# Day three - Bad ending! **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [October 9, 2008, 8:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/day-three-bad-ending/21111 "2008-10-09T20:27:34Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![pherophreak](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pherophreak/32/1531_2.png) [@pherophreak](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pherophreak)\ **Post date:** [October 9, 2008, 8:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/day-three-bad-ending/21111/1 "2008-10-09T20:27:34Z")
Hey all, its day three of my report with that girl. Here is a word for word quote of our conversation yesterday using notes. H: So, you like chocolate. M: Ok, what the hell? You need to stop messing with me. H: Fine. You don’t have to get pissy. M: I’m not being pissy. Are you messing with me or not? H: Possibly M: Not cool. H: Haha, just like martin _A friend from the same class_ M:What are you doing after school? H: Not much. M: Me? H: Probably not. M: I knew it. Tease H: Yeah I am. Its fun. M: You are a very evil woman. H: So. Im fun to be around. M: Debateable. H: Meanie! : M: Well, the proof is in the pudding. Or candle wax. H: Pervert. M: You know you’d enjoy it. H: Maybe… M: No, not maybe. Yes. H: How do you know? M: Because you are the freak who suggested it in the first place. I only agree to help. So, if you are going to be naked and pouring wax on me, what do I get out of it? H: If I’m not enough, then you get nothing. M: That isn’t what I said. I meant, what are you going to do after the wax? H: I don’t know, it just depends. M: On? H: You. and my mood. M: Well, I think i fit involves you, me, and a bed it should be pretty fun. H: Dirtyness. You’re a dirty little boy. M: You have absolutely no idea. I’ve been conservative up to this point. H: I doubt that. M: Haha. I could be arrested for writing the stuff I think about. H: Lol. They would be more likely to arrest me for taking advantage of a minor. M: Can’t rape the willing. H: I know. The law frowns upon it though. M: Fuck the law, who REALLY cares? H: Parents. M: Who’s going to tell them? H:I dont know. What if they found out somehow? M:What if they don’t? H: Would yo get into trouble if they did? M: My dad’s dead and my mom would just to know I was “safe” AKA no juggling chainsaws. H: You’re too young. There was a third page but she wound up keeping it. After reading this I think the whole situation might come off a bit tense to you after reading it, but I assure you the mood was cheery and smiles. We were talking a lot in between notes. They aren’t nearly as negative as they sound. The Bad: Today after school, I talked to her for a little bit but she seemed to be deliberately hanging back so I would have to walk back to talk to her. Kind of seemed like she wanted to be alone or something. Anyways, about 30 seconds after talking to her I look back and see her holding hands with another guy. Then she hugged him and I’m fairly sure kissed him too. So I guess this whole time I was being played. I knew it was too good to be true. ---
**Author:** ![trifecta](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/trifecta/32/1009_2.png) [@trifecta](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/trifecta)\ **Post date:** [October 9, 2008, 10:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/day-three-bad-ending/21111/2 "2008-10-09T22:12:45Z")
Damn bro that sucks… Why dont you OD on turn up the heat? LOL. ---
**Author:** ![pherophreak](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pherophreak/32/1531_2.png) [@pherophreak](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pherophreak)\ **Post date:** [October 9, 2008, 11:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/day-three-bad-ending/21111/3 "2008-10-09T23:50:34Z")
Sounds like a good idea to me. :] ---
**Author:** ![snake\_o8](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/snake_o8/32/1853_2.png) [@snake\_o8](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/snake_o8)\ **Post date:** [October 10, 2008, 2:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/day-three-bad-ending/21111/4 "2008-10-10T02:50:01Z")
that kinda sucks dude i was hoping for a happy ending to this story lol ---
**Author:** ![Gegogi](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gegogi/32/1536_2.png) [@Gegogi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gegogi)\ **Post date:** [October 10, 2008, 3:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/day-three-bad-ending/21111/5 "2008-10-10T03:20:44Z")
Ah dunno, it appears the OP and target were equally matched, both frivolous teases. If I was a woman, I’d play him right back but wouldn’t take any guy seriously that talks like that. ---
**Author:** ![pherophreak](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pherophreak/32/1531_2.png) [@pherophreak](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pherophreak)\ **Post date:** [October 10, 2008, 9:29am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/day-three-bad-ending/21111/6 "2008-10-10T09:29:55Z")
You’re saying I’ve been a tease? ---
