# Do pheromones really work, or is it all confidence and congruence?

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-pheromones-really-work-or-is-it-all-confidence-and-congruence/41843>\
**Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [September 18, 2010, 3:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-pheromones-really-work-or-is-it-all-confidence-and-congruence/41843 "2010-09-18T03:52:24Z")\
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**Author:** ![RisenAlpha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/54ee81/32.png) [@RisenAlpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RisenAlpha)\
**Post date:** [September 19, 2010, 2:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-pheromones-really-work-or-is-it-all-confidence-and-congruence/41843/21 "2010-09-19T02:26:09Z")

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You guys are hilarious. Great info, but honestly if this guy doesn’t care I don’t either. These guys care waaaayyyy too much. It has nothing to do with the mones either. These are the kind of people that just care about improving the lives of others. People like Tish, Steve, and Radman give out information freely that other people pay hundreds of dollars for. People pay for the information they give away freely.

This thread is the exact reason that veterans on here always talk about the 90/10 rule. 90% you and 10% mones. Honestly congruency just makes sense. Why would I talk to you if you are waiting for me to come talk to you? I mean seriously. Are you showing yourself to be friendly?

Of course mones don’t work. My car also doesn’t drive itself. I have to get in, turn it on, put it in gear, and hit the accelerator. Then I have to watch out for all of the signals of the other cars and the road signs. Human communication is very complicated. Mones are just another tool that allows you to increase your communication abilities.

I would tell you to skip the mones. Learn how to communicate. Learn verbal and nonverbal skills. Learn to read body language and speak with your own body.

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**Author:** ![Jabez](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jabez/32/2193_2.png) [@Jabez](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jabez)\
**Post date:** [September 19, 2010, 2:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-pheromones-really-work-or-is-it-all-confidence-and-congruence/41843/22 "2010-09-19T02:39:19Z")

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Radman. I didn’t just put that on all at once I built up to that much in a month and a half period time.

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