# Desperate HELP!!!!!!!!! **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [August 5, 2008, 1:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/desperate-help/16971 "2008-08-05T13:59:02Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 4\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![ElijahGuru](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/97f17d/32.png) [@ElijahGuru](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ElijahGuru)\ **Post date:** [June 4, 2015, 10:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/desperate-help/16971/21 "2015-06-04T22:12:14Z")
Hey man, No matter who you are and how you act, there are always going to be people who will wonder whether or not you are gay. It’s just how life is, and often times it has little to do with you and more to do with the person who’s pondering your sexuality. There is absolutely nothing wrong with feminine energy…in fact a lot of the world’s greatest seducers possessed a little bit, if not a lot of feminine energy. Look at Russell Brand for instance. The issue becomes when you demonstrate a lot of feminine behaviors and give off very little masculine energy. If this is the case, I do not believe any pheromone product can help you as most [pheromone products](https://a314.com/shop/) give you the self-effects, but require work on your part to play the part. It sounds to me like you might be a shy person, and most people who are shy often come off as gay. You need to project more of your masculinity…and the easiest way to do this is through body language. Stand up straighter, slow down your movements, make deep, powerful eye contact, spread out and take up space, speak slower and deeper. Just tweaking those will make you appear much more masculine. After that, or even in combination with that, I recommend some light teasing that allows you to demonstrate the sexual being that you should be. Most women do not mind a little teasing, and when you do tease them, they know on a subconscious level…that you are a man. ---
**Author:** ![andro00](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/71c47a/32.png) [@andro00](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/andro00)\ **Post date:** [June 4, 2015, 11:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/desperate-help/16971/22 "2015-06-04T23:29:54Z")
> [@ElijahGuru](#): > > Hey man, > > No matter who you are and how you act, there are always going to be people who will wonder whether or not you are gay. It’s just how life is, and often times it has little to do with you and more to do with the person who’s pondering your sexuality. There is absolutely nothing wrong with feminine energy…in fact a lot of the world’s greatest seducers possessed a little bit, if not a lot of feminine energy. Look at Russell Brand for instance. The issue becomes when you demonstrate a lot of feminine behaviors and give off very little masculine energy. If this is the case, I do not believe any pheromone product can help you as most pheromone products give you the self-effects, but require work on your part to play the part. It sounds to me like you might be a shy person, and most people who are shy often come off as gay. You need to project more of your masculinity…and the easiest way to do this is through body language. Stand up straighter, slow down your movements, make deep, powerful eye contact, spread out and take up space, speak slower and deeper. Just tweaking those will make you appear much more masculine. After that, or even in combination with that, I recommend some light teasing that allows you to demonstrate the sexual being that you should be. Most women do not mind a little teasing, and when you do tease them, they know on a subconscious level…that you are a man. Even when you do those things, people can still say that stuff. Again, people say it out of jealous/envy and women say it when they feel ignored, do not deserve you or want your attention. Basically, people use it as an insult if they do not like someone or are trying to emasculate a man. It could have nothing to do with your gestures, body language or mannerisms. Now a days, people throw away that language all the time to GET UNDER OTHER’S SKIN. Trust me, I’ve seen it happen so many times to others and there was no warranted reason for it other than the few explanations I listed above/in my other post but YOUR ADVICE IS GOOD. In the end, you can’t care about when people say that crap. It will come back to haunt them. ---
**Author:** ![ElijahGuru](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/97f17d/32.png) [@ElijahGuru](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ElijahGuru)\ **Post date:** [June 5, 2015, 12:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/desperate-help/16971/23 "2015-06-05T00:06:07Z")
> [@andro00](#): > > Even when you do those things, people can still say that stuff. Again, people say it out of jealous/envy and women say it when they feel ignored, do not deserve you or want your attention. > > Basically, people use it as an insult if they do not like someone or are trying to emasculate a man. It could have nothing to do with your gestures, body language or mannerisms. Now a days, people throw away that language all the time to GET UNDER OTHER’S SKIN. > > Trust me, I’ve seen it happen so many times to others and there was no warranted reason for it other than the few explanations I listed above/in my other post but YOUR ADVICE IS GOOD. In the end, you can’t care about when people say that crap. It will come back to haunt them. I totally agree. People do try and insult your or emasculate you by calling you gay, but I treat it as congruence tests. I mean, do you stay relaxed, secure and confident when people throw those insults at you? or do you feel bothered? If you’re wearing Ammo and suddenly you become a sexual threat, of course a lot of men are going to be bothered by it…you are a threat to their success that night, that day, that weekend, whatever. In the same manner, a lot of women are going to come up to you for the sole reason of trying to get under your skin as some sort of test. This is stuff you can’t let bother you, alter you or deter you. This is where “playing the part” comes into using pheromones. You spray on some Ammo and someone throws an insult at you…LAUGH…don’t laugh because the insult was funny…laugh because that person thought the insult they threw at you would affect you. No matter what you wear, how you look, how much money you make, people are going to insult you. I totally agree. No amount of mannerisms will change that. I agree with that notion as well. But strong body language on a subconscious level tells people that you dominate your own reality, which makes people less likely to want to dominate your reality. It makes people second guess (he stands tall and open, he must be confident, I should be careful). I am certain it will help. And when people insult you regardless of your mannerisms and pheromones, it is meant to actually test how much of a man you really are, and whether you take it like a boss, or take it \_\_\_\_ (fill in the blanks). Moral of the story: Wear pheromones, stay congruent. ---
**Author:** ![andro00](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/71c47a/32.png) [@andro00](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/andro00)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2015, 1:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/desperate-help/16971/24 "2015-06-07T13:42:12Z")
> [@ElijahGuru](#): > > I totally agree. People do try and insult your or emasculate you by calling you gay, but I treat it as congruence tests. I mean, do you stay relaxed, secure and confident when people throw those insults at you? or do you feel bothered? If you’re wearing Ammo and suddenly you become a sexual threat, of course a lot of men are going to be bothered by it…you are a threat to their success that night, that day, that weekend, whatever. In the same manner, a lot of women are going to come up to you for the sole reason of trying to get under your skin as some sort of test. This is stuff you can’t let bother you, alter you or deter you. This is where “playing the part” comes into using pheromones. You spray on some Ammo and someone throws an insult at you…LAUGH…don’t laugh because the insult was funny…laugh because that person thought the insult they threw at you would affect you. > > No matter what you wear, how you look, how much money you make, people are going to insult you. I totally agree. No amount of mannerisms will change that. I agree with that notion as well. But strong body language on a subconscious level tells people that you dominate your own reality, which makes people less likely to want to dominate your reality. It makes people second guess (he stands tall and open, he must be confident, I should be careful). I am certain it will help. And when people insult you regardless of your mannerisms and pheromones, it is meant to actually test how much of a man you really are, and whether you take it like a boss, or take it \_\_\_\_ (fill in the blanks). > > Moral of the story: Wear pheromones, stay congruent. Yeah I agree with what you said. People who wear pheromones should be confident. If someone is going through a crisis such as experiencing OCD, depression etc, they shouldn’t wear pheromones. I realize this now because I went through a rough patch that lasted quite a few years, and wearing pheromones made it way worse. It made people feel threatened by me or confused. But you’re right about the insult thing. Where I’m from, the Northeast of the United States, people are very quick to insult each other, talk behind others’ backs. Most times, you ignore the insults, but sometimes you stand up for yourself. It depends on the situation. [Previous page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/desperate-help/16971.md?page=1)