# Dating advice after a long break: start online or talk to people in person? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [May 18, 2009, 1:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dating-advice-after-a-long-break-start-online-or-talk-to-people-in-person/29059 "2009-05-18T01:22:03Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Jernizzle456](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/8dc957/32.png) [@Jernizzle456](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jernizzle456)\ **Post date:** [May 18, 2009, 1:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dating-advice-after-a-long-break-start-online-or-talk-to-people-in-person/29059/1 "2009-05-18T01:22:03Z")
Hello,I haven’t dated in a while. Any advice along with the [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/). Thanks, Jeremy Belcastro ---
**Author:** ![meow333x](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ecae2f/32.png) [@meow333x](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/meow333x)\ **Post date:** [May 18, 2009, 1:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dating-advice-after-a-long-break-start-online-or-talk-to-people-in-person/29059/2 "2009-05-18T01:46:56Z")
> [@Jernizzle456](#): > > Hello,I haven’t dated in a while. Any advice along with the pheromones. > Thanks, > Jeremy Belcastro start out with internet dating. the quality of women sucks but it’ll give you experience ---
**Author:** ![Legs\_on\_Approach](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/legs_on_approach/32/2134_2.png) [@Legs\_on\_Approach](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Legs_on_Approach)\ **Post date:** [May 18, 2009, 10:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dating-advice-after-a-long-break-start-online-or-talk-to-people-in-person/29059/3 "2009-05-18T22:51:39Z")
well to be honest…I would strike random conversation with anyone I would find appealing…really! Once you get oiled up (this sounded so wrong lol=) you can go up a notch. Internet dating in my opinion sucks cos you get to much time to think about the next answer and that way you wont evolve at all! Pheromones: TUTH and IFM and IO ---
**Author:** ![meow333x](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ecae2f/32.png) [@meow333x](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/meow333x)\ **Post date:** [May 18, 2009, 11:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dating-advice-after-a-long-break-start-online-or-talk-to-people-in-person/29059/4 "2009-05-18T23:02:37Z")
> [@Legs\_on\_Approach](#): > > well to be honest…I would strike random conversation with anyone I would find appealing…really! Once you get oiled up (this sounded so wrong lol=) you can go up a notch. Internet dating in my opinion sucks cos you get to much time to think about the next answer and that way you wont evolve at all! > > Pheromones: TUTH and IFM and IO you only use the internet to set up the date then everything happens in the real world ---
**Author:** ![diamond](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/diamond/32/859_2.png) [@diamond](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/diamond)\ **Post date:** [May 18, 2009, 11:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dating-advice-after-a-long-break-start-online-or-talk-to-people-in-person/29059/5 "2009-05-18T23:03:22Z")
OK, first time round, I met a girl in real time when I was in the Army, so was she, we lasted around 8 years. second time round, I internet dated and met a girl, had a child with her and ultimately, we lasted around 6 years. The point is this, virtual or realtime, it doesn’t matter how your relationship starts, it’s the continuation that is important. When I was single, I dated a couple of girls that I met through websites and thought were complete whacko psycho bunny boilers. Equally, the girl I settled down with and ultimately married wasn’t the right one for me, nor I for her. Was I wrong to dismiss the first girls or to make that decision purely on first impressions, the answer is that I will never know, it’s a journey and it’s the discoveries along the way that make you who you are. As for advice about pheromones, stick to the socials for the first couple of dates. Decide on what you would like to achieve, then use the correct pheromones to help you achieve that aim, the rest, my friend, is up to you. ---
**Author:** ![Legs\_on\_Approach](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/legs_on_approach/32/2134_2.png) [@Legs\_on\_Approach](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Legs_on_Approach)\ **Post date:** [May 18, 2009, 11:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dating-advice-after-a-long-break-start-online-or-talk-to-people-in-person/29059/6 "2009-05-18T23:08:04Z")
Interesting life story mate but here in Portugal internet dating equals basket case specimens or maybe I have been unlucky…When I lived in London I found it much more appealing specially with eastern ladies still my experience tells me that real world start ups are the way to go. ---
