# Do Men Put Women in Categories? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [July 14, 2009, 4:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-men-put-women-in-categories/30683 "2009-07-14T16:31:08Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 6
**Author:** ![happykitsune](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/happykitsune/32/2415_2.png) [@happykitsune](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/happykitsune)\ **Post date:** [July 21, 2009, 9:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-men-put-women-in-categories/30683/101 "2009-07-21T21:20:40Z")
> [@Gegogi](#): > > Yeah, I avoid housework as much as possible (use a maid service). When my clothing gets dirty I just throw it out and buy a bunch of new ones. I get bored of the same threads quickly anyway. Lol, I don’t throw out my dirty clothes, but we do have a maid so the stress levels here aren’t as bad unless it’s work or school related. ---
**Author:** ![happykitsune](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/happykitsune/32/2415_2.png) [@happykitsune](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/happykitsune)\ **Post date:** [July 21, 2009, 9:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-men-put-women-in-categories/30683/102 "2009-07-21T21:35:41Z")
> [@meow333x](#): > > i see what you ladies are saying, but you are missing something out in your views..age. happykitsune, you mentioned women being doctors, lawyers, etc. but you are 19, how many 19 year olds can claim those status? i’m gonna go out on a limb here and say zero. also you are confusing profession with personality. just because a women is a doctor does not mean she can keep a 5 minute conversation with a man going. i know this because i did an internship in the operating room where i assisted some of the best female surgeons in town…and guess what, i wouldn’t date any of em, except maybe one prolly cause we got along so well. > tisha, i was wondering when you were gonna jump in to bust my ballz hehe. but yes you are right perception is based on experience. jankren and i are college students…our view of women are daddies little girls burning their credit cards on clothes and iphones. i’ve kind of tiptoed arount this topic, but i don’t think anyone really got it, so i’m gonna just come out and say it. not all women are shallow, just like not all men are immature. but these qualities are learned qualities, not things you are born with. the issue with women(and this maybe just my experience) by the time women get their shit together, they are just too bitter and too used up for me to be interested in them. if it took you 10 boyfriends to figure out that men don’t like going shopping with you, then i have no interest in you. Right now at 19 we’re all in college of course, planning for our futures and broadening our minds. Those girls who choose to be air heads and only care about their looks will be paired off with the immature guys who’s main focus is to get poon. Not saying that doctors are going to be like the one’s off Scrubs where their funny and entertaining, but my main reasoning was that not all the ladies are focused on looks. Some actually have careers and hobbies and generally there are guys who are interested in the same things the women are interested in, and when you added that in with how gorgeous the girl is then infactuation is created. I know for me the thing that really interests the guys is my love for video games. That really gets us talking. And if that doesn’t interest them then we can always talk about the outdoors. Camping, hiking, fishing. A lot of us aren’t as into shopping as you think and have other interests that men share as well. To be honest I like getting new clothes, but I hate the actual act of shopping. It makes me tired and irritated. ---
**Author:** ![Gegogi](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gegogi/32/1536_2.png) [@Gegogi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gegogi)\ **Post date:** [July 21, 2009, 10:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-men-put-women-in-categories/30683/103 "2009-07-21T22:41:41Z")
It’s not easy being an 18 to 22 year old guy: raging hormones, no money, crap job, future uncertain and lots of hot women you can’t have. Extremely frustrating and far too easy to develop bad attitude and resentment towards women. I’ve seen some really twisted attitudes towards women because of the before mentioned. I recall doing some really shameful things just for a little poontang. Having a good supply of blow was more effective than mones… Luckily the hormones start to mellow a bit in few years, about the time you get it together professionally, and you realize “WTF was I thinking back then?!” Then you’ll be able to look forward to middle age and your second adolescence/midlife crisis. It’s just as bad as when you were in your teens/early 20s but you’re uglier and have a lot more money. ---
