# Date night with hubby..Newbie, need advice.

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**Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [June 28, 2012, 9:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/date-night-with-hubby-newbie-need-advice/55994 "2012-06-28T09:47:21Z")\
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**Author:** ![AnitaC](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/anitac/32/1889_2.png) [@AnitaC](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AnitaC)\
**Post date:** [June 28, 2012, 9:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/date-night-with-hubby-newbie-need-advice/55994/1 "2012-06-28T09:47:21Z")

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Hello everyone 🙂

So I got my order of IS/b, IH, TUTH and EOW. I’ve been doing my research and reading from all your great posts and topics and have started with just trying one at a time. I tried IH first here is what happened…

Just before my husband came home for lunch I used one spray split between my wrists and one in my hair. He gave me a hug and kiss and gave me a very sweet loving look before he pulled away…hit? Possibly. We had a nice conversation while he had lunch, he wasn’t amped up about things going on at work, just relaxed and talkative. Which is pretty unusual. He gave me another sweet hug and kiss and went back to work. When he came home from work that night I split one more spray between my wrists because it had been 6 hours and I couldnt really smell it anymore. Things went as usual we sat on the patio and BS’d for about an hour. I got to hot and went inside. Next thing I know he sending me provocative texts and within five minutes we were in the bedroom! Hit? ABSOLUTELY!! I couldn’t be more pleased. 🙂 I was really pretty shocked that IH had this effect on him.

Yesterday, same scenario with IS/B…only thing I got all day was “Hey beautiful” which is nice but not uncommon for him to say…Hmmmm.

So here’s where I need some advice from the pros! Saturday night we are going out on a date for his birthday. Again I have IH, IS/b, EOW, and TUTH. I have not used EOW or TUTH yet…Im terrified of both of them! My normal perfume is D&G Light Blue. Does anyone have experience covering with this sent?..I dont want to turn him off all night. I would love some suggestions for a combo that will just give a hint of sexual tension but not I-gotta-have-you-right-now-crazy-monkey-sex. 😛 Thanks so much for reading and sharing your thoughts!

Anita

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**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\
**Post date:** [June 28, 2012, 10:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/date-night-with-hubby-newbie-need-advice/55994/2 "2012-06-28T10:54:46Z")

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IS/b and IH would be sexy tension, IMO. I think you’ve been using those independently with good effect.

Adding some, even a little, EoW to that combo will spike the sexy, for sure. HOWEVER, if you haven’t used it before, I’d be wary of ‘experimenting’ on such an important day for you two. I’d suggest you try EoW out when you don’t have so much riding on its success or failure.

Is TUTH something you are going to give to HIM for him to wear?

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**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\
**Post date:** [June 28, 2012, 9:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/date-night-with-hubby-newbie-need-advice/55994/3 "2012-06-28T21:10:17Z")

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Your doing great with the IS/B and IH. 😃

Dont under estimate what we call socials. They do create attraction and sometimes sexual tension.

IH for instance gives a feeling of closeness and connection. Someone who is on your side, who understands you and will listen to you. It creates a feeling of intimacy. I notice it creates a feeling of newness in long term relationships as well. Even though the signal with IH is not one of desire or arousal all those feelings can help evoke desire.

Start slow with the TUTH and EOW. Maybe one drop of eow split to wrists. Wait 10 minutes then cover. Dont be scared. Using the wrists is not the best spot IMO but it is better when first testing because if its not working to your advantage you can easily run to the ladies room and remove it.

If he gets frisky later after the date, maybe just a dab of tuth to intensify the encounter. It will arouse you and make him more sexually aggressive. **Do Not** over do it with TUTH. Women just need a tiny bit. Its easy to cover.

Tisha

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**Author:** ![AnitaC](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/anitac/32/1889_2.png) [@AnitaC](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AnitaC)\
**Post date:** [June 29, 2012, 8:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/date-night-with-hubby-newbie-need-advice/55994/4 "2012-06-29T08:12:00Z")

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Alpha and Tisha,

Thank you for the responses. I will definitely take it slow with the EOW and TUTH. I do have a couple of rookie questions that I cant seem to find answers to. Im hoping you guys can answer for me!