**Author:** ![diamond](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/diamond/32/859_2.png) [@diamond](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/diamond)\ **Post date:** [May 18, 2009, 11:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dating-advice-after-a-long-break-start-online-or-talk-to-people-in-person/29059/7 "2009-05-18T23:21:06Z")
> [@Legs\_on\_Approach](#): > > Interesting life story mate but here in Portugal internet dating equals basket case specimens or maybe I have been unlucky…When I lived in London I found it much more appealing specially with eastern ladies still my experience tells me that real world start ups are the way to go. Real world or Internet start ups don’t matter a shit, what matters is what you both put into the relationship after the initial date. Yes there are basket cases on the internet but there are plenty of bunny boilers to be found in London clubs. ---
**Author:** ![Legs\_on\_Approach](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/legs_on_approach/32/2134_2.png) [@Legs\_on\_Approach](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Legs_on_Approach)\ **Post date:** [May 18, 2009, 11:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dating-advice-after-a-long-break-start-online-or-talk-to-people-in-person/29059/8 "2009-05-18T23:22:07Z")
ehehe fair enough mate ---
**Author:** ![diamond](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/diamond/32/859_2.png) [@diamond](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/diamond)\ **Post date:** [May 18, 2009, 11:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dating-advice-after-a-long-break-start-online-or-talk-to-people-in-person/29059/9 "2009-05-18T23:27:32Z")
😉 Plus I’ll let you into a secret, women’s brains don’t work in the same way as mens yet they think they are the logical ones ☹ When you can get hold of IFM, grab as much as you can, it’s a lifesaver 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Legs\_on\_Approach](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/legs_on_approach/32/2134_2.png) [@Legs\_on\_Approach](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Legs_on_Approach)\ **Post date:** [May 18, 2009, 11:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dating-advice-after-a-long-break-start-online-or-talk-to-people-in-person/29059/10 "2009-05-18T23:34:08Z")
lol you know…when I ordered IS and IO…IFM was out of stock and I was bit upset cos I really wanted to try it out! The one I enjoy the most is A314 combined with TUTH but doesnt really work on my long term relationshipo (5years+). I need to use more of IS and IO to have a proper opinion but Im hearing a lot of people sharing the same opinion about IFM. How did that one work for you in practical terms? ---
**Author:** ![Jernizzle456](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/8dc957/32.png) [@Jernizzle456](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jernizzle456)\ **Post date:** [May 18, 2009, 11:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dating-advice-after-a-long-break-start-online-or-talk-to-people-in-person/29059/11 "2009-05-18T23:38:43Z")
Hello,thanks for the advice on the dating and the pheromones. By the way what is your name and where are you from. My name is Jeremy Belcastro. I am from a town called Hickory PA,which is about 30-45 minutes south of the city of pittsburgh pa. I always like to know about the people I am talking to on these message boards. Thankyou, Jeremy Belcastro ---
**Author:** ![diamond](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/diamond/32/859_2.png) [@diamond](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/diamond)\ **Post date:** [May 18, 2009, 11:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dating-advice-after-a-long-break-start-online-or-talk-to-people-in-person/29059/12 "2009-05-18T23:41:32Z")
> [@Legs\_on\_Approach](#): > > lol you know…when I ordered IS and IO…IFM was out of stock and I was bit upset cos I really wanted to try it out! The one I enjoy the most is A314 combined with TUTH but doesnt really work on my long term relationshipo (5years+). I need to use more of IS and IO to have a proper opinion but Im hearing a lot of people sharing the same opinion about IFM. How did that one work for you in practical terms? If you do a search for Barcelona it will show you what it did to my normally psycho wife when anothe woman grabbed my arse, that good enough for you? If you’re interested, you can look for ‘the naughty place’ and grab some straight androstedienone ( the major ingredient in IFM) just be careful, it can cause a bit of a downer for some guys, make sure you buffer it with I shine. If you want to see how socials can help an LTR, have a read of my journal, although the wife and I were unsuccessful ultimately, we are still best friends with no bitterness or issues. Success comes in many forms! ---
**Author:** ![Lowtek](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lowtek/32/1788_2.png) [@Lowtek](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lowtek)\ **Post date:** [May 18, 2009, 11:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dating-advice-after-a-long-break-start-online-or-talk-to-people-in-person/29059/13 "2009-05-18T23:42:18Z")
be yourself don’t lie about anything be polite be clean and well dressed command respect be in the best shape possible wear nice clothes and SHOES smell good don’t gulp your food down like a dog don’t get too drunk I recently stumbled into a nice situation here at work with a younger lady (doctor) from S. America . . . from nothing more than a few meetings together, me helping her out a bit at work - then a little chemical assistance from Uncle Phero. We completely understand each others situation both professionally and emotionally - expectations and limits were well thought out up front. She’s a very smart cookie, not to mention the fact that I don’t like shitting on people, especially decent human beings who truly deserve the best. Relationships take time, time requires effort, effort requires thought, thought requires substance and the belief that you are doing the right thing with the right person. Good people tend to attract good people in the end - - - stay the course. ~j ---