**Author:** ![zeph](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/85e7bf/32.png) [@zeph](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/zeph)\ **Post date:** [July 22, 2009, 1:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-men-put-women-in-categories/30683/104 "2009-07-22T01:12:28Z")
> [@happykitsune](#): > > **I know for me the thing that really interests the guys is my love for video games.** That really gets us talking. And if that doesn’t interest them then we can always talk about the outdoors. Camping, hiking, fishing. A lot of us aren’t as into shopping as you think and have other interests that men share as well. To be honest I like getting new clothes, **but I hate the actual act of shopping. It makes me tired and irritated.** I think with video games, it’s just an activity that we just assume girls don’t enjoy so when a girl really likes video games it can be surprising. AND you hate shopping??? Where have you been all my life? 😛 ---
**Author:** ![happykitsune](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/happykitsune/32/2415_2.png) [@happykitsune](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/happykitsune)\ **Post date:** [July 22, 2009, 1:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-men-put-women-in-categories/30683/105 "2009-07-22T01:21:03Z")
> [@zeph](#): > > I think with video games, it’s just an activity that we just assume girls don’t enjoy so when a girl really likes video games it can be surprising. > > AND you hate shopping??? > > Where have you been all my life? 😛 See I never really thought it was that odd for girls to like video games. I have friends who love it as well and they’re also good looking. Yet when I mention it to guys they sound so surprised. Which is ok I guess. Helps me get a step up from the competition. And the whole shopping thing is really not that exciting to me, even if I get new stuff. Don’t know how other girls can do it for hours x.x My target guy likes to shop for his clothes tho so we’re kinda flip flopped in that matter. He’s the one who usually drags me around while he tries on stuff… _sigh_ Idk, where have I been all your life? 😕 Sleeping perhaps. ---
**Author:** ![Gegogi](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gegogi/32/1536_2.png) [@Gegogi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gegogi)\ **Post date:** [July 22, 2009, 2:01am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-men-put-women-in-categories/30683/106 "2009-07-22T02:01:19Z")
Most guys love to shop, just not for shoes and clothing: high end audio gear, fancy camera equipment, motorcycles, sports shit, kickin’ wheels, handguns, etc. ---
**Author:** ![metalTree](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/b38774/32.png) [@metalTree](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/metalTree)\ **Post date:** [July 22, 2009, 2:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-men-put-women-in-categories/30683/107 "2009-07-22T02:17:38Z")
> [@Gegogi](#): > > Most guys love to shop, just not for shoes and clothing: high end audio gear, fancy camera equipment, motorcycles, sports shit, kickin’ wheels, handguns, etc. As guys, we must have our toys to be happy. ---
**Author:** ![moonwhisper](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/moonwhisper/32/1735_2.png) [@moonwhisper](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/moonwhisper)\ **Post date:** [July 22, 2009, 2:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-men-put-women-in-categories/30683/108 "2009-07-22T02:25:55Z")
I couldn’t agree more. I hate shopping, although I do like having new things. If I could shop by mail-order and actually have things fit, I would do that instead. Shopping leaves me exhausted. I’d much rather hike, shoot, kayak, swim, fish, whatever outdoors. I guess I’m not a typical girl. I have never had a manicure. I have never colored my hair. I have never spent my rent money to buy frivolous things. I have never asked my parents for money, ever. I do love to get muddy, dirty, be outdoors. I am competitive and like sports, not just watching them on TV. I can hold my own in a fight. I am competent with many types of firearms. I can have an intelligent conversation with people from just about any background. I can drive heavy machinery. I can survive for weeks with what I can carry on my back. I will bait my own hook, lol I am not a regular girl. ---