1. Can IS/b and IH be used as a cover for EOW? I’m not sure if I should be layering socials over cops?! I’m not sure my regular scent will cover well.

2. I ordered 3 of the to go bottles for some experimenting. If I wanted to mix some of my regular perfume with a couple drops of EOW.. (I feel silly asking this) How do you get the perfume into your bottle with out ruining the atomizer of the perfume bottle? Do you just spray the perfume into the togo bottle till its full? _hangs head in shame_ :o lol…I cant figure this out?! Chemistry was not my best subject!

Thank you!!  
Anita

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**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\
**Post date:** [June 29, 2012, 9:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/date-night-with-hubby-newbie-need-advice/55994/5 "2012-06-29T09:24:33Z")

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In my use of EoW, the light scent package of IS/b or IH will not adequately cover EoW. The ‘funny cheese’ smell still comes through, at least IME.

Can you open up the bottle of perfume? The Togo bottle can be twisted open. If you’re willing to, you can open up an empty Togo and add couple of drops of EoW to the 5ml of perfume, let it sit for a couple of days, store it in a cool, dark place, then, give it a good shake and try it out.

Tisha is the best at this, so, I’m sure she’ll do your questions justice! 🙂

1Alpha

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**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\
**Post date:** [June 29, 2012, 12:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/date-night-with-hubby-newbie-need-advice/55994/6 "2012-06-29T12:45:31Z")

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> Can IS/b and IH be used as a cover for EOW? I’m not sure if I should be layering socials over cops?! I’m not sure my regular scent will cover well.

Well yes and no LOL Sorry… 😛

You know how perfume can smell a bit different on each person due to there natural chemistry. Well for some people they can cover with the mones and not smell it and for others they still smell it and it makes them self conscious.

So my advice is do the drop of EOW… wait 10 to 15 minutes for dry down… this is crucial. Then cover. Then go take a wiff of coffee and see how you feel about the scent then.

Coffee clears the scent palate and sort of re boots it.

For me I can wear EOW straight with no cover at all and thats 5 to 6 drops. I smell it but no one else seems to and in fact I get compliments on how I smell. Unbelievable I know and when it occurs it always makes me chuckle.

The most important thing is you don’t want to feel self conscious because that will come across in your body language so if the mones don’t cover it completely you should use your perfume till you feel more comfortable wearing it.

It really doesn’t smell as bad once it drys down.

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> 1. I ordered 3 of the to go bottles for some experimenting. If I wanted to mix some of my regular perfume with a couple drops of EOW.. (I feel silly asking this) How do you get the perfume into your bottle with out ruining the atomizer of the perfume bottle? Do you just spray the perfume into the togo bottle till its full? _hangs head in shame_ :o lol…I cant figure this out?! Chemistry was not my best subject!

I am assuming your talking about empty to-go bottles right ?

Did you get any pipettes ? If not you can get them at most pharmacy’s just ask the pharmacist.

If you dont want to use a pipette or the perfume bottle wont open (some dont) then next best thing is to open the to-go bottle, line the spray nozzle up with the top and spray into it. I do suggest covering your nose and mouth when you do this though because you will get some misting. EOW comes with a dropper so your good there.

Tisha

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**Author:** ![AnitaC](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/anitac/32/1889_2.png) [@AnitaC](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AnitaC)\
**Post date:** [June 29, 2012, 1:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/date-night-with-hubby-newbie-need-advice/55994/7 "2012-06-29T13:20:39Z")

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You guys are awesome! 🆒

Yes, I have 3 of the empty togo bottles. My D&G Light Blue is sealed in a way that I would have to pry it off with pliers! I didnt want to ruin the bottle..lol. But, After I read your reply I ran up upstairs and like you suggested just sprayed it into the togo bottle. It actually worked really well, I guess I thought I would be there a month of Sundays trying to get it full. It went really quick. I added 3 drops of Eow and gave it a good shake. However, I am going to try the dry down method as you suggested first. Its funny because I dont find EOW all that offensive. It smells like a really strong fruit cocktail to me.._shrug_. Funny how we all perceive things differently even with our sense of smell. Thanks a million for all your suggestions and tips! Ill let you know how things go after my hot date with my hubby tomorrow night! 😃 (We dont get out often, can you tell?) LOL

Anita