**Author:** ![diamond](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/diamond/32/859_2.png) [@diamond](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/diamond)\ **Post date:** [May 18, 2009, 11:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dating-advice-after-a-long-break-start-online-or-talk-to-people-in-person/29059/14 "2009-05-18T23:47:38Z")
> [@Jernizzle456](#): > > Hello,thanks for the advice on the dating and the pheromones. By the way what is your name and where are you from. My name is Jeremy Belcastro. I am from a town called Hickory PA,which is about 30-45 minutes south of the city of pittsburgh pa. I always like to know about the people I am talking to on these message boards. > Thankyou, > Jeremy Belcastro Hey Jeremy, most people on here value their anonymity. There are a few who I would trust with my life who know my real name but they are literally a handful in the thousands. You have to realise that there are all sorts on here from mediocre lawyers in the UK to Hollywood actors (apparently). Hey let’s start a conspiracy theory, half the Republican party are on this forum and Steve is really the president of the US 😃 God, I’m evil when I’ve been drinking 😮 ---
**Author:** ![Jernizzle456](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/8dc957/32.png) [@Jernizzle456](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jernizzle456)\ **Post date:** [May 18, 2009, 11:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dating-advice-after-a-long-break-start-online-or-talk-to-people-in-person/29059/15 "2009-05-18T23:51:02Z")
Where do you get straight androstinone that you where talking about. Should I be careful with this [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/)? Please message me back. Thankyou ---
**Author:** ![Mtnjim](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mtnjim/32/2010_2.png) [@Mtnjim](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mtnjim)\ **Post date:** [May 18, 2009, 11:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dating-advice-after-a-long-break-start-online-or-talk-to-people-in-person/29059/16 "2009-05-18T23:51:52Z")
> [@diamond](#): > > Hey let’s start a conspiracy theory, half the Republican party are on this forum … Now where did I put that phone number for the suicide help line??🙄 ---
**Author:** ![Lowtek](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lowtek/32/1788_2.png) [@Lowtek](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lowtek)\ **Post date:** [May 18, 2009, 11:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dating-advice-after-a-long-break-start-online-or-talk-to-people-in-person/29059/17 "2009-05-18T23:52:28Z")
All hail the chief. ---
**Author:** ![Legs\_on\_Approach](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/legs_on_approach/32/2134_2.png) [@Legs\_on\_Approach](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Legs_on_Approach)\ **Post date:** [May 18, 2009, 11:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dating-advice-after-a-long-break-start-online-or-talk-to-people-in-person/29059/18 "2009-05-18T23:58:14Z")
lol ok…cheers! ---
**Author:** ![Legs\_on\_Approach](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/legs_on_approach/32/2134_2.png) [@Legs\_on\_Approach](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Legs_on_Approach)\ **Post date:** [May 19, 2009, 2:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dating-advice-after-a-long-break-start-online-or-talk-to-people-in-person/29059/19 "2009-05-19T14:27:26Z")
By the way…can you gimme some feedback on one of my threads? > [@A314 vs Panel on a Interview](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a314-vs-panel-on-a-interview/29082): > > It was around 20ºC, sunny, nice weather. I got up, showered and used hugo boss to the chest and one drop of A314 on each wrist (im 26yo so i think its enough). Got out because I had an interview to attend. I arrived to the place and was welcomed by two ladies. One was early 30s and the other late 40s. All is good…they were nice! Entered the room for the interview and the panel was composed by 3 women and one man. All middle-aged and dressed corporate smart. I was the focus of attention because I… Nobody seemed to bother so…since you are also a A314 user you might shed some light on this one! 😉 ---
**Author:** ![mikeb4](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikeb4/32/1254_2.png) [@mikeb4](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikeb4)\ **Post date:** [May 21, 2009, 2:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dating-advice-after-a-long-break-start-online-or-talk-to-people-in-person/29059/20 "2009-05-21T02:10:54Z")
hmm this is a good topic.. I’m 24 going on 25 and never been on any dates or dated. Of course I have shaved my face in I duuno how long (my facial hair grows slow) not having any hits with or without pheromones did not help as well. [Next page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dating-advice-after-a-long-break-start-online-or-talk-to-people-in-person/29059.md?page=2)