**Author:** ![metalTree](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/b38774/32.png) [@metalTree](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/metalTree)\ **Post date:** [July 22, 2009, 2:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-men-put-women-in-categories/30683/109 "2009-07-22T02:51:08Z")
> [@moonwhisper](#): > > I couldn’t agree more. I hate shopping, although I do like having new things. If I could shop by mail-order and actually have things fit, I would do that instead. Shopping leaves me exhausted. > > I’d much rather hike, shoot, kayak, swim, fish, whatever outdoors. I guess I’m not a typical girl. > > I have never had a manicure. > I have never colored my hair. > I have never spent my rent money to buy frivolous things. > I have never asked my parents for money, ever. > I do love to get muddy, dirty, be outdoors. > I am competitive and like sports, not just watching them on TV. > I can hold my own in a fight. > I am competent with many types of firearms. > I can have an intelligent conversation with people from just about any background. > I can drive heavy machinery. > I can survive for weeks with what I can carry on my back. > I will bait my own hook, lol > I am not a regular girl. If you weren’t married, you would be in high demand. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![moonwhisper](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/moonwhisper/32/1735_2.png) [@moonwhisper](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/moonwhisper)\ **Post date:** [July 22, 2009, 3:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-men-put-women-in-categories/30683/110 "2009-07-22T03:04:34Z")
> [@metalTree](#): > > If you weren’t married, you would be in high demand. 🙂 Thank you, I appreciate that. 😉 Funny thing, though, when I was single I had trouble staying out of the friend zone. You guys should be able to relate to that. I guess it was just too easy to be one of the guys, and I can’t or won’t fake a ‘please tuck me under your arm and take care of me because I’m so delicate’ persona. It goes both ways, I guess. Guys complain because women want to date a good looking rogue, but they want to marry the gentleman. Well, it seems that men don’t always want the same things from dating that they do from LTR. ---
**Author:** ![meow333x](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ecae2f/32.png) [@meow333x](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/meow333x)\ **Post date:** [July 22, 2009, 3:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-men-put-women-in-categories/30683/111 "2009-07-22T03:53:00Z")
> [@happykitsune](#): > > See I never really thought it was that odd for girls to like video games. I have friends who love it as well and they’re also good looking. Yet when I mention it to guys they sound so surprised. Which is ok I guess. Helps me get a step up from the competition. > > And the whole shopping thing is really not that exciting to me, even if I get new stuff. Don’t know how other girls can do it for hours x.x My target guy likes to shop for his clothes tho so we’re kinda flip flopped in that matter. He’s the one who usually drags me around while he tries on stuff… _sigh_ > > Idk, where have I been all your life? 😕 Sleeping perhaps. say uh…do you ever come down to texas?🙂 ---
**Author:** ![happykitsune](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/happykitsune/32/2415_2.png) [@happykitsune](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/happykitsune)\ **Post date:** [July 22, 2009, 4:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-men-put-women-in-categories/30683/112 "2009-07-22T04:51:23Z")
Used to go to Texas all the time. Don’t anymore tho. 😛 Btw, while we’re on this topic of women who only care about looks and marrying/dating men who are wealthy this link caught my eye and the video on it was just too funny. watch if you dare. Is this dating or prostitution? [www.establishedmen.com/media](http://www.establishedmen.com/media) ---
**Author:** ![metalTree](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/b38774/32.png) [@metalTree](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/metalTree)\ **Post date:** [July 22, 2009, 5:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-men-put-women-in-categories/30683/113 "2009-07-22T05:19:42Z")
> [@happykitsune](#): > > Used to go to Texas all the time. Don’t anymore tho. 😛 > > Btw, while we’re on this topic of women who only care about looks and marrying/dating men who are wealthy this link caught my eye and the video on it was just too funny. > > watch if you dare. Is this dating or prostitution? > [www.establishedmen.com/media](http://www.establishedmen.com/media) This was an amusing video. The interviewer is a total dick head and pretends to be shocked by the whole thing. I don’t like how he passes judgement on people and acts like he is morally superior. The light browned hair girl in the clip from 6:20 - 6:35 is amusing too. She hopes that she will still be considered the “trophy wife” and “Arm Candy” when she gets older. If I had a billion dollars, would I take beautiful women on shopping sprees to get them to pretend they are attracted to me and have great sex? Hell Yeah! I wouldn’t need to wear the pheromones either. 🙄 I kind of wish there was a sugar mama service that I could join and have women buy me expensive toys. But unfortunately I’m not good looking enough to be accepted at such a site. ☹ ---
