# Dating advice after a long break: start online or talk to people in person? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [May 18, 2009, 1:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dating-advice-after-a-long-break-start-online-or-talk-to-people-in-person/29059 "2009-05-18T01:22:03Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![Jernizzle456](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/8dc957/32.png) [@Jernizzle456](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jernizzle456)\ **Post date:** [May 21, 2009, 2:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dating-advice-after-a-long-break-start-online-or-talk-to-people-in-person/29059/21 "2009-05-21T02:53:35Z")
Hello,if you are going to post a reply to my question please answer my question. You did none of this. What was your reason for replying to my question at all. Thankyou, Jeremy Belcastro ---
**Author:** ![diamond](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/diamond/32/859_2.png) [@diamond](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/diamond)\ **Post date:** [May 21, 2009, 3:03am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dating-advice-after-a-long-break-start-online-or-talk-to-people-in-person/29059/22 "2009-05-21T03:03:19Z")
> [@Jernizzle456](#): > > Hello,if you are going to post a reply to my question please answer my question. You did none of this. What was your reason for replying to my question at all. > Thankyou, > Jeremy Belcastro Several people have replied to your introduction thread and given you some advice on products to get you started. Several people have replied on this thread and discussed real world versus internet dating. I have personally explained to you why most people on here value their anonymity despite your apparent wish to know everyones name and location. I have also had a series of Private messages from you ( each of which I have answered) regarding androstedienone. Now, which question do you feel hasn’t been answered? ---
**Author:** ![Jernizzle456](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/8dc957/32.png) [@Jernizzle456](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jernizzle456)\ **Post date:** [May 21, 2009, 3:07am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dating-advice-after-a-long-break-start-online-or-talk-to-people-in-person/29059/23 "2009-05-21T03:07:58Z")
Nothing. I am sorry if I wen’t overboard at all in any way. I appreciate the advice. Thankyou, Jeremy 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![OoohYahhh](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ooohyahhh/32/1274_2.png) [@OoohYahhh](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/OoohYahhh)\ **Post date:** [May 21, 2009, 3:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dating-advice-after-a-long-break-start-online-or-talk-to-people-in-person/29059/24 "2009-05-21T03:22:33Z")
> [@meow333x](#): > > start out with internet dating. the quality of women sucks but it’ll give you experience > [@Legs\_on\_Approach](#): > > well to be honest…I would strike random conversation with anyone I would find appealing…really! Once you get oiled up (this sounded so wrong lol=) you can go up a notch. Internet dating in my opinion sucks cos you get to much time to think about the next answer and that way you wont evolve at all! > > Pheromones: TUTH and IFM and IO > [@meow333x](#): > > you only use the internet to set up the date then everything happens in the real world > [@diamond](#): > > OK, first time round, I met a girl in real time when I was in the Army, so was she, we lasted around 8 years. second time round, I internet dated and met a girl, had a child with her and ultimately, we lasted around 6 years. > > The point is this, virtual or realtime, it doesn’t matter how your relationship starts, it’s the continuation that is important. When I was single, I dated a couple of girls that I met through websites and thought were complete whacko psycho bunny boilers. Equally, the girl I settled down with and ultimately married wasn’t the right one for me, nor I for her. Was I wrong to dismiss the first girls or to make that decision purely on first impressions, the answer is that I will never know, it’s a journey and it’s the discoveries along the way that make you who you are. > > As for advice about pheromones, stick to the socials for the first couple of dates. > > Decide on what you would like to achieve, then use the correct pheromones to help you achieve that aim, the rest, my friend, is up to you. > [@Legs\_on\_Approach](#): > > Interesting life story mate but here in Portugal internet dating equals basket case specimens or maybe I have been unlucky…When I lived in London I found it much more appealing specially with eastern ladies still my experience tells me that real world start ups are the way to go. > [@diamond](#): > > Real world or Internet start ups don’t matter a shit, what matters is what you both put into the relationship after the initial date. Yes there are basket cases on the internet but there are plenty of bunny boilers to be found in London clubs. > [@Lowtek](#): > > be yourself > don’t lie about anything > be polite > be clean and well dressed > command respect > be in the best shape possible > wear nice clothes and SHOES > smell good > don’t gulp your food down like a dog > don’t get too drunk > > I recently stumbled into a nice situation here at work with a younger lady (doctor) from S. America . . . from nothing more than a few meetings together, me helping her out a bit at work - then a little chemical assistance from Uncle Phero. We completely understand each others situation both professionally and emotionally - expectations and limits were well thought out up front. She’s a very smart cookie, not to mention the fact that I don’t like shitting on people, especially decent human beings who truly deserve the best. > > Relationships take time, time requires effort, effort requires thought, thought requires substance and the belief that you are doing the right thing with the right person. > > Good people tend to attract good people in the end - - - stay the course. > > ~j > [@Jernizzle456](#): > > Hello,if you are going to post a reply to my question please answer my question. You did none of this. What was your reason for replying