# Da Bella da Ball Journal

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/da-bella-da-ball-journal/7826>\
**Category:** Women's Journals\
**Created:** [December 28, 2007, 8:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/da-bella-da-ball-journal/7826 "2007-12-28T20:02:24Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
**Page:** 14

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**Author:** ![mark-in-dallas](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mark-in-dallas/32/860_2.png) [@mark-in-dallas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mark-in-dallas)\
**Post date:** [June 25, 2008, 4:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/da-bella-da-ball-journal/7826/264 "2008-06-25T04:28:13Z")

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Want me to post a screen capture picture of the full message?

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**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\
**Post date:** [June 25, 2008, 4:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/da-bella-da-ball-journal/7826/265 "2008-06-25T04:28:39Z")

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I’m not sure…but maybe I could be _more_ confused…uh huh…I’m really a simple girl. I jus’ wanna send a couple of PM’s. I dun wanna have to figure it out too. 🙄

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**Author:** ![inkling](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/inkling/32/2326_2.png) [@inkling](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/inkling)\
**Post date:** [June 25, 2008, 4:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/da-bella-da-ball-journal/7826/267 "2008-06-25T04:33:59Z")

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> [@mark-in-dallas](#):
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> Want me to post a screen capture picture of the full message?

No, it is Kit’s pm. I believe what you’re saying but don’t understand the how. 😕

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**Author:** ![mark-in-dallas](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mark-in-dallas/32/860_2.png) [@mark-in-dallas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mark-in-dallas)\
**Post date:** [June 25, 2008, 4:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/da-bella-da-ball-journal/7826/268 "2008-06-25T04:46:08Z")

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> [@inkling](#):
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> No, it is Kit’s pm. I believe what you’re saying but don’t understand the how. 😕

OK, I feel like an idiot.

I did get that PM from Kitten, and for whatever reason (lack of sleep?), I confused it with your message. :o

I’m sorry for the confusion. 😕

That’s it, I’m going to sleep now. Goodnight folks. 🙂

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**Author:** ![inkling](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/inkling/32/2326_2.png) [@inkling](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/inkling)\
**Post date:** [June 25, 2008, 4:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/da-bella-da-ball-journal/7826/269 "2008-06-25T04:51:54Z")

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LOL! Well that eases a little of the frustration. Goodnight Mark

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**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\
**Post date:** [June 25, 2008, 5:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/da-bella-da-ball-journal/7826/270 "2008-06-25T05:09:03Z")

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Good night, John Boy. 😉

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**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\
**Post date:** [June 25, 2008, 8:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/da-bella-da-ball-journal/7826/271 "2008-06-25T08:22:56Z")

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> [@mark-in-dallas](#):
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> _ **That’s it, I’m going to sleep now. Goodnight folks.** _ 🙂

> [@inkling](#):
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> _ **Goodnight Mark** _

Goodnight John Boy. 😉

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**Author:** ![inkling](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/inkling/32/2326_2.png) [@inkling](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/inkling)\
**Post date:** [June 25, 2008, 9:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/da-bella-da-ball-journal/7826/272 "2008-06-25T09:55:20Z")

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> [@Bella](#):
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> Do you people ever sleep? LOL

> [@mark-in-dallas](#):
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> That’s it, I’m going to sleep now. Goodnight folks. 🙂

> [@inkling](#):
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> Goodnight Mark

> [@Bella](#):
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> Goodnight John Boy. 😉

Well I at least got a nap in, my latest prescribed decongestant antihistamine has me taking lots of naps. And you Bella? Hmmm? 😛

Aren’t you glad you taught me that trick? neener neener neener

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**Author:** ![mark-in-dallas](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mark-in-dallas/32/860_2.png) [@mark-in-dallas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mark-in-dallas)\
**Post date:** [June 25, 2008, 1:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/da-bella-da-ball-journal/7826/273 "2008-06-25T13:12:15Z")

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> [@inkling](#):
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> Well I at least got a nap in, my latest prescribed decongestant antihistamine has me taking lots of naps. And you Bella? Hmmm? 😛
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> Aren’t you glad you taught me that trick? neener neener neener

Well, I feel refreshed now. Amazing what 8 hours sleep can do, ain’t it?