**Author:** ![Tenant](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tenant/32/1668_2.png) [@Tenant](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tenant)\ **Post date:** [October 10, 2008, 9:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/day-three-bad-ending/21111/7 "2008-10-10T09:46:05Z")
Dude, I don’t know what the background is, but if you have tunnel vision on this one girl so bad that you have been transcribing your conversations with her, I think you need to ‘go find ten other women.’ ---
**Author:** ![pherophreak](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pherophreak/32/1531_2.png) [@pherophreak](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pherophreak)\ **Post date:** [October 10, 2008, 9:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/day-three-bad-ending/21111/8 "2008-10-10T09:48:16Z")
> [@Tenant](#): > > Dude, I don’t know what the background is, but if you have tunnel vision on this one girl so bad that you have been transcribing your conversations with her, I think you need to ‘go find ten other women.’ This isn’t the only girl I’m talking with, I just thought it odd that she’d so blatantly hit on me 1 week after I start mones, considering I’ve known her for 6. and I’ve been transcribing simply because I HAVE the notes and figured why not. Trying to work up those report points for mikaela! ---
**Author:** ![river](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/river/32/934_2.png) [@river](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/river)\ **Post date:** [October 10, 2008, 2:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/day-three-bad-ending/21111/9 "2008-10-10T14:33:09Z")
Ahhh…don’t let the guys give you too much crap. They’re just disappointed that they didn’t get to read some racy, kinky hot wax sex story! 😉 Heck, that was the main reason for ME reading your post 😃 J/K! LOL! Great report…bad ending! Sorry babe! Keep the tension there…give the TUTH OD a try (won’t matter now, right?)…play hard to get (go find ten other women, like the guys said)…ya never know…you may end up with a little romp in the choir room yet! She definitely doesn’t sound like a “good girl” to me!😮 ---
**Author:** ![diamond](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/diamond/32/859_2.png) [@diamond](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/diamond)\ **Post date:** [October 10, 2008, 2:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/day-three-bad-ending/21111/10 "2008-10-10T14:45:02Z")
Hey, OD the Turn up the heat, nothing to lose. Respect for chasing the older woman! I just want to know what page 3 said that caused her to keep it?😃 ---
**Author:** ![pherophreak](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pherophreak/32/1531_2.png) [@pherophreak](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pherophreak)\ **Post date:** [October 10, 2008, 6:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/day-three-bad-ending/21111/11 "2008-10-10T18:45:02Z")
At this point im pretty confused. She was being super playful with me today. Drawing stuff on me and turning around to talk to me every 5 minutes. Then 15 minutes later I see her with the other dude! _shrugs_ Any tips? P.S. I was wearing 2x tuth. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![denec](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/denec/32/1730_2.png) [@denec](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/denec)\ **Post date:** [October 10, 2008, 7:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/day-three-bad-ending/21111/12 "2008-10-10T19:25:45Z")
> [@pherophreak](#): > > At this point im pretty confused. She was being super playful with me today. Drawing stuff on me and turning around to talk to me every 5 minutes. Then 15 minutes later I see her with the other dude! _shrugs_ > > Any tips? > > P.S. I was wearing 2x Turn Up The Heat. 😃 Ignore her…she sounds like a whacko LOL Then she will probably want you even more ---
**Author:** ![pherophreak](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pherophreak/32/1531_2.png) [@pherophreak](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pherophreak)\ **Post date:** [October 10, 2008, 7:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/day-three-bad-ending/21111/13 "2008-10-10T19:49:23Z")
> [@denec](#): > > Ignore her…she sounds like a whacko LOL > > Then she will probably want you even more I was ignoring her. Didn’t say a single word to her 'til she initiated conversation. I DID get her cell number, but my 1 day old blackberry got taken by an instructor…not allowed during tests wtf? 😕 I’ll go to the football game tonight–I really want to know whats up with all of this. ---
**Author:** ![river](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/river/32/934_2.png) [@river](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/river)\ **Post date:** [October 10, 2008, 7:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/day-three-bad-ending/21111/14 "2008-10-10T19:54:07Z")
So Pherophreak…what are you wanting from this girl anyways? Friendship, ONS, LTR? What do you find so intriguing about her other than the seeming promise of sex? Or is that it? ---
