# day without Pheromone's **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [October 12, 2010, 9:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/day-without-pheromones/42572 "2010-10-12T21:20:11Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![PheroJack](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pherojack/32/527_2.png) [@PheroJack](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PheroJack)\ **Post date:** [October 12, 2010, 9:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/day-without-pheromones/42572/1 "2010-10-12T21:20:11Z")
Been a while I was putting combo’s, and really good ones, never heard any bad compliment. But today I decided to take a break from [Pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/)’s, and sadly heard a lot of bad compliments such as:“your weird” (from girls, and some guys) I need advice, what should I appeal tomorrow? I’m not looking for fights or anything, but respect. ---
**Author:** ![MVKBUGATTI](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/50afbb/32.png) [@MVKBUGATTI](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MVKBUGATTI)\ **Post date:** [October 12, 2010, 9:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/day-without-pheromones/42572/2 "2010-10-12T21:35:20Z")
> [@PheroJack](#): > > Been a while I was putting combo’s, and really good ones, never heard any bad compliment. > But today I decided to take a break from Pheromone’s, and sadly heard a lot of bad compliments such as:“your weird” (from girls, and some guys) > > I need advice, what should I appeal tomorrow? > I’m not looking for fights or anything, but respect. Proir to today, how often and how long have you been wearing [pheromones](https://a314.com/) around your peers? Where did this happened? ---
**Author:** ![PheroJack](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pherojack/32/527_2.png) [@PheroJack](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PheroJack)\ **Post date:** [October 12, 2010, 11:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/day-without-pheromones/42572/3 "2010-10-12T23:39:37Z")
> [@MVKBUGATTI](#): > > Proir to today, how often and how long have you been wearing pheromones around your peers? Where did this happened? Since school started.. 2-3 months ---
**Author:** ![Joe10](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/joe10/32/300_2.png) [@Joe10](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Joe10)\ **Post date:** [October 13, 2010, 1:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/day-without-pheromones/42572/4 "2010-10-13T01:17:31Z")
Can i say something that i hope you don’t take as an insult? getting respect is not all about mones. You might send that vibe to others but if you don’t back it up then no mones would ever cover your ass. Look at the people who wear mones and read their reports, the majority of them either already have confidence or are working to better themselves while wearing mones. You are too desperate to gain respect that you are looking for something outside of yourself where all you need is in you. You need to be confident in your actions and the only way to be is to face what you fear. Trust me, it is all in the mind and when you face it, you will begin to realize that it is not as big as you thought it would be. I’m a 24 year old and there were some point in time where I wasn’t respected by some people and you know what I did to gain their respect? I didn’t demand it but i looked at myself and my attitude and saw that if i was another person, i wouldn’t respect me. It was my actions that made those people disrespect me and nothing else. Treat everyone the same as how you would like to be treated and watch how the world would open up to you. You are young and might say that it is not cool because Girls like jerks and jerks are respected. I disagree 100% with that. Girls like 2 qualities that the jerks have.they are comfortable in their own skin, and don’t seek other people’s approval. When they don’t find it from the “nice people” around them who their sole purpose is to pretend they are nice to try to get something out of them, they get it from the jerks . If you are always nice, without trying to gain anything out of it but it is who you really are, then you wont exude that desperate needy vibe that other people can read from you. you need to face your fears my friend. The more you fail the faster you will see success. Take care God bless you Josef ---
**Author:** ![PheroJack](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pherojack/32/527_2.png) [@PheroJack](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PheroJack)\ **Post date:** [October 13, 2010, 1:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/day-without-pheromones/42572/5 "2010-10-13T01:23:41Z")
> [@Joe10](#): > > Can i say something that i hope you don’t take as an insult? > > getting respect is not all about mones. You might send that vibe to others but if you don’t back it up then no mones would ever cover your ass. > > Look at the people who wear mones and read their reports, the majority of them either already have confidence or are working to better themselves while wearing mones. > > You are too desperate to gain respect that you are looking for something outside of yourself where all you need is in you. You need to be confident in your actions and the only way to be is to face what you fear. Trust me, it is all in the mind and when you face it, you will begin to realize that it is not as big as you thought it would be. > > I’m a 24 year old and