Don’t feel bad Ink, I take a 1 to 2 hour nap before going out on my Red River nights. Funny, I still _feel_ like a 21 year old, but can’t seem to party like one anymore, without a nap first. 😉

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**Author:** ![bond007](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bond007/32/1076_2.png) [@bond007](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bond007)\
**Post date:** [June 26, 2008, 3:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/da-bella-da-ball-journal/7826/274 "2008-06-26T03:21:02Z")

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gunaxf fbbbbbb zhpu eraal, guvf jvyy cebir gb or irel urycshy :Q yby naq ab bar xabjf jng jr ner fnlvat. jub ryfr urer xabjf jng eraal naq v ner gnyxvat obhg?

lol de-code that 😉 thx again renny

bond

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**Author:** ![mark-in-dallas](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mark-in-dallas/32/860_2.png) [@mark-in-dallas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mark-in-dallas)\
**Post date:** [June 26, 2008, 3:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/da-bella-da-ball-journal/7826/275 "2008-06-26T03:42:09Z")

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So Bella, did you ever get those missing PM’s? Cause I hear ya did, all 246 of them! 😛

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**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\
**Post date:** [June 26, 2008, 5:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/da-bella-da-ball-journal/7826/276 "2008-06-26T05:58:16Z")

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> [@inkling](#):
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> Well I at least got a nap in, _ **my latest prescribed decongestant antihistamine has me taking lots of naps. And you Bella? Hmmm?** _ 😛

Huh? Wha? I’m either trying to stay conscious and alert or trying to sleep…I’m not sure what I do in between…🙄…I will say the naps while driving are the least refreshing. 😛

> [@inkling](#):
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> _ **Aren’t you glad you taught me that trick? neener neener neener** _

😃 🙂

> [@mark-in-dallas](#):
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> _ **So Bella, did you ever get those missing PM’s?** _ Cause I hear ya did, _ **all 246 of them!** _ 😛

I got 10…9 of 'em were from _you!_ J/K 😛 Cowboy, I know you got mine, probably the same one a few times. And ari responded to one I sent her. Not sure if she got the other…I’ve lost track. I know Kit got one. Now, I wonder if Ink and Tisha got theirs and a few copies…? Say, yes. 🙄

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**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\
**Post date:** [June 26, 2008, 7:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/da-bella-da-ball-journal/7826/277 "2008-06-26T07:54:51Z")

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Well, I just tried to sent you a PM, Ink, same thing…it wouldn’t preview…just said it had been sent…I copied myself and didn’t get it though it said it had been sent.

I give up. I’m done.

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**Author:** ![renny](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/renny/32/2104_2.png) [@renny](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/renny)\
**Post date:** [June 26, 2008, 5:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/da-bella-da-ball-journal/7826/278 "2008-06-26T17:43:45Z")

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> [@bond007](#):
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> thanks soooooo much renny, this will prove to be very helpful 😃 lol and no one knows wat we are saying. who else here knows wat renny and i are talking bout?
> 
> lol de-code that 😉 thx again renny
> 
> bond

LOL, you are welcome of course. It was quite popular for emails when we used DOS and BBSs on computers with kilobytes of ram 😮 .

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**Author:** ![Kitten](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kitten/32/1051_2.png) [@Kitten](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kitten)\
**Post date:** [June 26, 2008, 8:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/da-bella-da-ball-journal/7826/279 "2008-06-26T20:06:17Z")

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Obviously you need to learn more about secret codes from me. Mark couldn’t even fully decipher my message. 🙂

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**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\
**Post date:** [June 26, 2008, 9:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/da-bella-da-ball-journal/7826/280 "2008-06-26T21:11:43Z")

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People are disappearing or coming out of the woodwork, lately…the vibe has changed at Pherotalk…I’m not sure WTF is happening…but something is definitely up.

I’m not feelin’ so comfy cozy anymore.