**Author:** ![happykitsune](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/happykitsune/32/2415_2.png) [@happykitsune](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/happykitsune)\ **Post date:** [July 22, 2009, 6:03am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-men-put-women-in-categories/30683/114 "2009-07-22T06:03:12Z")
Yeah, I thought the interviewer was pretty annoying, but at the same time he did bring up some great points, but so did the guy who was dating the chick. I liked the line he used after the guy asked if she’d date him if he was penny-less. “It’s the same if she weren’t pretty” Kinda shallow, but I guess it was a good response to a harsh question. And if you think about it they are kinda in their own little form of symbiosis haha Hmm…I wonder if there is a “cougar” site out there haha. I bet a lot of latin men would join it lol ---
**Author:** ![happykitsune](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/happykitsune/32/2415_2.png) [@happykitsune](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/happykitsune)\ **Post date:** [July 22, 2009, 6:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-men-put-women-in-categories/30683/115 "2009-07-22T06:10:47Z")
Yep there are tons of sugar mamma sites out there including one called Date A Millionaire. While I find it shallow it also seems kinda cool lol ---
**Author:** ![jankren](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/f0a364/32.png) [@jankren](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jankren)\ **Post date:** [July 22, 2009, 8:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-men-put-women-in-categories/30683/116 "2009-07-22T08:21:05Z")
> [@happykitsune](#): > > Yeah, I thought the interviewer was pretty annoying, but at the same time he did bring up some great points, but so did the guy who was dating the chick. > > I liked the line he used after the guy asked if she’d date him if he was penny-less. “It’s the same if she weren’t pretty” Kinda shallow, but I guess it was a good response to a harsh question. And if you think about it they are kinda in their own little form of symbiosis haha > > Hmm…I wonder if there is a “cougar” site out there haha. I bet a lot of latin men would join it lol Yeah I used to be very hateful toward women who like men because they are rich. But then I watched a Korean Drama in which there was a dialogue where a man said to a woman, “Why do women like rich men?” Then the woman said, “Women like rich men just like men like beautiful women. So we are fair.” And ever since my perspective has changed. ---
**Author:** ![happykitsune](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/happykitsune/32/2415_2.png) [@happykitsune](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/happykitsune)\ **Post date:** [July 22, 2009, 8:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-men-put-women-in-categories/30683/117 "2009-07-22T08:28:44Z")
Yeah, well it seems like a pretty fair trade off. ---
**Author:** ![Terrah](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/terrah/32/529_2.png) [@Terrah](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Terrah)\ **Post date:** [July 22, 2009, 12:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-men-put-women-in-categories/30683/118 "2009-07-22T12:25:52Z")
in a second we put women into the category of either ‘want to f\*\*k’ OR ‘do not want’. WE shouldnt scale women from 1-10, especially if you dont consider yourself a 10 already you’ll generate immense psychological resistance to approach the women instead just realize what girls are: flesh and blood and bone, get to know her and then see where it goes ---
**Author:** ![Gegogi](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gegogi/32/1536_2.png) [@Gegogi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gegogi)\ **Post date:** [July 22, 2009, 4:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-men-put-women-in-categories/30683/119 "2009-07-22T16:55:26Z")
> [@](#): > > just realize what girls are: flesh and blood and bone, get to know her and then see where it goes Are you sure? I hear they’re “Sugar and spice and all things nice.” Guys on the other hand are “Snips and snails, and puppy dogs tails.” The battle of the sexes rage on even in nursery rhymes. ---
**Author:** ![meow333x](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ecae2f/32.png) [@meow333x](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/meow333x)\ **Post date:** [July 22, 2009, 8:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-men-put-women-in-categories/30683/120 "2009-07-22T20:07:20Z")
> [@metalTree](#): > > I kind of wish there was a sugar mama service that I could join and have women buy me expensive toys. But unfortunately I’m not good looking enough to be accepted at such a site. ☹ eh, you’re not missing out on much…i’ve already had that offer last week. but the thought of sleeping with a women twice my age just didn’t appeal to me. [Previous page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-men-put-women-in-categories/30683.md?page=5) [Next page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-men-put-women-in-categories/30683.md?page=7)