# Dating/Relationships **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [July 5, 2010, 11:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dating-relationships/39827 "2010-07-05T11:33:16Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 12\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Stud\_Muffin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a87d85/32.png) [@Stud\_Muffin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Stud_Muffin)\ **Post date:** [July 5, 2010, 11:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dating-relationships/39827/1 "2010-07-05T11:33:16Z")
For attraction lets say you use ammo while spending time with this girl that you see as a potential LTR. Do you spray on a mix that has everything in it for the needs of this situation with this Potential LTR. Or do you start with Ammo, then after some time passes, after a few days time spent together, switch onto IG + IH..etc. How do you guys go about it? For my situation, I have been using Ammo only, and yes the attraction is there of course, I would even say deep bonding/connection/comfort is there. Now, I would like to progress into a more serious LTR. I know the attraction is there, with or without [Pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/), but there is a part of me (my mind) that wants to build even more deep bonding connection with this girl, whilst still having the attraction highlighted. In other words, I feel that if I stop using Ammo and then move onto IG + IH for example, it’s like stopping the attraction and moving onto comfort only. Lol, this is just in my head I know. I just like to have all boxes checked, for my own minds sake. I know, that I can have the attraction and comfort/deep bonding soul mate connection without pheromones. I just feel that the pheromones I use HIGHLIGHT certain things, setting a more dominate vibe then others. So if I’m just using Ammo, then Attraction is highlighted, whilst Comfort is not. Then when I switch to IG + IH the aspects of that are highlighted, but the attraction is not. Can someone help ease my thoughts on all this, I have a feeling I might have built up and misunderstood things. Thank You. ---
**Author:** ![RADMAN513](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/radman513/32/364_2.png) [@RADMAN513](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RADMAN513)\ **Post date:** [July 5, 2010, 1:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dating-relationships/39827/2 "2010-07-05T13:24:49Z")
If you’re building up over a period of time, like say a coworker or classmate you’re seeing regularly I’d change the signal gradually. I’d start with IO, [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) and A314 in the early stages…Shine couldn’t hurt either. After a while switch from Ammo to TuTH, but go lower, maybe a single spray, and from IO to IH. Your none signal gradually becomes more sexual and your nol signal becomes deeper and more serious. You may even consider starting with 297 and then switching to A314 so your value and status perception becomes more dominant over time. This is a slow burn progression that should start very attractive and become more intimate and serious over time. ---
**Author:** ![Cohengunn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f04885/32.png) [@Cohengunn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Cohengunn)\ **Post date:** [July 5, 2010, 2:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dating-relationships/39827/3 "2010-07-05T14:33:28Z")
That is yet another pearl of wisdom from my now mentor radman I’m ina similar situation to stud and that’s what I plan today ---
**Author:** ![Stud\_Muffin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a87d85/32.png) [@Stud\_Muffin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Stud_Muffin)\ **Post date:** [July 5, 2010, 3:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dating-relationships/39827/4 "2010-07-05T15:27:36Z")
Thanks Radman. To be more specific with my situation… I met a girl abroad, she is 23 (I’m 22) and I spend two weeks with her, and I only used 2 sprays of Ammo around her. I am going to go see her soon, I am renting a place and she is going to be stay with me for a few weeks. So… I wont have seen her for 6 weeks or so. So, in this situation how do you think I should play it? She is deffo a potential LTR. I was thinking of just using Ammo and IH, that way I have the attraction, also bonding/comfort/connection from the IH. It would not be much of a change in my signature since I was just using Ammo around her. I want to use the things that can best benefit my situation. But then I hear A314 and IG are best for going into the relationship side. I had a phase where I would see my ex girlfriend as friends, which she has a fiance and all that stuff now. I used A314 + IH, A314 + Ammo and experimenting with different dosages. When I had A314, even when I buffered it loads with CTTM2 or IH, I would get no obvious ‘hits’. Then I used just Ammo 2 sprays only when I met her, and this made her go IOI crazy, it seemed using just Ammo pushed the red NOS button on her dash board, I could of done her right there and then, if I wanted too. This is what I don’t understand, and am not too fond of A314. I know IG is like A314, but softer and more social. That’s why I am making sure I choose the right stuff, for this situation. ---
**Author:** ![P51Mustang](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/p51mustang/32/1266_2.png) [@P51Mustang](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/P51Mustang)\ **Post date:** [July 6, 2010, 3:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dating-relationships/39827/5 "2010-07-06T03:47:16Z")
DO you have MX297 in stock and [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/)? ---
**Author:** ![RADMAN513](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/radman513/32/364_2.png) [@RADMAN513](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RADMAN513)\ **Post date:** [July 6, 2010, 4:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dating-relationships/39827/6 "2010-07-06T04:50:27Z")
Hard to say, A314 may have given you too much of a Dad vibe with the ex, the new girl may love it. This is why I think lighter versions to start like IG or 297 would be a good idea. Status without being too intimidating. Then as she gets comfortable with a little rone you switch to A314 which is a stronger dom vibe that she’s already warmed up for. ---
**Author:** ![Stud\_Muffin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a87d85/32.png) [@Stud\_Muffin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Stud_Muffin)\ **Post date:** [July 7, 2010, 8:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dating-relationships/39827/7 "2010-07-07T08:35:33Z")
Thanks Radman. I think when I get round to it, I will get some IG + IH and maybe some [P83](https://pheromonelabs.com/product/p83/). ---
**Author:** ![Stud\_Muffin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a87d85/32.png) [@Stud\_Muffin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Stud_Muffin)\ **Post date:** [July 7, 2010, 12:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dating-relationships/39827/8 "2010-07-07T12:26:26Z")
Or… [MX297](https://a314.com/product/mx297/) + Ammo + IH. Hmmmm… ---
**Author:** ![RADMAN513](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/radman513/32/364_2.png) [@RADMAN513](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RADMAN513)\ **Post date:** [July 7, 2010, 12:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dating-relationships/39827/9 "2010-07-07T12:32:46Z")
297 is something special I gotta say ---
**Author:** ![Stud\_Muffin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a87d85/32.png) [@Stud\_Muffin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Stud_Muffin)\ **Post date:** [July 7, 2010, 7:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dating-relationships/39827/10 "2010-07-07T19:43:59Z")
Okay, I just ordered [MX297](https://a314.com/product/mx297/) and P83. I should be able to try these out before I fly off to see my newly beloved birdy. My babies are now; Ammo, CTTM2, IFM, A314 and MX297 + P83 😃 ---
**Author:** ![P51Mustang](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/p51mustang/32/1266_2.png) [@P51Mustang](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/P51Mustang)\ **Post date:** [July 7, 2010, 8:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dating-relationships/39827/11 "2010-07-07T20:15:30Z")
[MX297](https://pheromonelabs.com/product/mx297/) 2x, IH 4x, P83 (10-30 mcg) try that ---
**Author:** ![Stud\_Muffin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a87d85/32.png) [@Stud\_Muffin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Stud_Muffin)\ **Post date:** [July 17, 2010, 10:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dating-relationships/39827/12 "2010-07-17T10:33:45Z")
Hey guys I am catching a plane tonight, my [MX297](https://a314.com/product/mx297/) +P83 didn’t come in time. So, looks like I will be just using my Ammo. I might go with just 1 drop of A314 and 2 sprays of Ammo… I also my test out my IFM that I have never hardly used…