Welcome hello kitty!! 
You sound like an interesting chick 
and one that would certainly gain benefits from pheromone use, not to mention find yourself in good testing environments.
The suggestions above are excellent, and I cannot improve on this.
One thing I will say is have a good read of The Womens Guideand do spend some time in the Womens Forum here. There are some great gals in there that will share some stories with you and answer questions.
Once again welcome, and be sure to return and let us all know about your results! 