# DIHL and thoughts from ladies **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [July 3, 2008, 4:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dihl-and-thoughts-from-ladies/14832 "2008-07-03T16:48:48Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![wiseowlk12](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/d2c977/32.png) [@wiseowlk12](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/wiseowlk12)\ **Post date:** [July 3, 2008, 4:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dihl-and-thoughts-from-ladies/14832/1 "2008-07-03T16:48:48Z")
Good Day Ladies, So I’m thinking to myself about the “DIHL” / Deer in Head Lights reactions given off from [Pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/), specificially ones with nones in them. I myself have gotten a few from using Ammo and IShine. So i’m wondering to myself what goes on ya’ll girl’s heads when this happens during and after this experience. I know when I see an attractive woman I look at her and my high-level thinking shuts down a bit. After brief period or so I regain my thoughts and try to control my eyes and thoughts… 🙂 (usually with quite a bit of struggle) So if you gals could fulfill me in your thoughts on this it would be a great insight for us guys. ---
**Author:** ![Vivica](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/e8c25b/32.png) [@Vivica](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Vivica)\ **Post date:** [July 4, 2008, 1:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dihl-and-thoughts-from-ladies/14832/2 "2008-07-04T01:51:31Z")
At first glance of somebody Im attracted to I get a high level of adrenaline. I know I usually stand up or sit up straighter , flip my hair, lick my lips and make eye contact. Im very picky so when I do see the kind of man I like its a fantastic feeling. It just feels magnetic almost if my body is telling me thats your type go get him lol. I then usually after the initial attraction start looking at his eyes, hands, how his nails look, his clothes and his hair. If all that is good I usually make eye contact some more and if he doesnt come up to me I’ll go up to him. Then the real test begins, I love intelligent funny men so if he doesnt come off as that quickly I loose interest faster than the attraction happened. Appearance starts it but if its empty its doesnt mean anything to me. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [July 4, 2008, 2:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dihl-and-thoughts-from-ladies/14832/3 "2008-07-04T02:30:53Z")
I dont think I ever get the DIHL although I suppose you wouldnt know you were having it so maybe I do and just dont know LOL I am rather blunt so I just blurt things out LOL The other day I was delivering mail and this really hot guy was walking down the road for exercise. Looked like he just got done jogging and was cooling down. Well he had these absolutely mouth watering forearms. So I told him LOL , He couldnt stop grinning. Men are such compliment whores LOL. I ment that with love guys no offence. 😃 Tisha To avoid offending Compliment whore means Person who gets off on compliments ---
**Author:** ![EmeraldNight](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/emeraldnight/32/549_2.png) [@EmeraldNight](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/EmeraldNight)\ **Post date:** [July 4, 2008, 4:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dihl-and-thoughts-from-ladies/14832/4 "2008-07-04T04:13:27Z")
> [@tisha23](#): > > So I told him LOL , He couldnt stop grinning. Men are such compliment whores LOL. I ment that with love guys no offence. 😃 You probably made his day Tisha 🙂 I dont get it much, there really is only one “type” of guy that makes my knees weak. Most of the time it takes a lot to knock me off guard or take notice, but if I encounter this kind of guy I am more of a “oh holy crap he’s looking at me, avoid eye contact and blush” kind of girl. :o I’d sneak a peak through my eyelashes though, so this might be my equivalent of the DIHL. What goes through my mind when that happens is that it makes me a little ditzy, a little out of sorts. Kind of like the effect of TAH 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Daedelus76](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/eb8c5e/32.png) [@Daedelus76](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Daedelus76)\ **Post date:** [July 4, 2008, 5:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dihl-and-thoughts-from-ladies/14832/5 "2008-07-04T17:11:14Z")
> [@tisha23](#): > > So I told him LOL , He couldnt stop grinning. Men are such compliment whores LOL. I ment that with love guys no offence. He got your attention, though. I’ve never had anybody who gave me a DIHL talk to me. I think it doesn’t mean alot in itself. Alot of new people get caught up in “hits” like that but I don’t think it’s that impressive really. And heck, I’ve stared at people that were 55+ and not even that attractive. I think [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) had something to do with that one 🙂 As you get older I think you get less impressed with peoples physical looks and less swayed by it. There really is nothing new under the sun. ---
**Author:** ![Kitten](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kitten/32/1051_2.png) [@Kitten](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kitten)\ **Post date:** [July 5, 2008, 9:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dihl-and-thoughts-from-ladies/14832/6 "2008-07-05T21:15:42Z")
Every now and then my mind goes completely blank when in the presence of a certain kind of guy. I sort of go into a fight or flight or well…something else that starts with f mode. It isn’t a panic attack, just a complete loss of the english language and basic memory. I tend to avoid guys like that because I come across as the world’s blondest blonde when I try to talk to them. “So where ya from?” “Ummmm… Here! I’m from here!” “What’s your name?” “Hehehehe…ummmmmm. You first.” “Well can I get you a fresh drink?” “Eeeheheeeheee. I’m fine! Is that the? Ahhhhh. I know him! Gotta go.” Then I scamper off, leaving a perfectly nice bewildered guy just standing there. I’d have been fine if he hadn’t tried to talk to me. My advice, with a DIHL girl, don’t make her speak much. Stick to body language, and light touch if appropriate. Give her a chance to calm down. ---
**Author:** ![LaPew](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lapew/32/330_2.png) [@LaPew](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/LaPew)\ **Post date:** [July 5, 2008, 10:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dihl-and-thoughts-from-ladies/14832/7 "2008-07-05T22:21:07Z")
Great question wiseowlk, I’m sure there are many of us wondering the same thing. Thanks for sharing a female prospective on this ladies.🙂 ---
**Author:** ![msselva](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/msselva/32/943_2.png) [@msselva](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/msselva)\ **Post date:** [July 6, 2008, 4:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dihl-and-thoughts-from-ladies/14832/8 "2008-07-06T16:59:02Z")
Hmm, I don’t think I’ve ever gave a dihl look, but I do act different. But when I meet a guy that I’m really attracted to … I don’t want to speak since english turns out to have a slight indian accent! (ugh, embaressing! and I never have that accent unless I become nervous) and I become really quiet all the sudden (and I’m quite a chatterbox…) and I look down a my shoes. God damn’it there was this one time where I asked a guy if my socks looked nice! (he was nice though, he said they looked girlie…lol!) LOL I can’t believe I’m laughing at myself, man I’m helpless what can I tell ya? lol, like kitten said, don’t make the lady talk too much and give the woman sometime to calm down 😛 lol ---
**Author:** ![WildFlower](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wildflower/32/1260_2.png) [@WildFlower](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/WildFlower)\ **Post date:** [July 6, 2008, 8:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dihl-and-thoughts-from-ladies/14832/9 "2008-07-06T20:28:00Z")
lol you girls are pussycats but then again so are most men (at least I am lol ☹). I think that a lot of us when meeting someone attractive behave in similar ways to those mentioned above and I think it can sometimes come of as disinterest to the other person, both genders are guilty of it. Trisha is right, men are compliment whores so my advice to girls would be to give a few initial compliments and the guy will get the picture even if you’re staring at your shoes and avoiding conversation. It’s different for guys because girls seem a lot more cynical in regards to compliments (I don’t blame them, a lot of men are sleazes and disingenuous).