I would pop over to Love Scent .com and get some Essence of Women (EOW).
Then next time your together use a few drops of copulins. Let it dry down for 15 minutes then cover it with another scent. Also use a spray or 2 of IH and Instant sexiness and just that smidge of TUTH.
That should get the blood flowing in the right direction. 
Sometimes it does take a little longer to see results with those close to us because they have preconceived notions and they need repeated exposure to sort of reprogram those thoughts.
Tisha