# Coworker gets angry when I wear IS/A: advice on TAL vs TAH and Instant Shine **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [October 14, 2009, 11:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/coworker-gets-angry-when-i-wear-is-a-advice-on-tal-vs-tah-and-instant-shine/33304 "2009-10-14T23:23:36Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 4\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![bluejune82](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/c68b51/32.png) [@bluejune82](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bluejune82)\ **Post date:** [October 14, 2009, 11:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/coworker-gets-angry-when-i-wear-is-a-advice-on-tal-vs-tah-and-instant-shine/33304/1 "2009-10-14T23:23:36Z")
I’ve been testing out my phermones at work - I know I’m not supposed to test the Instant sexiness phermones at work but couldn’t resist. Anyway everytime I wear IS\A my co worker (24 yo male) that sits less than 3 ft away from me gets angry. It’s as if he picks fights with me. He even yelled at me and said “I hate you! I hope you fall down the stairs today” I’m not intimidated by him in any way-so all is well between us - I have to let him know who’s boss when he gets out of hand though so I told him off a couple of times. He’s usually cranky and lazy everyday. But today I wore 3 sprays of IS A and it really set him off. I thought it was funny. When I wear IS B he throws stuff at me and becomes really playful and helpful. Which is rare. Overall we have a good working relationship, unfortunatly I have to verbally smack him up to get him to do work on a normal day. I always knew he was insecure, but this proves it. I got Instant Shine, MX 335, and [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) today. I can’t wait to wear it tomorrow!!! I’m so excited!!😃 ---
**Author:** ![BLADE](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/blade/32/2083_2.png) [@BLADE](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/BLADE)\ **Post date:** [October 15, 2009, 1:36am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/coworker-gets-angry-when-i-wear-is-a-advice-on-tal-vs-tah-and-instant-shine/33304/2 "2009-10-15T01:36:01Z")
I’m sure some of the gals will chime in with more details, but it sounds like he doesn’t like TAL but does like TAH. IsA is mainly TAL - think powerful alpha woman 🙂 IsB is mainly TAH - More of a sex kittenish, more “girlish” girl if that makes sense. With IsA he’s probably intimidated by you. ---
**Author:** ![FantasyAngel](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/fantasyangel/32/952_2.png) [@FantasyAngel](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/FantasyAngel)\ **Post date:** [October 15, 2009, 3:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/coworker-gets-angry-when-i-wear-is-a-advice-on-tal-vs-tah-and-instant-shine/33304/3 "2009-10-15T03:58:06Z")
Yeah, he might be intimidated by you when you wear IS/a since he probably sees you as more competitive and alpha when you have it on. If you like the self-effects of IS/a, you can try wearing some [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) with it. It should help him get in a better mood and relax a little. You can also wear some MX335 (it is TAH-based, but has a lot of other pheromones in there too) to balance out the TAL in IS/a. He may also react well to only MX335 since he seems to like TAH better, but MX335 gives off more of a party girl vibe so you may not want to use just that on days when you need to be serious for work. Also, I actually think it’s fine to wear IS/a at work…I use it to substitute MX134/MX300 (my favorite mix for work) sometimes. IS/a isn’t all just about sexiness, it also helps command respect which is good for work. IS/a is only as sexy as you make it, so you can “tone down” the sexiness depending on how you act and project yourself. I seem to get more help from guys at work when I use IS/a lol 🙂. ---
**Author:** ![bluejune82](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/c68b51/32.png) [@bluejune82](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bluejune82)\ **Post date:** [October 16, 2009, 1:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/coworker-gets-angry-when-i-wear-is-a-advice-on-tal-vs-tah-and-instant-shine/33304/4 "2009-10-16T01:34:40Z")
I wore just [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) (2x head) and MX335 (2x each side of neck). OMG I’m loving the Grapefruit scent. It’s nowhere near as strong as the neroli. I think men can use the Grapefruit scent too. Well my coworker was very mellow today and everyone seemed to be in a good mood. MX335 and Instant shine review: 1. 11:30 AM: I had a meeting today with one of the big shots at my job and did not feel intimidated at all. Words just flowed, there were lots of smiles and good laughs. 2. 1:45 PM: I went to lunch. It was kind of windy out. I stopped at a crosswalk because cars were turning onto the street I was on. Then a guy turned around and threw his hands in the air and demanded the cars to stop turning. He then turned around and said “after you my precious”. It was kind of creepy and funny at the same time. 3. I then strolled through a department store (fileens basement) and noticed that women were around me. It was weird because I wasn’t in a sale section. And get this someone asked ME for fashion advice. (A FIRST)HELLO do I look like I know a thing about fashion? - um..NO. Then a lady started talking to me in the bathroom(Another FIRST). she said “The flu is going around you should wash your hands well”😕REALLY? I’m sure she was just trying to be nice, but WTF lady!!! I really didn’t want to wash my hands after that, but what good what that have done for me. 4. After work in the train station. I stood under a huge fan. There was no sexy hair blowing or anything. I got wet in the rain and thought I could use the subway fan to dry off. Well, I ended up with a fan club gawking at me. I didn’t get any sleezy remarks today, a big plus.