# Confused **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [July 2, 2012, 9:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/confused/56021 "2012-07-02T09:31:52Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Cillygirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/bb73d2/32.png) [@Cillygirl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Cillygirl)\ **Post date:** [July 2, 2012, 9:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/confused/56021/1 "2012-07-02T09:31:52Z")
Hi, I don’t know anything about [pheromones](https://a314.com/), but thought it might be a fun thing to try! I’m so confused about what to buy! I’m 28 yo. female and would like to try something that will attract attention from men. ---
**Author:** ![\_moko](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/_/0ea827/32.png) [@\_moko](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/_moko)\ **Post date:** [July 2, 2012, 9:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/confused/56021/2 "2012-07-02T09:42:26Z")
Hello and welcome to the forum! Well this is right place to learn about pheromones 😉 Could you tell us more about yourself so that we can suggest which products to get / which products suits for your situation. What is your personality like? Where you are planning to use pheromones? Moko ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [July 2, 2012, 10:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/confused/56021/3 "2012-07-02T10:21:36Z")
Hi, there, Cilly, and welcome to the mone forum, PheroTalk! 🙂 Confused is a good place to start. You’re looking actively for direction and that’s what we can do for you. But, what reactions do you wish to get from your mone application? What about a bit about your personality? This’ll help whittle down a more appropriate mone for you. If you JUST want to see mones work, prove it for yourself, I’d suggest to get IO. Really gets you and others willing just gabbin’ away. 😃 You can check the links below to make sure you qualify for the GC. The admin’s of this site will be looking for these points. [https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934) > [@What "Unanswered" means and how to select the best answer to your questions](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-unanswered-means-and-how-to-select-the-best-answer-to-your-questions/23652): > > Hi everyone. When new users introduce themselves here, they usually have a few questions about their personal situations. Now, all new users who introduce themselves will have the option of selecting which post contained the “best answers”. This is very similar to what you may have seen on the “Yahoo Answers” service. When “Unanswered” appears next to a topic’s title, it means that the original poster hasn’t yet rated which answer to their thread was most helpful. If you’re a new user reading… Glad you could join the forum and check in on ya later! 🙂 1Alpha ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [July 2, 2012, 1:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/confused/56021/4 "2012-07-02T13:23:01Z")
Hi Cilly Welcome to Pherotalk 😃 I know it can be confusing. There are many types of mones that evoke many different emotions and responses. I would start with the basic consumer products. These are the tried and true products most users always have in there arsenal. [Instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) …either A or B A is more strong sexy alpha female … Think Angelina Jolie B is more soft sweet sexy… Think Marilyn Monroe. I also suggest Ishine and IH Ishine is warm and magnetic. It draws people to you. IH increases deep conversation and a feeling of connection and intimacy. If you have any questions just ask. Hope to see you in the womens forum Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [July 3, 2012, 3:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/confused/56021/5 "2012-07-03T15:25:01Z")
Welcome to pherotalk Cillygirl, You didn’t quite qualify for the $25 GC but your situation is pretty simple and we can all give advise based on what you said. Tisha gave you some great suggestions on what to start with. Have fun with these. _ **Your gc was issued!** _ ---
**Author:** ![Cillygirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/bb73d2/32.png) [@Cillygirl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Cillygirl)\ **Post date:** [July 8, 2012, 4:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/confused/56021/6 "2012-07-08T16:32:41Z")
I just received [instant sexiness B](https://phera.com/product/kitten/) in the mail, and I also purchased Essence of a Woman, and Arouse-Rx For Women: Unscented through Amazon. Should I use them together, or is one better than the others? I used the Essence of a Woman this weekend around 3 drops, let it dry and tried to cover it with my regular perfume. (It gave me a headache and a lightheaded feeling?) Then sprayed 2 or 3 sprays of the instant sexiness on. I didn’t really notice people acting any differently towards me. I am 28 and not on birth control. I tend to be more introverted and on the quiet side. I’m not sure how much is too much to put on or what will get results? Any advice will be greatly appreciated! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [July 8, 2012, 7:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/confused/56021/7 "2012-07-08T19:59:12Z")
