# Day 23 of My Exclusive Report:) So feel welcome to read it out!

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/day-23-of-my-exclusive-report-so-feel-welcome-to-read-it-out/18186>\
**Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [August 25, 2008, 2:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/day-23-of-my-exclusive-report-so-feel-welcome-to-read-it-out/18186 "2008-08-25T02:35:08Z")\
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**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\
**Post date:** [August 26, 2008, 1:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/day-23-of-my-exclusive-report-so-feel-welcome-to-read-it-out/18186/21 "2008-08-26T13:23:29Z")

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> [@K24](#):
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> hey whats up Phat, long time no see.
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> great report, that portugese chick must be really hot, yumm…😃
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> have fun and take care buddy 🙂

Thanks buddy for reading my report for your compliment 🙂 Yeah that portuguese babe is a hottie 😛 … btw do you have pheros or combo recommendation? If you have buddy, do tell me, thanks 🙂

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**Author:** ![Phya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/94ad74/32.png) [@Phya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phya)\
**Post date:** [August 26, 2008, 5:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/day-23-of-my-exclusive-report-so-feel-welcome-to-read-it-out/18186/22 "2008-08-26T17:10:11Z")

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What I mean by you shooting yourself down more than the girls do is that you are assuming rejection instead of actually getting rejected. She looked taken, she looked uninterested. She doesn’t actually say she has a bf, or is not interested, you willingly bow out.

Sometimes it’s easier to pass up opportunities, assuming it wasn’t going to work out, so that we don’t actually have to face real rejection, and would rather just ‘get it over with’ and reject myself, saving myself some time and humiliation. But that is just a self defense mechanism. Instead, learn that more often than not, you’re more accepted than you might think.

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