there were some point in time where I wasn’t respected by some people and you know what I did to gain their respect? I didn’t demand it but i looked at myself and my attitude and saw that if i was another person, i wouldn’t respect me. It was my actions that made those people disrespect me and nothing else. Treat everyone the same as how you would like to be treated and watch how the world would open up to you. > > You are young and might say that it is not cool because Girls like jerks and jerks are respected. I disagree 100% with that. Girls like 2 qualities that the jerks have.they are comfortable in their own skin, and don’t seek other people’s approval. When they don’t find it from the “nice people” around them who their sole purpose is to pretend they are nice to try to get something out of them, they get it from the jerks . If you are always nice, without trying to gain anything out of it but it is who you really are, then you wont exude that desperate needy vibe that other people can read from you. > > you need to face your fears my friend. The more you fail the faster you will see success. > > Take care > > God bless you > > Josef your right, but I CANNOT kill my fearness, it’s like a devil inside me that keeping me quite, IT’S always telling me to not talk to people because they are going to talk shit, but I will try my best tomorrow.. I think everday there is always a chance. ---
**Author:** ![Joe10](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/joe10/32/300_2.png) [@Joe10](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Joe10)\ **Post date:** [October 13, 2010, 1:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/day-without-pheromones/42572/6 "2010-10-13T01:37:08Z")
> [@PheroJack](#): > > your right, but I CANNOT kill my fearness, it’s like a devil inside me that keeping me quite, IT’S always telling me to not talk to people because they are going to talk shit, but I will try my best tomorrow.. I think everday there is always a chance. take baby steps my friend. If you have questions or want suggestions with pheromones or anything , you can always pm or anyone else for that matter. Trust me, this forum is so different from any other forum i have joined, and I joined alot. we are like a family and i see most people going out of their way to help others, whether it is with pheromones or with something else. I mentioned something I did with a close friend who had fears to the point that his eyes water in awekward situations: Here it is > [@](#): > > My close friend was a very very shy person and he gets nervous to the point that his eyes starts watering if in awkward situation. > > I made a bet with him that if he follows what i tell him for 1 week, and he doesn’t have at least 10 phone numbers, i would give him 1000 bucks and i showed him the money. > > He is an amazing person and always has something to say when he is around people he is comfortable with. He just has problems expressing himself to strangers or girls he feels attractive because he feels they are superior in someway. > > What we did is that I took him to a shopping center, and it was very very busy. > > First day, I told him to give me all his stuff, including his buspass. I told him to approach girls, say hi, smile, and be very honest with them on how you feel and the goal is to try to get rejected 20 times to get his stuff back from me. > > he was shaking like crazy but he did what i told him anyways. he approached very very physically beautiful girls and got rejected hard the first couple of times, as in girls walking away from him mid sentence. he got fed up and started aiming to get rejected as in not care about the outcome anymore just to get his stuff back from me. > > I swear to god, when he adapted that kind of thinking, he became himself as in saying what ever he wanted and whatever happens, happens. That attitude got him positive reactions from girls that he was beginning to feel desperate to get rejected to get his stuff from me. after completing the 20 rejections, he had something that neither I or him expected. he got 6 phone number from random girls he approached that were physically beautiful. After 20 rejections though, we stayed longer and he got a couple of more phone numbers. > > Today, he is married to a girl who loves him and has 2 kids from her. He always says that he owes it to me. I didn’t do anything other then push him to be himself. > > When you fear something, throw yourself in it. You will find out that it was all in your mind and when you prove your mind wrong, you will feel more relaxed and the process becomes easy. The reason I wanted him to get rejected was that to show him that it is not a big deal as his mind made it up to be. It is just something he has never experienced before and when he experienced it and found out that it is not a big of a deal as he made it out to be , he felt more confident in that department. It is all in the mind pherojack. Take care God bless you Josef ---
**Author:** ![PheroJack](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pherojack/32/527_2.png) [@PheroJack](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PheroJack)\ **Post date:** [October 14, 2010, 1:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/day-without-pheromones/42572/7 "2010-10-14T01:19:36Z")
I got rejected once, I felt really bad after, since that, I didn’t even care about me getting rejected no more.. I wasn’t proud I got rejected, but happy I tried Thank you Josef so much for your support, you deserver millions of reputations! 🙂