# Curious New guy needing advice. Pheromones for Rebuilding Trust, Bond w/ a Girl. M/37 **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [September 3, 2016, 6:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/curious-new-guy-needing-advice-pheromones-for-rebuilding-trust-bond-w-a-girl-m-37/66361 "2016-09-03T18:38:34Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Kwguy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/977dab/32.png) [@Kwguy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kwguy)\ **Post date:** [September 3, 2016, 6:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/curious-new-guy-needing-advice-pheromones-for-rebuilding-trust-bond-w-a-girl-m-37/66361/1 "2016-09-03T18:38:34Z")
Hola. Been curious about this stuff for while. I’m 37. My main reason for being here is that I’m trying to rebuild trust with my friend. She’s 26. We were super tight for 10 months. Could literally talk about anything. We live about 1,000 miles apart, so everything has been through text, the occasional phone call and some facebook stuff. She has flown out to visit me twice. I have plans to go see her next month. Her first visit back in January was when we discovered that we get along even better in person. We spent both nights cuddling. No sex. Second visit was the first weekend of July. She stayed at my place this time. Had just as much fun as the first time. At the start of August, she went MIA on me for 10 days. When she did start talking again, she confessed that she was mad at me for a comment I had made about an ex of hers. Said that it didn’t feel like I was on her side anymore. Things have been awkward since then. I’m flying out to see her next month and I’m hoping that there is a combo I can use to help us both relax while also helping her to trust me again. I get that everyone is recommending IH, but what else? I know that we’ll be spending some time out with her friends the first night, and that I’ll be staying at her place, so I’ll obviously be in close contact. What is going to give me the best shot? I have time to practice finding sweet spots during the day with my coworkers. ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [September 3, 2016, 8:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/curious-new-guy-needing-advice-pheromones-for-rebuilding-trust-bond-w-a-girl-m-37/66361/2 "2016-09-03T20:03:35Z")
Hi there, KWGuy, welcome to the forum! Yes, as you already have experience in person of getting along even better than online, this is a great base to start with. Feeling like you are taking sides is a tough place to be. You have to be truthful with her, just not hurtful. She has to understand, as well, that not all things will be to her benefit. If the focus is rebuilding Trust, I would be inclined to IG, IShine and IH for the focused, confident male with the IShine providing the comfort and relaxed feelings. IH for really opening up deep convo’s and feelings. If you’re looking for more sexual tension, I would suggest AMMO with the IShine and IH. My Personal preference is, AMMO Summer Edition or AMMO [World Edition](https://a314.com/product-category/scented/world-edition/) (FF22) which are the different scent packages that you can get with AMMO. For your age, you could also do what’s called Heavy AMMO, which is basically, 2x strength equivalent in 1 spray. You know, since you have some time to check out what the mones will do for you and those around you, I would suggest the Ultimate Kit. This will give you all of these and a couple of others that you can use for testing and then you can better gauge which would be best for you and this visit. 1Alpha . ---
**Author:** ![Conjurator](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/conjurator/32/410_2.png) [@Conjurator](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Conjurator)\ **Post date:** [September 3, 2016, 9:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/curious-new-guy-needing-advice-pheromones-for-rebuilding-trust-bond-w-a-girl-m-37/66361/3 "2016-09-03T21:04:17Z")
Hi Kwguy, I just wanted to drop by and welcome you to this forum. You already received great advice from 1Alpha, he’s a very experienced user so you can definitely go for that. You will be eligible to a 25$ gift certificate to help you with your first buy, that will help you get the men’s starter kit at a very good price. If you have other questions, please ask. ---
**Author:** ![justintime469](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/justintime469/32/1402_2.png) [@justintime469](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/justintime469)\ **Post date:** [September 6, 2016, 1:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/curious-new-guy-needing-advice-pheromones-for-rebuilding-trust-bond-w-a-girl-m-37/66361/4 "2016-09-06T01:10:11Z")
Hi Kwguy, Your true best bet is to take a look into the **Men’s Ultimate Kit** as you would have everything possible to make things work and you might spend as much if you bought a lot of these separate. First thing I would hit her with the IH and [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) as you will need the Ammo for attraction so you don’t get in the dreaded friendzone. I think this main setup should work just fine and maybe some IS also as this will put her in a good mood. Then later on add the TUTH and you should be in and by then she should have forgot about whatever she was mad about you with. Good luck and if I can help with anything let me know. ---
**Author:** ![Kwguy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/977dab/32.png) [@Kwguy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kwguy)\ **Post date:** [September 6, 2016, 3:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/curious-new-guy-needing-advice-pheromones-for-rebuilding-trust-bond-w-a-girl-m-37/66361/5 "2016-09-06T03:45:05Z")
Honestly man, I’d rather keep to the friendzone with this one. We live too far apart to try anything else, or maintain anything outside of the friendzone. We’re both single parents and don’t have the cash to be constantly flying. Just trying to rebuild the friendship right now. ---
**Author:** ![Dee\_A](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7bcc69/32.png) [@Dee\_A](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dee_A)\ **Post date:** [September 6, 2016, 4:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/curious-new-guy-needing-advice-pheromones-for-rebuilding-trust-bond-w-a-girl-m-37/66361/6 "2016-09-06T04:31:54Z")
Welcome to PheromoneTalk, Kwguy! Your GC is now in your email. 🙂 I agree with the AMMO + IS + IH recommendation. It’s a cool choice, a safe one for attraction and bonding. Just make sure to have a back-up of TUTH. Happy Pheroing! 🙂 ============ _ **Disclosure:** I’ve edited your thread title from **“Curious New guy needing advice”** to **“Curious New guy needing advice. [Pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) for Rebuilding Trust, Bond w/ a Girl. M/37”** for topic clarity and forum readability. It’ll also generate more “reads” to your thread. If you want to opt-out simply let me know. Thank you!_ ---
**Author:** ![Conjurator](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/conjurator/32/410_2.png) [@Conjurator](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Conjurator)\ **Post date:** [September 7, 2016, 2:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/curious-new-guy-needing-advice-pheromones-for-rebuilding-trust-bond-w-a-girl-m-37/66361/7 "2016-09-07T02:58:58Z")
If you want to be friends only with that particular lady, fine, but there are plenty fishes in the sea for other purposes. I agree with Dee, stock some attraction and sexual products along with the socials, just in case 😃. ---
**Author:** ![Dee\_A](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7bcc69/32.png) [@Dee\_A](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dee_A)\ **Post date:** [February 27, 2018, 9:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/curious-new-guy-needing-advice-pheromones-for-rebuilding-trust-bond-w-a-girl-m-37/66361/8 "2018-02-27T09:34:35Z")
Hi Kwguy! I see you’ve already placed an order and used your GC. Hope you received it all fine. Don’t forget to share your test results, my friend. You can create your own journal [here](https://pheromonetalk.com/c/men-s-pheromone-advice-tricks-and-tips/men-s-journals/22) to keep notes of your dosages and usages, plus its different effects, including those you consider a “failure”. Journal helps a lot. It’s your own phero time machine. 🙂 Also, you should drop some feedback about your p\_\_ and MX\_\_ usage. We would love to hear how those precious molecules worked out for you. You must send your feedback at [feedback@androtics.com](mailto:feedback@androtics.com) (Always enter p# or MX# in Subject Line). You might just qualify for a Reporting User status by doing so. 🙂 Thanks! Chat soon!