A314/IS or A314/IH/IS sounds just the sort of comfortable and communicative status vibe you are looking for - plus the IH/IS paring makes for IMO a much better quaity conversation vibe compared to IO, which can often just unleash a torrent of drivel - however it is useful in non-A314 social mixes where conversation may be difficult, clubs, gigs and the like. 🙂 Ok it sounds like A314/IH/IS is exactly what i want at work! However, when i’m not at work i spend a lot of time at the beach, playing, having fun around men & women. I don’t want such a serious vibe or to usually get into long conversations. Just to be attractive to others because i’m fun comfortable & confident. I’m not sure what mix i should use then? Maybe just shine, openness & honesty without the A314? ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [May 5, 2014, 5:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/comfortable-confident-vibe/61860/6 "2014-05-05T17:32:53Z")
Yes, that’s a good social combo, although it ultimately depends on what uits you and your subjects best - Some will warm to an A314 sig and can be very talkative but others can be cowed into silence by it, whilst others will go for the ligh/bright/chatty feel of IO, so test both to see what works best for you outdoors is more problematic with pheros - The far greater air volume means the diffusion and range falls right-off. Best make use of any natural shelter to preserve your phero cloud. Similarly, you will find that in small enclosed spaces like cars, the impact goes away-up. Also, salt air and water will degrade your pheros a lot faster, so expect to be managing topups and if swimming, maybe look to apply the pheros after and making best use of them awy from the beach. ---
**Author:** ![jgaynor](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/c77e96/32.png) [@jgaynor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jgaynor)\ **Post date:** [May 5, 2014, 5:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/comfortable-confident-vibe/61860/7 "2014-05-05T17:49:44Z")
> [@mobocaster](#): > > Yes, that’s a good social combo, although it ultimately depends on what uits you and your subjects best - Some will warm to an A314 sig and can be very talkative but others can be cowed into silence by it, whilst others will go for the ligh/bright/chatty feel of IO, so test both to see what works best for you outdoors is more problematic with pheros - The far greater air volume means the diffusion and range falls right-off. Best make use of any natural shelter to preserve your phero cloud. Similarly, you will find that in small enclosed spaces like cars, the impact goes away-up. > > Also, salt air and water will degrade your pheros a lot faster, so expect to be managing topups and if swimming, maybe look to apply the pheros after and making best use of them awy from the beach. Thank you mobocaster you’ve been very helpful! Last question, i’m almost always a day time kind of guy. If i’m on a date & I want to turn up the attraction a bit while still maintaining the fun, comfortable, confident vibe would A314/shine work or is this where i need something like Ammo/shine/honesty? ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [May 6, 2014, 6:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/comfortable-confident-vibe/61860/8 "2014-05-06T18:24:14Z")
Both of those are just fine for daytime use. The Ammo mix is more slanted to attraction, whilst the A314 is pure sociable/status and TBH, Ammo’s general attractive qualities would be nicely underlined by just a small amount of A314, so Ammo/IS/A314 is also very viable ---
**Author:** ![gforcex7](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/b38774/32.png) [@gforcex7](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/gforcex7)\ **Post date:** [May 7, 2014, 8:36am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/comfortable-confident-vibe/61860/9 "2014-05-07T08:36:14Z")
IG + IO + IS + IH A314 is too high status IG gives off the confident high male status vibe without the intimidation like A314. Mix all the socials with IG to give that comforting vibe. You can look into Oxytocin or Androstenedione for trust & comforting focused based mones. ---
**Author:** ![jgaynor](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/c77e96/32.png) [@jgaynor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jgaynor)\ **Post date:** [May 10, 2014, 5:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/comfortable-confident-vibe/61860/10 "2014-05-10T05:53:03Z")
bump for 25GC ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [May 10, 2014, 8:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/comfortable-confident-vibe/61860/11 "2014-05-10T20:37:35Z")
\*\*Welcome to our community jgaynor! We’re super happy to have you join us. Thanks for stopping by and sharing. I hope to see more of you around here in the next few weeks! This is a quick note to let you know I’ve issued your gift certificate. It’s burning a hole in your email box as you read this! Have fun!" _~_~_~_~_~_\*\* ---
**Author:** ![jgaynor](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/c77e96/32.png) [@jgaynor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jgaynor)\ **Post date:** [May 10, 2014, 10:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/comfortable-confident-vibe/61860/12 "2014-05-10T22:45:05Z")
> [@kelsey](#): > > \*\*Welcome to our community jgaynor! > > We’re super happy to have you join us. Thanks for stopping by and sharing. I hope to see more of you around here in the next few weeks! > > This is a quick note to let you know I’ve issued your gift certificate. It’s burning a hole in your email box as you read this! > > Have fun!" > > _~_~_~_~_~_\*\* It’s not in my email. Can you PM me?