# Congruence? What's That?

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/congruence-whats-that/9805>\
**Category:** Pheromone Theory & Molecules\
**Created:** [March 8, 2008, 7:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/congruence-whats-that/9805 "2008-03-08T19:54:40Z")\
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**Author:** ![K24](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/k24/32/1513_2.png) [@K24](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/K24)\
**Post date:** [July 4, 2008, 4:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/congruence-whats-that/9805/39 "2008-07-04T04:30:27Z")

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ok, Mr renny requested me to expand this in the congruency section so here it is:

extracted from my other post [A314 and congruency](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a314-and-congruency/13967)

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> Also, I think congruency is sometimes a little “overrated” here by some people. sure it is an important factor, but think about it, you cannot be congruent to everyone single product, you can only try your best and that’s what it counts.  
> IMO as long as you are not completely incongruent to the pheromones it is fine, don’t use congruency as a sole decision on whether to choose a product or not, as long as you put SOME effort into it you will get something in return. just because you are not an extremely high status guy or have great alpha vibes, doesn’t mean A314 won’t benefit you or you cannot choose the product.  
> come to think of it, why need A314 at all if you are a great alpha and have extremely high status?? if it’s me i would choose something else such as Instant Shine or Instant Openness to balance my image.

so to sum it up, congruency is still a VERY important factor, because..if you look closely, using pheromone is all about self-improvement in a sense, or at least people who go down that path have greater success in the long term, so hopefully by using pheromone you will improve your social skills, grooming, be more approachable, and act confident etc and let the pheromones work for you and vice versa.  
for example, if you choose A314 (a great example here), you are hopefully just one step closer to becoming a confident, alpha male, and you should subconciously act like one, you may not succeed at first try but self-improvement is a long process.  
on the other hand if you say to yourself: “ok i’m not an alpha male, i’m shy, i’m not confident, i don’t have high status and i don’t get respect from people, so A314 will not work for me, as a result i will never give it a try because i know i will not be alpha male anyway and it would be useless”. then you are probably right…you will NEVER be one.

remember, if you are at least WILLING to try and be congruent, then i’d say eventually pheromones will work for you, they are just a stepping stone towards long term self-improvement.

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