You should acclimate yourself with A314 and find your sweet spot. Here’s a great post on doing so: How to find your sweet spot...
On the other hand a Phero-Baptism is also a necessity and a great way to discover the crazy-effectiveness of mones on you and your surroundings. This post explains a little about that as well: An Introduction to Mones: Names, Size, Strength, Use, Effects & Duration - #8 by SteveO
The idea though behind everything, while seemingly contradictory, is to have fun and just enjoy yourself. There really is no right or wrong way to do anything around here. Have some fun, go about your life and when opportunity presents itself take advantage or someone else will. Just like I took advantage of posting in your journal to get myself subscribed and to offer some advice 
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