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**Author:** ![renny](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/renny/32/2104_2.png) [@renny](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/renny)\
**Post date:** [June 26, 2008, 11:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/da-bella-da-ball-journal/7826/281 "2008-06-26T23:03:01Z")

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Aww Bella, change is constant. There are a lot of folks finding this place now. It doesn’t mean it won’t still be a nice place. I think it will be harder to keep up with though. I recently PMed a fellow who hasn’t posted in a long time hoping he would get it through his e-mail…he did and posted back that he was just doing other things now. I don’t like it when things change but they always do. We’ll just have to enjoy what we can and ignore the rest. 🙂

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**Author:** ![bond007](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bond007/32/1076_2.png) [@bond007](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bond007)\
**Post date:** [June 27, 2008, 3:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/da-bella-da-ball-journal/7826/282 "2008-06-27T03:58:10Z")

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> [@Bella](#):
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> People are disappearing or coming out of the woodwork, lately…the vibe has changed at Pherotalk…I’m not sure WTF is happening…but something is definitely up.
> 
> I’m not feelin’ so comfy cozy anymore.

sadly enough i noticed this too ☹

but renny is right, change happens and the only thing you can do to stay up is adapt. its a sad truth i learned as a kid, a loss of innocence as people face more than once in there life.

bond

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**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\
**Post date:** [June 27, 2008, 4:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/da-bella-da-ball-journal/7826/283 "2008-06-27T04:55:16Z")

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> [@renny](#):
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> _ **Aww Bella, change is constant** _. _ **I don’t like it when things change but they always do.** _ _ **We’ll just have to enjoy what we can and ignore the rest. 🙂** _

> [@bond007](#):
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> _ **sadly enough i noticed this too** _☹  
> _ **but renny is right, change happens and the only thing you can do to stay up is adapt.** _

I don’t mind change and I love new members. That’s not what I’m talkin’ 'bout. Change is inevitable…like it or not.

The vibe. The vibe is all important it’s what draws people in and what keeps 'em there/here. I pay attention. It’s one of my weak points. Sometimes I’d be better off to shut my eyes along with my mouth. Which is what I’m gonna do right now. 😉

I’ll be back with the requisite report in due time.

I love you guys, 🙂

Bella

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**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\
**Post date:** [June 27, 2008, 8:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/da-bella-da-ball-journal/7826/284 "2008-06-27T08:55:54Z")

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> [@renny](#):
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> _ **Aww Bella, change is constant. There are a lot of folks finding this place now. I don’t like it when things change but they always do. We’ll just have to enjoy what we can and ignore the rest.** _ 🙂

> [@bond007](#):
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> _ **sadly enough i noticed this too** _☹  
> _ **but renny is right, change happens and the only thing you can do to stay up is adapt.** _

I don’t mind change and I love new members. That’s not what I’m talkin’ 'bout. Change is inevitable…like it or not.

Aside from the effectiveness of the products. It’s the vibe. The vibe is all important it’s what draws people in and what keeps 'em here.

I enjoy expanding my horizons in all areas of my life. I have a myriad of ever growing interests. That’s what led me here. I care about this company, this board and the people who work so hard to to maintain it and provide us with the wonderful products we have come to know and love and the new ones we look forward to. And I care about the members…this learning experience…in more ways than one…this never ending discussion we all contribute to that makes this forum the unique place it is. But the buck doesn’t stop here.

I’ve been told by more than a few forum members that I’m not only intitled to my opinion…I’m also intitled to express it. I do not…nor have I ever…lived my life in fear and I ain’t gonna start now. If it brings the wrath of the powers that be…so be it.

I’m distressed and disappointed in the way some things, here, have been going of late. There have been unfair and harsh judgments made. And other issues that have been discounted and overlooked. Why one is more important than the other is a mystery to me and will, no doubt, remain so. Disagreements are one thing…how they are resolved is another.

And I’m beginning to feel dictated to. Not a position I have any intention of getting further acquainted with. I have chosen to participate in and give freely of myself on these boards. Maybe too freely. If I didn’t participate as much as I do, a lot of this would have gotten right by me. OTOH if I didn’t pay attention I wouldn’t care so much. Maybe that’s the better scenario. Sometimes I’d be better off to shut my eyes along with my mouth. Which is what I’m gonna do right now. 😉 That and try to continue to enjoy the time I spend here.

I’ll be back with the requisite report in due time.

I love you guys 🙂

Bella

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