**Author:** ![pherophreak](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pherophreak/32/1531_2.png) [@pherophreak](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pherophreak)\ **Post date:** [October 10, 2008, 8:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/day-three-bad-ending/21111/15 "2008-10-10T20:06:54Z")
> [@river](#): > > So Pherophreak…what are you wanting from this girl anyways? Friendship, ONS, LTR? What do you find so intriguing about her other than the seeming promise of sex? Or is that it? I’m not into ONS. I think LTR would be the best bet. The ‘promise of sex’ isn’t really a big deal. I’m not nearly as horny as most of the guys I know. Haha. I don’t know what I find intriguing about her. Maybe just the fact that she is so forward and SHE showed an interest in me first. Shows a lot about her character. ---
**Author:** ![river](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/river/32/934_2.png) [@river](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/river)\ **Post date:** [October 10, 2008, 8:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/day-three-bad-ending/21111/16 "2008-10-10T20:13:47Z")
> [@pherophreak](#): > > Shows a lot about her character. Before I type my reply…what do YOU think about her character? ---
**Author:** ![pherophreak](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pherophreak/32/1531_2.png) [@pherophreak](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pherophreak)\ **Post date:** [October 10, 2008, 8:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/day-three-bad-ending/21111/17 "2008-10-10T20:19:36Z")
I feel weird typing this…oh well. Shes the shy girl that is really cool and fun once you get to know her. She really opened up to me and we had plenty of fun just talking about stupid things. She has a lot of energy and I smile a lot around her…I don’t normally smile too often. And she likes me even know I have terrible scarring on my jawline from acne years ago. And she’s super cute. That helps. ---
**Author:** ![river](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/river/32/934_2.png) [@river](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/river)\ **Post date:** [October 10, 2008, 8:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/day-three-bad-ending/21111/18 "2008-10-10T20:57:03Z")
So you think all the sex and hot wax talk was just-for-fun banter? Sounds like you’re pretty sweet on her and that she’s definitely interested albeit not committed yet. If it’s a LTR that you’re after, stick with the socials to develop that friendship more, particularly IHonesty. You said she was shy and has just opened up to you since you’ve started wearing the pheros…they seem to be working. Keep light on the -none but keep her on her toes though and be careful not to fall into that “just friends” relationship that can happen so easily. Choose your words and actions carefully. I mean, make sure your words and actions are congruent with your goal of having a relationship with her but don’t be too over-the-top sex maniac with her or she may start thinking that it’s all you want and gross her out. She may think its fun to tease a super-horny guy to see what reactions she gets, but she’ll never want a LTR with one. Why don’t you ask her to “hang out with you” somewhere that’s not too private? Not a “date” per se, just to be together for a while (develop that friendship…together, but not “together” if you know what I mean). Why don’t you ask her to hang out with you at the football game? She’ll get to see what a cool guy you really are in a more social, outside-of-the-classroom setting. Just don’t hang “everything” on having a relationship with her though because she may not want a LTR. You said that you saw her with another guy and maybe she just likes teasing you. From the little bit that you shared, she seems like one who has more “guy” friends than “girl” friends and its usually easier to “get reactions” from guys than girls. Maybe, being a “shy girl”, she’s craving this extra attention that she gets by teasing in this kind of manner and it’s compensating some sort of insecurity that she has about herself. Just get to know “the real” her a little better and see where it goes. Just my 2 cents… ---
**Author:** ![pherophreak](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pherophreak/32/1531_2.png) [@pherophreak](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pherophreak)\ **Post date:** [October 10, 2008, 11:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/day-three-bad-ending/21111/19 "2008-10-10T23:24:53Z")
Thanks a lot for your take on it. I’m starting to wonder why I care that she is hugging another guy. We aren’t even dating. I’ll definitely try to spend more time around her. Thanks River. ---
**Author:** ![ibelledthecat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/a698b9/32.png) [@ibelledthecat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ibelledthecat)\ **Post date:** [October 11, 2008, 6:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/day-three-bad-ending/21111/20 "2008-10-11T18:41:24Z")
> [@river](#): > > Before I type my reply…what do YOU think about her character? who needs character ? Ive seen marriages survive on sex alone … and sometimes money 😃 [Next page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/day-three-bad-ending/21111.md?page=2)