to my question at all. > Thankyou, > Jeremy Belcastro I don’t know about that. It sure looks like dating advice to me. Aaand, there is there are volumes of dating, pickup, and relationship advice all over this forum. Read through these: > [@How have YOU used mones to create a more attractive lifestyle ('to be a better man')?](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-have-you-used-mones-to-create-a-more-attractive-lifestyle-to-be-a-better-man/27339): > > YouTube - Robbie Williams Obviously there are direct advantages to using mones in the pickup situation. However the reality is that mones on their own can only do so much and mainly ‘enhance’ what is already there between you and a girl. So how have YOU used the mones to create a more attractive lifestyle (‘to be a better man’)? A more attractive lifestyle may be way harder to obtain than slapping on some mones and going to a nightclub but the rewards in terms of quality (and quantity if that… > [@Best Books for improving 'Game'](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/best-books-for-improving-game/26973): > > Hey everyone, this is my first post on the main forum. Ive now got a whole 3 weeks of experience under my belt in the pheromone game with my purchases of A314, [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/), Ammo and Turn up the heat. I absolutely love A314. It does everything stated and a whole lot more. I could go on about how great the products are working buy my main question is about what material i should be reading to improve my game. Im definately no AFC, but at the same time im no great PUA either. I see refernces to c… > [@Has anyone tested The Alpha Impact, now advertised by PUA guru Ross Jeffries?](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/thealphaimpact/27156): > > Finally I came back to get updated on Pheros, I’ve been learning ALL about PUA, since I first saw the IOI thread here, got carried away stuck_out_tongue A PUA guru, Ross Jeffries(Godfather of PUA community), now are advertising for The Alpha Impact if HIM of all sceptic ppl bought their product, it should be useable… Has any1 tested it? > [@How have YOU made sure that you were in the 'zone' mentally so as to exploit hits?](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-have-you-made-sure-that-you-were-in-the-zone-mentally-so-as-to-exploit-hits/27706): > > a.k.a. (February 9, 2006): “I’d say it’s mostly uncharted territory. Over time, it’s hard to draw the line between changes that are based on [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) and changes based on improved confidence. I leave that for scientists to figure out, and focus on the whole self-enhancement package. From my experience, pheromones tend to make a strong impression and a lot of what happens the day after depends on how you took advantage of the increased attention while the pheromones were working their magic. … > [@Maximize your potential! Phero's don't always cut the mustard!](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/maximize-your-potential-pheros-dont-always-cut-the-mustard/18978): > > hey guys, I’ve been inspired by a quote. One that we see quite a bit around here. “It’s 90% you and 10% phero’s” Other than the fact that you will inevitably die one day - nothing is more certain! [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) don’t get you the girl if you look like a slob. They don’t get you the girl if you act like an ass… you don’t become the cool guy or the alpha male just by wearing A314 everyday… what you achieve in life is 100% up to you and how bad you want it. When i hit middle school i was the kid w… Actually the last one might be the best place to start. > [@diamond](#): > > 😉 Plus I’ll let you into a secret, women’s brains don’t work in the same way as mens yet they think they are the logical ones ☹ When you can get hold of IFM, grab as much as you can, it’s a lifesaver 😃 _ **Here’s your chance!** _ Our big buddy Steve has 30ml bottle of original [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/) up for auction at `atomscent.com` Instant Female Magic It’s a rare opportunity that will probably never come again. And a worthy cause. Go for it! ---
**Author:** ![Jernizzle456](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/8dc957/32.png) [@Jernizzle456](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jernizzle456)\ **Post date:** [May 21, 2009, 3:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dating-advice-after-a-long-break-start-online-or-talk-to-people-in-person/29059/25 "2009-05-21T03:30:00Z")
I appreciate all the advice everybody gave me on this forum. I will take the advice and go from there. Thankyou, Jeremy Belcastro ---
**Author:** ![reddog](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/reddog/32/2091_2.png) [@reddog](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/reddog)\ **Post date:** [May 21, 2009, 3:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dating-advice-after-a-long-break-start-online-or-talk-to-people-in-person/29059/26 "2009-05-21T03:32:53Z")
> [@Lowtek](#): > > be yourself > don’t lie about anything > be polite > be clean and well dressed > command respect > be in the best shape possible > wear nice clothes and SHOES > smell good > don’t gulp your food down like a dog > don’t get too drunk > > I recently stumbled into a nice situation here at work with a younger lady (doctor) from S. America . . . from nothing more than a few meetings together, me helping her out a bit at work - then a little chemical assistance from Uncle Phero. We completely understand each others situation both professionally and emotionally - expectations and limits were well thought out up front. She’s a very smart cookie, not to mention the fact that I don’t like shitting on people, especially decent human beings who truly deserve the best. > > Relationships take time, time requires effort, effort requires thought, thought requires substance and the belief that you are doing the right thing with the right person. > > Good people tend to attract good people in the end - - - stay the course. > > ~j Dead on … Lowtech! Great advice. [Previous page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dating-advice-after-a-long-break-start-online-or-talk-to-people-in-person/29059.md?page=1)