# Disheartened and discouraged

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/disheartened-and-discouraged/11620>\
**Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [April 21, 2008, 3:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/disheartened-and-discouraged/11620 "2008-04-21T15:38:13Z")\
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**Author:** ![movado1999](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/movado1999/32/2049_2.png) [@movado1999](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/movado1999)\
**Post date:** [April 23, 2008, 2:07am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/disheartened-and-discouraged/11620/15 "2008-04-23T02:07:50Z")

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> [@pyruvate](#):
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> I definately care 🙂
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> Tis all good advice. So Today i finally figured out the mix to make everyone my slave…and by that I mean I finished out the day the way it started, smelling like a gym sock and noticing nothing. I’m not going to give up.
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> I’ve been trying to be as meticulous as possible with my hygeine. Should I not be trying to get everything off in the shower? Since I’ve been using the A314 in my hair I’ve been trying to shampoo the hell out of my head.
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> I wish I had some Ammo, seems to be the most pheron00b friendly pheromone. I’m not trying to sound conceited or arrogant, but I think the issue may be that I’m already sort of the role I’m trying to play with the A314. I’m a natural leader, and maybe my own personal signature is similar to A314. So I might be expecting too blatant of reactions. My whole life, every girl I am near tends to stare, and I’m not by any means inordinately good looking. I keep up my looks to the best of my ability, but I’m near average. I’m told I have a really good body, which might have something to do with it. I’m also 6’5, which also may play a role.
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> Anyway, thanks for the input. I’m taking it all to heart. I don’t know if I could take a beard made of A314 since having is even just on my wrists I smell it constantly. I’m going to do something insane with the A314 and do 2 drops every half hour at work and gauge my customers reactions. By close, I will be wearing 8 drops of A314. I know it’s a lot, but I’ve had 0 success with up to 6! It could also just be that I’m a giant arrogant asshole and I wouldn’t know if it was working at all.
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> Long ass post, eh? And really, I haven’t said much at all. I guess that’s called babbling. 🙂
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> I love you guys. On any other forums(I go on a lot of bodybuildre forums) if I had this attitude, I’d be flamed and possibly banned, whereas you guys all genuinely want to help me. Warms my heart. 🙂 🙂 🙂

Hey dude, when I first started reading this board, I felt the same way. I had preconceived expectations of what pheros could do for me. I’ll admit, my first time using them I had hits of grandeur, but I was very scientific and methodical about the number and location of sprays and drops. I made sure to use a neutral scented soap while I showered and began from a “blank slate.” Once I had a clue of how to spray, rub, etc, I got some soap that would complement the scents created by mixing the solutions together. If you’re cognizant about the way you apply your pheros and project through your demeanor what you want to achieve during the day, just go through your day and the pheros will enhance it. Just keep in mind - the pheros are merely an enhancement to your personality and others’ perception of it. A [great post](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/range-and-identification/8484) by galydrum really helped me, you should check it out! Bon chance!

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