# Dealing with Cock Block **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [November 26, 2013, 6:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dealing-with-cock-block/60577 "2013-11-26T18:43:46Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![ballzan](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ballzan/32/558_2.png) [@ballzan](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ballzan)\ **Post date:** [November 26, 2013, 6:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dealing-with-cock-block/60577/1 "2013-11-26T18:43:46Z")
So I was at the gym the other day, not wearing anything at all as far as pheros go and I see this girl that I knew from highschool, she is a couple years older than me and has a boyfriend all that, I hadn’t planned on talking to her but after this I just kept seeing her, and noticed that every time I would be in the weight room and she was in the cardio she would occasionally glance in at me, even go as far to turn around and look in directly in my direction. I knew her twin sister thought I was cute in highschool and actually had told me a few times but I didn’t have any balls in highschool so didn’t do anything about it. So lately it had gotten to the point where I could tell she was itching to say something and my friend who was beside me most of the time finally said, “I think that girl in there is checking me out”, as a joke I said, “No it’s because your beside me and she is checking me out!”. So he walks away but is paying attention and notices that I was actually right. So there is the background of this issue. Finally I just go talk to here again wearing nothing like usual in the gym, conversation is going great she seems super into it, then all of the sudden, this old guy that always hits her and her friends walks up and says to me “Dude stop hitting on the girl she has a boyfriend, go lift.” She kinda got red and laughed but since then I am back to square one, she always looks in and is itching to say something but he is always there. ---
**Author:** ![Himeros](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/himeros/32/2325_2.png) [@Himeros](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Himeros)\ **Post date:** [November 26, 2013, 10:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dealing-with-cock-block/60577/2 "2013-11-26T22:03:06Z")
Your options: 1. Isolate the girl… either in the gym or come up with some excuse to meet her after your workout. Or find out where the girl usually goes out and try to bump into her there. 2i) Deal with the situation - wear some A314 and show the dude who’s boss 😃 2ii) Look up some PUA tricks on how to deal with AMOGs…Make fun of the guy in a polite way and get him to qualify himself to you. After that just continue talking to the girl.. 1. Dont do shit. The girl has a boyfriend right now as you said… so maybe she’s not worth your time. ---
**Author:** ![andromun](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/andromun/32/365_2.png) [@andromun](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/andromun)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2013, 12:36am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dealing-with-cock-block/60577/3 "2013-11-27T00:36:18Z")
> [@ballzan](#): > > this old guy that always hits her and her friends walks up and says to me “Dude stop hitting on the girl she has a boyfriend, go lift.” She kinda got red and laughed but since then I am back to square one, she always looks in and is itching to say something but he is always there. Ouch! That’s a tough one since I gather you didn’t say anything back. Next time I would reply back looking at the girl “is this the creeper you were talking about?” Do anything to make him look like an ass, better him than you. ---
**Author:** ![ryanmercer](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ryanmercer/32/1569_2.png) [@ryanmercer](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ryanmercer)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2013, 11:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dealing-with-cock-block/60577/4 "2013-11-27T11:28:45Z")
Gyms are for fitness. I would have said the exact same thing. Not everyone goes to the gym and thinks it’s a meat market. That being said, if she blushed ontop of working out… she’s interested. ---
**Author:** ![Xitty](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/x/73ab20/32.png) [@Xitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Xitty)\ **Post date:** [December 3, 2013, 6:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dealing-with-cock-block/60577/5 "2013-12-03T18:40:58Z")
Considering the gym is a mutual place just like being in a mall where people tend to gather in great numbers you should of stated your dominance in front of her and this guy. As you stated you know of this girl from your high school years so where does this guy know her from. Me myself I would of said something like this: Oh well I was just saying hi to her I noticed her and I do know her from high school so where do you know her from oh and why are you stepping in where your nose does not belong just wanting to know. To me this shows your dominance as an alpha. Then you should of just followed it up with a simple thing like this to her looking at her. I guess I will catch up with you another time when our conversation is not rudely interrupted. Again this shows **dominance** it shows her you are not **afraid** of this guy but it also shows her that you did **acknowledge** that she was there all things that women like to see. After all of this you simply give her a good glance while walking away back over to your station to continue with what you were there for. I have personally done this myself before when I went to the gym with a friend of mine. Funny thing was my friend new this chick and she was coming over to his house for supper that night which I did not know about. When she saw me she laughed and said good job at the gym today. I said to her why is that. She replied your right that guy was a jerk for interrupting our conversation and I would of liked to of finished it off with you kind of annoys me when that happens. I have found this kind of behavior drives women nuts when a conversation is cut short on them not all the times but allot of the times it does. ---
**Author:** ![THE\_GHOST](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/the_ghost/32/1990_2.png) [@THE\_GHOST](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/THE_GHOST)\ **Post date:** [December 3, 2013, 7:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dealing-with-cock-block/60577/6 "2013-12-03T19:11:38Z")
Why complicate things? There are plenty of single women out there, even if you had dealt with the Amog, you have then got to deal with the boyfriend, remember just because she is showing interest in you doesn’t mean she’s going to dump her bf for you, I know plenty of women who are in a relationship who flirt with other guys, it’s just an ego boost for them. I’d just forget it and concentrate your efforts on somebody who’s actually available. ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [December 4, 2013, 12:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dealing-with-cock-block/60577/7 "2013-12-04T00:16:26Z")
Bluntly, if a woman is interested in you, no amount of cock-blocking will work. Indeed it will only strengthen her resolve to get you where nobody else will get in the way - which is all good for you. 🙂