# confused about what to get. **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [October 2, 2009, 11:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/confused-about-what-to-get/32966 "2009-10-02T23:09:17Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 12\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![desertdove1967](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ecc23a/32.png) [@desertdove1967](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/desertdove1967)\ **Post date:** [October 2, 2009, 11:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/confused-about-what-to-get/32966/1 "2009-10-02T23:09:17Z")
I think I have a split personality. Seriously..Sybil anyone?? Anyway I want to purchase something with alot of sex appeal. I am dominant whenever I go out. I like to flirt with both men and women, but the bottom line is afterwards having a great night with my husband in bed. I like the 2 way feeling of seduction instead of the cuddly take care of me feeling. When I am out in a group setting, I do not like people to get in my bubble. I don’t like to hug unless its someone I know for a lonnnng time. I am not very touchy feely. Unless I want to be. At work, I am the opposite. Almost timid and quiet. Maybe its returning to the workforce after being gone for 10 yrs. But I would like to be recieved as a confident person, friendly and have them open up to me. I thought about [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/). Not sure if A or B would be better. And the instant shine. Since I have no problem blurting out things and talking to people I am afraid to use the instant openess or honesty. I don’t trust myself. After a few cocktails I won’t shut up. Did I mention I also have ADD? I been reading about cops. Which product from smartmones has the highest amount? thanks! ---
**Author:** ![dragonfly44](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/dragonfly44/32/493_2.png) [@dragonfly44](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dragonfly44)\ **Post date:** [October 2, 2009, 11:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/confused-about-what-to-get/32966/2 "2009-10-02T23:35:34Z")
I personally like IS/a much better, especially for you if you don’t like the “take care of me” feeling that IS/b puts out, from what I hear. I actually didn’t like IS/b because it made me depressed/alone feeling, but that could have been a fluke. I have to try it again to see. I really like IS/a though. I get a lot of attention with that and I really, really like MX135 and [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/). That makes men and women nice and receptive, but not all touchy-feely. That’s just my experience with these so far, and I"m pretty new at this, about two months into experimenting. Let us know what you decide and how it works out! ---
**Author:** ![Mtnjim](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mtnjim/32/2010_2.png) [@Mtnjim](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mtnjim)\ **Post date:** [October 2, 2009, 11:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/confused-about-what-to-get/32966/3 "2009-10-02T23:50:09Z")
> [@desertdove1967](#): > > I been reading about cops. Which product from smartmones has the highest amount? thanks! None of Smartmones products have cops. You’ll need to get them elsewhere. You can get Essence of Woman (EoW) at Love-Scent. There are other places to get cops also. ---
**Author:** ![desertdove1967](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ecc23a/32.png) [@desertdove1967](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/desertdove1967)\ **Post date:** [October 3, 2009, 12:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/confused-about-what-to-get/32966/4 "2009-10-03T00:17:31Z")
thanks dragonfly! I think I may try both of them in the to go bottles. IS/A and B ---
**Author:** ![desertdove1967](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ecc23a/32.png) [@desertdove1967](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/desertdove1967)\ **Post date:** [October 3, 2009, 12:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/confused-about-what-to-get/32966/5 "2009-10-03T00:18:20Z")
thanks mtnjim..If they don’t have cops, do they still have that magnetic quality? ---
**Author:** ![Xiphoid](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xiphoid/32/1852_2.png) [@Xiphoid](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Xiphoid)\ **Post date:** [October 3, 2009, 6:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/confused-about-what-to-get/32966/6 "2009-10-03T06:59:59Z")
> [@desertdove1967](#): > > thanks mtnjim..If they don’t have cops, do they still have that magnetic quality? It’s not cops that gives a phero mix a “magnetic” quality, you can get a very attractive sexy sparkle without cops 🙂 Cops are one thing, and one thing only…pure sexual arousal. It’s great for adding to sexy mixes or to spice things up in the bedroom but it’s not really suitable for work etc. Cops send the signal that you are fertile and ready to rock..NOW! ---
**Author:** ![desertdove1967](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ecc23a/32.png) [@desertdove1967](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/desertdove1967)\ **Post date:** [October 4, 2009, 1:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/confused-about-what-to-get/32966/7 "2009-10-04T01:23:54Z")
I just placed a small order, since I am new to all this. I purchased the [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) and instant shine. I am hoping its the A. Will post on the effects! ---
**Author:** ![LeafStamp](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/leafstamp/32/376_2.png) [@LeafStamp](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/LeafStamp)\ **Post date:** [October 4, 2009, 1:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/confused-about-what-to-get/32966/8 "2009-10-04T01:51:27Z")
> [@desertdove1967](#): > > I just placed a small order, since I am new to all this. I purchased the instant sexiness and instant shine. I am hoping its the A. Will post on the effects! It’s confusing the crossover between the store and the forums sometimes. Instant Sexiness in the store is what is referred to here as Instant Sexiness A. While [Instant Sexiness B](https://phera.com/product/kitten/) in the store is Instant Sexiness B here. Shorthand - it’s IS/A and IS/B ---
**Author:** ![desertdove1967](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ecc23a/32.png) [@desertdove1967](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/desertdove1967)\ **Post date:** [October 4, 2009, 8:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/confused-about-what-to-get/32966/9 "2009-10-04T08:06:23Z")
thanks Leaf! Yes, I did not see the A. But I did see the B and did not order it. Hopefully I will try that version soon as well. ---
**Author:** ![desertdove1967](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ecc23a/32.png) [@desertdove1967](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/desertdove1967)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2009, 5:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/confused-about-what-to-get/32966/10 "2009-10-06T17:39:24Z")
checked the status of my order…\*sigh. Cali to Phoenix is only a 2 hr flight at the most. By car its 7 hrs. But my package went from Cali to Tennessee hopefully no layovers! I want to try the instant shine at work Thursday! It’s ok to wear the instant shine without combining it with anything else right? ---
**Author:** ![Mtnjim](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mtnjim/32/2010_2.png) [@Mtnjim](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mtnjim)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2009, 5:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/confused-about-what-to-get/32966/11 "2009-10-06T17:43:30Z")
> [@desertdove1967](#): > > checked the status of my order…\*sigh. > Cali to Phoenix is only a 2 hr flight at the most. > By car its 7 hrs. > But my package went from Cali to Tennessee hopefully no layovers! Sorry, that’s their shipping hub. Every package, no matter where it headed goes there. San Diego to Beverly Hills 1 1/2 hours by car, 15 minutes by air, even my package goes there.😠 > [@](#): > > It’s ok to wear the instant shine without combining it with anything else right? Absolutely!! ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2009, 5:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/confused-about-what-to-get/32966/12 "2009-10-06T17:51:57Z")
> [@desertdove1967](#): > > checked the status of my order…\*sigh. > Cali to Phoenix is only a 2 hr flight at the most. > By car its 7 hrs. > But my package went from Cali to Tennessee hopefully no layovers! I want to try the instant shine at work Thursday! > It’s ok to wear the instant shine without combining it with anything else right? Oh, I love when that happens 🙄 It makes our pheros more worldly and well-traveled. Especially mine, because I am in the middle of the Pacific Ocean, which means by the time I get them, they have traveled around 8,000 miles!!