This is a bit beyond the Intro scope as you’ll get much more exposure to your post if you open a new thread in the Women’s section. You could copy and paste it on a new thread there. From what I’ve tried with EoW, it can be used with a couple of drops, though, you should have a very good cover scent. It’s a very Sexy gal, sexed Guy, here vibe. However, I’d ask, Where were you using it? If it was at work or some other more formal place, you may have been ignored as it’s a bit much for some people’s sensibilities in that environment. Now, if you’re already reserved or shy, you’ll need to open up a bit to be in accord with that confident, Sexy gal vibe. Otherwise, that chemical signal will be ignored and others may thing, nah, it can’t be her, or it doesn’t make sense, since you’re closed off with your body language. Though, your mones may be yelling for attention. 🙂 The gals on the Women’s section can give you MUCH better, real world experience on the other products you’re using. 1Alpha . > [@Cillygirl](#): > > I just received instant sexiness B in the mail, and I also purchased Essence of a Woman, and Arouse-Rx For Women: Unscented through Amazon. Should I use them together, or is one better than the others? I used the Essence of a Woman this weekend around 3 drops, let it dry and tried to cover it with my regular perfume. (It gave me a headache and a lightheaded feeling?) Then sprayed 2 or 3 sprays of the instant sexiness on. I didn’t really notice people acting any differently towards me. I am 28 and not on birth control. I tend to be more introverted and on the quiet side. I’m not sure how much is too much to put on or what will get results? Any advice will be greatly appreciated! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [July 9, 2012, 6:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/confused/56021/8 "2012-07-09T06:45:13Z")
> [@Cillygirl](#): > > I just received instant sexiness B in the mail, and I also purchased Essence of a Woman, and Arouse-Rx For Women: Unscented through Amazon. Should I use them together, or is one better than the others? I used the Essence of a Woman this weekend around 3 drops, let it dry and tried to cover it with my regular perfume. (It gave me a headache and a lightheaded feeling?) Then sprayed 2 or 3 sprays of the instant sexiness on. I didn’t really notice people acting any differently towards me. I am 28 and not on birth control. I tend to be more introverted and on the quiet side. I’m not sure how much is too much to put on or what will get results? Any advice will be greatly appreciated! 🙂 Well you just starting out so go one at a time. You want to see what each one is doing for you and what your dose is to get those results. If you wear them all at once you wont know. EOW is mainly a feminine sexual mone. Use it sparingingly 1 to 4 drops for just a sexy kick. More strongly 5 to 8 drops for a sexual encounter. You will have to figure out what your ranges are. I like to make little 5ML bottles of perfume and just add a few drops just to add some sexiness to it without being blatantly sexual. The smell can be a bit overwhelming at first and its not unusual to get lightheaded or a headache. That usually passes after using it a few times. It can happen with everyday normal organic substances that have a strong dominant odor to. Wont hurt you. [Instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/)… I tend to range at about 4 to 5 sprays. I am older then you though. I suggest start with about 2 sprays to the chest and neck area. I hate wrist application they produce poor diffusion. Give it some time. People who know you already have preconceived notions about you. They need repeated exposures. Take notice of reactions from those you dont know. Do strangers make eye contact more. Speak to you out of the blue more. Glance at you more then usual. Stuff like that. We dont get blatant hits everyday. I know it seems that way because we report those but 5 out of 7 days the results with all mones no matter where you get them are subtle. Arouse RX is A1 anone arone and anol. It has some strong male pheromones in it even though you got the womens version. Advancement is lacking in the womens area of mones in my opinion. I would couple this with your EOW to feminize it a bit. I have it and it works for a strong alpha female vibe but it leans more toward alpha bitch then sexy alpha female. I find other females tend to avoid me when I use it and males can be more aggressive and prone to be inapproperiate. My boss on the other hand gets combative like we are in some sort of power struggle I am unaware of. So go easy with this one. Now if your shy what you should be exploring is IO and IH. They have inexpensive to-go sizes with these and they will help open you and others up more. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Cillygirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/bb73d2/32.png) [@Cillygirl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Cillygirl)\ **Post date:** [July 10, 2012, 9:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/confused/56021/9 "2012-07-10T21:38:57Z")
Thanks for all of the tips! I will give them a try! 🙂