# Congruence: how do I act in accordance with the pheromones and 'work' them?

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**Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [April 17, 2012, 10:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/congruence-how-do-i-act-in-accordance-with-the-pheromones-and-work-them/55290 "2012-04-17T22:13:14Z")\
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**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\
**Post date:** [April 18, 2012, 1:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/congruence-how-do-i-act-in-accordance-with-the-pheromones-and-work-them/55290/4 "2012-04-18T01:39:24Z")

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> [@Andsoitgoes](#):
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> _ **Oh, yes, I’ve made extensive use of the “search” function and it is indeed a veritable treasure trove of priceless experiences. I’ve enjoyed reading them. I’m not so much looking for a shortcut as a way of making my own actions congruent with the effects the pheromones are supposed to produce. And, being that this is the “tips and tricks” section, I figured this would be a good place to ask.** _
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> _ **So I might ask for example, if I’m using EoW as an attractant when I don’t consider myself a flirtatious person, what I can do to make my actions more congruent with that vibe. Tisha has mentioned body language in previous posts. Is there anything else? What else?** _
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> _**In the interest of saving product (and my money), I ask how to amplify effects BEFORE I walk out into the world, doused with pheromones and because it’s exactly my lack of experience that would hinder the results I’m shooting for.**_

There’s nothing wrong with getting the most bang for your buck, especially when you pay top dollar. Amen to that. 😉 Remember, more isn’t necessarily better. Moderation is best, so start low and no dousing, lol. Although feel free to Dosey Doe. 😃

I think this is what you’re looking for and hope it helps.

[https://pheromonetalk.com/t/congruence-whats-that/9805](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/congruence-whats-that/9805)

You’ll find various insights on what congruence is, how congruence relates to specific pheromones and “tips/tricks” on how to _be_(come) congruent.

Read all about it… then be brave and go for it. Get yourself out there and mix it up! It’s the only way to learn/get a handle on things. It’s how you gain experience. Have fun and experiment. Step _a bit_ out of your comfort zone, no need to put so much pressure on yourself, chiquita. The more you do it, the better you’ll get at it. Rome wasn’t built in a day. You just need a little time/practice to learn how to “work” it. 🙂

Bella

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