# Coworker turns down my dates but gets jealous when I flirt with others: what now? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [October 22, 2010, 5:56am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/coworker-turns-down-my-dates-but-gets-jealous-when-i-flirt-with-others-what-now/42792 "2010-10-22T05:56:26Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![MVKBUGATTI](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/50afbb/32.png) [@MVKBUGATTI](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MVKBUGATTI)\ **Post date:** [October 23, 2010, 11:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/coworker-turns-down-my-dates-but-gets-jealous-when-i-flirt-with-others-what-now/42792/21 "2010-10-23T23:22:25Z")
> [@Wolfishgrin](#): > > Alrighty. There is a girl from work whom I thought has liked me for a very long time now, but **every time I ask her** out she **either gets** quiet and _ **pretends** _ not to have heard **or** _ **refuses** _ my invitation. Well, the other day I was really into these girls that came in wearing hunters gear. I took each by the hand and introduced myself, even cracked a joke about the triple D’s (their names all began with the letter D.) I flirted around with them. Well, it wasn’t much later that the girl from work began trying to get my attention and started **slandering** the **other girls** over their choice of outfit. **She did** something to **make** it so I would **hold her hand** for a little bit and went out of her way to keep my attention. Really, if she’s going to be trying to have my attention only on her, she’d better give me a reason to give her all my attention. **I feel like she’s just trying to play me.** Yes, she’s a ten. No, I won’t go out of my way and place her on a pedestal. Men, how times have we experienced or seen this happen at some point in our life? You’ve already stated how you feel. So who’s has better game. There’s a very old saying that I have heard from senior _ladies_, and it goes like this: **“That dog don’t hunt.”** ---
**Author:** ![CoolKat](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/coolkat/32/501_2.png) [@CoolKat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CoolKat)\ **Post date:** [October 24, 2010, 1:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/coworker-turns-down-my-dates-but-gets-jealous-when-i-flirt-with-others-what-now/42792/22 "2010-10-24T01:37:24Z")
U crack me up MVK ---
**Author:** ![M\_M](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/9fc29f/32.png) [@M\_M](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/M_M)\ **Post date:** [October 24, 2010, 2:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/coworker-turns-down-my-dates-but-gets-jealous-when-i-flirt-with-others-what-now/42792/23 "2010-10-24T02:24:18Z")
> [@tisha23](#): > > I think her seeking your attention is more about her and how she feels about herself then about how she feels about you. > > She has already told you she is not interested in going out. She may be a 10 in your eyes but that doesnt mean she is a 10 in her own. She may need attention to boost the way she see’s herself and when you gave attention to those other girls it was a blow to her self esteem. Your giving her attention makes her feel good about herself. > > **Keep on flirting with other girls when they come in. When she starts looking for attention don’t give it to her. If you do your playing right into her illusion. You gave her a chance, if she wants you she will have to work for it now.** > > **Tisha** Some **Super Heroes** are hot without a cape! 😉 You’re not confused, Wolf. You know EXACTLY what’s really going on! She’s not sending mix signals, you’re signal radar’s in need of fine tuning. **HOUSTON!** We have a nut case! 🙄 Screw the blow job! Get a nose job, and double-coat that wacked out brain, just for confusing you! ---
**Author:** ![Vespero](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/vespero/32/988_2.png) [@Vespero](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Vespero)\ **Post date:** [October 24, 2010, 2:29am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/coworker-turns-down-my-dates-but-gets-jealous-when-i-flirt-with-others-what-now/42792/24 "2010-10-24T02:29:15Z")
> [@M\_M](#): > > Some \*\* > > Screw the blow job! Get a nose job, and double-coat that wacked out brain, just for confusing you! M&M is either telling you that your current nose is unsatisfactory and you need a new one, or that your penis is so small that it comfortably fits into a female nostril. Either way, _are you gonna take that?_ ---
**Author:** ![M\_M](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/9fc29f/32.png) [@M\_M](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/M_M)\ **Post date:** [October 24, 2010, 2:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/coworker-turns-down-my-dates-but-gets-jealous-when-i-flirt-with-others-what-now/42792/25 "2010-10-24T02:37:16Z")
> [@Vespero](#): > > M&M is either telling you that your current nose is unsatisfactory and you need a new one, or that your penis is so small that it comfortably fits into a female nostril. Either way, _are you gonna take that?_ GeezWeez, V! I would have never come up with that in a million years! 😃 🆒 **Shame on you fer thinking such!** 🆒 Gotta watch what I say around you, now, Trouble Maker! 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Vespero](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/vespero/32/988_2.png) [@Vespero](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Vespero)\ **Post date:** [October 24, 2010, 2:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/coworker-turns-down-my-dates-but-gets-jealous-when-i-flirt-with-others-what-now/42792/26 "2010-10-24T02:50:47Z")
> [@M\_M](#): > > GeezWeez, V! I would have never come up with that in a million years! 😃 > > 🆒 **Shame on you fer thinking such!** 🆒 > > Gotta watch what I say around you, now, Trouble Maker! > 😃 Just doing my part to keep this a friendly, happy community, free of strife or turmoil of any sort. 😉 ---
**Author:** ![RisenAlpha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/54ee81/32.png) [@RisenAlpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RisenAlpha)\ **Post date:** [October 24, 2010, 2:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/coworker-turns-down-my-dates-but-gets-jealous-when-i-flirt-with-others-what-now/42792/27 "2010-10-24T14:09:55Z")
you guys are hilarious!! ---
**Author:** ![Wolfishgrin](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wolfishgrin/32/1082_2.png) [@Wolfishgrin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wolfishgrin)\ **Post date:** [October 24, 2010, 6:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/coworker-turns-down-my-dates-but-gets-jealous-when-i-flirt-with-others-what-now/42792/28 "2010-10-24T18:16:32Z")
> [@Vespero](#): > > M&M is either telling you that your current nose is unsatisfactory and you need a new one, or that your penis is so small that it comfortably fits into a female nostril. Either way, _are you gonna take that?_ LMAO! I love that avatar of yours too. “My God! I’m delicious!” That can be taken so many ways.. I have my sights on someone else anyway, that girl comes secondary - if that. As far as the whole nose job thing goes, I think M&M was really meaning her nose is huge and that’s her specialty so go for it and double coat her brain as a reward for screwing around with my _cough_ head. Lol! [Previous page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/coworker-turns-down-my-dates-but-gets-jealous-when-i-flirt-with-others-what-now/42792.md?page=1)